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WOULD YOU DUMP YOUR MARRIAGE PARTNER FOR 50,000K???

LADIES STOP DATING MEN FOR MONEY

By Lyon BravePublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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Lyon Amor Brave is not a gold digger!

Love is a sacred emotion and the reason so many men and women are unhappy in their marriages is because their marriage is based on convenience and not love.

Let’s be honest, there are a lot of people who if you gave them 50,000 dollars to dump their marriage partner they would. That means the relationship is not based on love, it is based on financial hardships and that two incomes are better than one, or his income is better than living with your chain-smoking-mother.

Considering it's the 21st century and women have been fighting for equality for centuries, I am shocked how many women are willing to give their independence and power away to a marriage of convenience.

In the 21st Century women need to find a way to make their own money and I know this can be extremely challenging, depending on your country of origin, but to not have your own money means you have little power and freedom and are at the mercy of others.

I would never want to be at the mercy of anyone because nobody will ever care about you as much as you care about you. Even if I loved the man I was with, I would still not want to depend on him for my every need. Things go good until they don't. People cheat. People change. People breakup. It is just foolish to depend on money for money.

Flash forward to the future and you are in a homless shelter because your boyfriend bobby left you for the babysitter. I have literally seen this happen to lots of women.

I would want to control my fate and my life and to do that you need your own money and cars, and houses ladies.

I am shocked how many women are willing to be completely submissive to assholes.

If you have ever been a part of a Facebook group where women are talking about being in abusive relationships, you will see that some of these women are really trapped with monsters. Not only are women living with men who bully them, but women are also experiencing physical abuse and fear on a daily basis.

The number one question people have for these women is why don’t you leave him and the women also make excuses, but the real answer is money. These women were foolish enough to rely on men for housing, food, and transport. I am sure in the beginning he was charming, handsome and promising you the moon and sky, and that’s exactly how mice traps work.

You put cheese in the trap for a reason ladies.

A lot of women end up in abusive relationships because they went looking for a man’s cheese instead of making their own. Men lay traps for racoons, bears, beavers, lions, monkeys, don’t you think do know how to trap women. When women get trapped they act surprised and confused, but what did you think would happen if you gave all your personal power away to a man.

Never depend on anyone to survive. If you had a mother who taught you the key to life was to find a husband, you really need to learn to think differently and find more empowered females, because your mother is giving you the wrong advice.

When you do not have your own resources, you are more likely to be abused and the bottom line is women who do not have their own money have less of a chance to find a good husband. Level up your own game, if you want a high quality husband, instead of Mike, with the beer belly, who is nice most days, until he gets drunk and smacks you around, but it's okay because he takes you to ihop in the morning and promises you he will quit drinking.

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