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When to give up, be wise.

Making a wise judgement on when to give up is important.

By Wajiha KhanPublished about a year ago 4 min read
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When to give up, be wise.
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Sporadically, I've discovered that setting goals are essential. Considering that it might become limiting, unchanging, and reflect an identity-stabilizing perspective that you shouldn't have.

Exploring enthusiasts should be aware that we finally have to ship a product. We must complete the tasks we begin. The relationship between identity and goals should be examined in this essay.

We must develop the ability to set and maintain attainable goals and recognize the true causes of our failures.

It's essential to change constantly. You develop as you gain knowledge of the outside world and yourself. You discover the inaccuracy of an outdated technique. A new way of thinking that you desire to adopt comes to light. Your trajectory is altered by someone you meet.

As you acquire more knowledge about reality, you develop as a person and you should change. You should consider yourself to be a living, changing being that reacts to its surroundings. You will become obsolete if you don't adapt. Only a select few have continued to reinvent themselves to reach even greater heights of brilliance among the many once-great things that have degenerated and failed in the world. All devices eventually disintegrate, dissolve, and have their components reused to build new devices. We are part of that.

If you aren’t reinventing yourself, if you aren’t adapting in response to discovery, you’ll fail. And this is the problem that I’ve always had with goals. You should change. A stable identity is either a sign of ignorance or enlightenment (and it’s probably the former). Goals don’t change. When you set a goal a year or even a few months down the line, you are taking a bet on what your future self would want based on what you currently want.

Never feel guilty if you don't complete a task. A side project is comparable to a book. It's not a good idea to push yourself to finish a book. It is not your responsibility if you don't finish a book. The author is to blame. An abandoned site project is also not your issue. It's the concept itself that no longer merits your time and attention.

Your prior conceptions of what is worthwhile disintegrate as you gain more knowledge about the world. Your current thoughts defeat your previous goals. Even though you might have believed your aim was a good one three months ago, it doesn't exactly make sense now. As a result, you give up and continue with your life.

Well, that's accurately what occurred to the writer; he decides that creating a newsletter becomes no longer be a useful use of that time, and he tries to move on. Sincerely, people will adore that writer's work, but he lost sight of his writing self. He might not have done so.

Everything is driven by identity, which is constructed from habits. No matter what you do, you are. These practices also produce results. You fall short of reaching your objectives. Your systems determine how high you can fall. Identity is the ambitious force of results.

Even though you may have noble intentions, nothing gets accomplished until everyday action supports those intentions. Every action we take is influenced by who we are. We act in certain ways because we are that kind of person.

Accountability entails not caring about your personality, interests, or goals. To be held accountable, something must be shipped.

It is generally accepted that failure to work hard enough to achieve goals is the cause of failure. It is not my intention to contest such knowledge. Furthermore, it is often true that failure to accomplish a goal is due to a lack of effort. Furthermore, it can also be due to a lack of resources, but it seems most people can account for this when they set their objectives; the assumption that fails is that they'll work diligently to accomplish those goals. This doesn’t mean you’re lazy, though.

Most people fail because they set new goals, rather than because they are incapable of failing. They select a new objective because they feel that their identity has evolved since they first selected a goal. Goals are inspired by identities. Identities are forever changing, but goals aren't changing. They start in the beginning. It starts with the goal itself, but not its execution.

A goal should be in line with your values; otherwise, you shouldn't be pursuing it. While much of our identity is fluid, certain essential elements remain constant. For instance, I've been working toward the same goal of developing tools that promote personal growth for more than a year. Establish your values clearly, and only select goals that are consistent with them.

When you set the appropriate objective, you'll maintain it. It is no longer a matter of your changing identity; rather, it is a matter of your ability to put in the effort.

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