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9 Tips To Make Friends At Work

Integrating into the new job and team is crucial, don't you think?

By Ryan MillerPublished 2 years ago Updated 2 years ago 3 min read
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9 Tips To Make Friends At Work
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The atmosphere at work is very important, people will handle things better if they respect each other and feel that they fight for the same goals.

People spend 8–9 hours a day at the office, so the connections between people are vital. Statistics show that this kind of relationship motivates employees to come with pleasure to work and keep their enthusiasm throughout the day, working out of the dispute.

New beginnings are difficult even for the most sociable persons, but with the right mindset, people can manage this experience easier. 

In this article, I will provide you with a list of things you need to do, to start a friendship at the office.

Take the first step:

People usually avoid doing the first step. Take initiative, greet the others when you get in the room, smile and be positive.

Introduce yourself:

To begin, make sure you're introducing yourself to everyone you meet–use downtime in the kitchen, before a meeting, at the water cooler, or in the elevator to do so.

Inquire about their team, their favorite aspect of working at the firm, their weekend plans–anything! Small talk may be scary, so here are some subjects to consider in advance to ensure a smooth chat.

Start the conversation:

If you want to make friends at the office fast, you need to be talkative. Talk with others about work, hobbies, or ask for their technical advice, because the things are new for you. The way you talk and listen is very important when you want to make a first good impression.

Learn how to listen:

More important than speaking is to show them that you are capable of listening. Nobody wants to hear you speaking about yourself, it's better to prove to them that you are a good conversation partner by listening and reacting to what others say. Good listeners are hard to find in this world where everyone is concerned only with their person.

Do not forget about manners:

As I have already stated, the first impression counts a lot. People are used to sticking labels on new people and it's very important to be attentive to the way you behave, to gestures and language, to all those aspects that make you a civilized and well-groomed person. No matter how friendly everyone is supposed to do, it does not suppose you should behave the same way as with your 7-year-old friends.

Join a group:

You must join a group, a group where you feel good and where you can spend breaks during the program.

Do your job well:

The easiest way to earn respect is to do your job well. Work hard, help others if and when you can, and struggle to perform well. If you do a poor job, your social skills will not help you earn respect and become a leader. Do not forget the reason you are there - workplace friendships are meant to make your office hours more beautiful, not turn them into exits.

See the big picture:

It is very important to see the big picture, to appreciate the beautiful things in the professional environment, without being disappointed why it does not meet your expectations. Observe the details, have a positive attitude and emphasize the beautiful things that bring everyone a smile on their lips.

Suggest drinks or dinner after work:

Ask a small group (start with your immediate team if you're not sure who to ask) whether they'd like to get beverages or meals near the office. The relaxed atmosphere will allow you to talk about things other than business, and you'll be able to connect on a more human level.

It isn't so difficult, isn't it?

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