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Let men addicted to women, have this fatal advantage!

She would seize these advantages of her husband. Whenever he did something at home, such as never receiving a ticket for driving, Sister Qin would praise him. He was a very prudent and powerful man. ? For example, when my husband repaired the broken electrical appliances at home, he was very patient. She would also praise him for his brains and good thinking. No matter how difficult things were, he would fix them in his hands. For example: they go out together, the husband sees someone else's bag zipper is open, will go up to remind that person. Qin sister kua husband is a very warm-hearted person, three view is, if for her, may not want to go to remind.

By testPublished 4 months ago 6 min read
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Here's a question on Zhihu:

What did you learn after you got married?

One of the most liked responses was:

Men love sweet talk more than women.

This sentence means, simply put: you have to be able to praise men!

What? Kua man?

For throwing his smelly socks around? No cleaning? Don't do housework? No kids? Love to play games

Don't scold him is very good, really find no reason to praise him....

If you really think that, then your marriage is almost half over.

If you're always laying him down and ripping him apart, your marriage is almost over!

There is a sentence in Zammd of Death Thoughts: "Men do things that women praise no matter how old they are."

If you are IN marriage, HAVE a pair of eyes good at finding beauty, and good mouth, then you must be a much-loved woman!

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Sister Qin always has a gentle smile, giving people an impression of being very easy to get along with, but also giving people a kind of delicate and pitiful, to protect the object. And Sister Jean's husband looked a little grumpy, not too close to the human appearance, people have a sense of distance.

Once at a family gathering, the man's aunt jokingly said to him, "You must not bully Ah Qin at home. She is a good daughter-in-law. Keep your temper."

The MAN is a strange face, why the neighborhood outside all think he will be a bully his wife's person, at this time Qin sister smiled and said: "Aunt, you worry too much, he never to me once temper!"

Ah Qin said happily, "He may be a little fierce to outsiders, but he is very careful in doing things. He is devoted to his children and career. He is a good husband."

We can't believe it, such a temper since childhood, strong selfish big man, actually know how to hurt the wife, still can be married, the cause of the wind and water?

Qin ELDER sister and husband together at first, but also run in for two or three years, the husband is a straight-forward person, often speak to offend people. At first, even his in-laws did not believe in him.

However, Sister Qin decided that she thought her husband was a potential stock. He was very meticulous, hardworking and resourceful. ?

She would seize these advantages of her husband. Whenever he did something at home, such as never receiving a ticket for driving, Sister Qin would praise him. He was a very prudent and powerful man. ? For example, when my husband repaired the broken electrical appliances at home, he was very patient. She would also praise him for his brains and good thinking. No matter how difficult things were, he would fix them in his hands. For example: they go out together, the husband sees someone else's bag zipper is open, will go up to remind that person. Qin sister kua husband is a very warm-hearted person, three view is, if for her, may not want to go to remind.

Everything she can see and praise, she will be ungrudgingly expressed. Everyone said she was a blessed person, and her blessings were all in her mouth. Her husband is always full of light, gentle gaze, as if no matter what this man does, in her eyes, is a handsome batch, she is gentle praise, never criticize.

For men, often what you say he is, he is what, human weakness is like others praise themselves.

Ah Qin's husband's mother, originally a strict person, in her eyes, her son will never compare with others. Ah Qin's husband is often criticized, and as time goes by, he is self-abasement, suspicious and irritable.

After he met Sister Qin, his career went up and his life became better day by day, because Ah Qin understood his efforts and knew how to express her gratitude and appreciation. This made him especially energetic in everything he did, and he was willing to do more for the family to repay the wife who only had eyes for him.

If you can make a man feel that you appreciate him and value him, then he will be motivated to love you.

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Can conquer strong, must not criticism but praise, praise can put the day into a fairy tale, and picky can turn the family into a battlefield.

The same is the same family conditions of marriage, Xin Yao put the day in a complete mess, home debt four, husband and wife two for economic problems, big noisy especially noisy. Her husband lost a lot of money in business, and this time two children suddenly, Xin Yao blame her husband don't care about home, not afford the home economy don't say, also always go home late, regardless of the children, she is a person to take children, but also to consider life, is very tired.

Once, when her husband was playing a video game in the living room, she unplugged him and muttered, "All I know is to play a video game instead of doing anything serious. His face was angry. Her husband got up and left without a word of reply.

Because he knows, no matter what he does, the result must be picky, compare him with others, say he is inferior to others. You might as well hide and pretend you can't hear.

Such a long time, gradually two people even did not talk.

If the wife often does not put the husband in the eye, do not praise, do not do double criticism, where do men have energy?

Women spit roses, so that men feel like a hero, full of power; I got thistles in my mouth.

A woman's mouth, decide the rise and fall of a family.

If Xin Yao can replace the criticism with praise and encouragement from different angles, maybe she can help the man find some comfort in his failed cause and regain his passion and responsibility in life.

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A good wife will give a man a chance to brag, men call this understanding.

Remember that.

Some girls say, "My husband has no good points, nothing to brag about."

If you don't have them, look for them, and if you want the relationship to work for the best, don't be shy about paying lip service.

After all, in all the effort, this is probably the best price and return.

Know how to praise a woman, marriage must be happy!

Mark Twain once said, "I can live on one good compliment for two months." Thus, the power of praise is infinite.

When a wife really understands and grasps the true meaning of "praise", she will find that a man is not complicated at all, and "training" her husband becomes simple and easy. She can easily make her husband willing to give and do his best to make efforts.

So if you have the following problems in your marriage:

Husband:? Husband doesn't like to come home? Not ten sentences a day?

Mother-in-law: No matter what you do, mother-in-law always pick on you?

Children: Children disobedient, rebellious, ungrateful?

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