Why Do Men Always Want Sex?

The woman must be loved, not understood. That's what Oscar Wilde said. But what does sex mean to her? For a woman, sex is a way for her to confirm her beauty and sensuality. What does sex mean to a man? Let's find out!

Sex and/or feelings

The importance of sex in the life of a woman and a man differ quite a lot and this is because they have different genetic programming. Who is to blame, in the case of the man, for this continuous desire to have sex? Testosterone is the main culprit because it leads the man to think about sex, not love and pampering.

Testosterone is the main fuel for male sexual performance, but also a generator of differences in behavior and appearance between women and men.

Unlike men, women have a large amount of oxytocin. The hormone oxytocin is released by a woman's brain at four distinct times, all of which are related to reproduction, nutrition, and the care of creating a protective environment for the baby. Because of this, most women view sex in parallel with affection, with love.

How do I know if he just wants sex or wants a serious relationship?

It is very easy to know if he just wants sex or wants a serious relationship.

Be very attentive to how he treats you, to how he talks to and about you if he uses "us" or "me and you" in your discussions. It is also very important how he talks to you.

If he talks to you a lot about sex, adventures, and movies, complimenting you on your sexual touch or making it difficult for you to see how open you are to a relationship that involves more sex than love, attention, and various activities, then it certainly doesn't deserve your attention, unless you want exactly what he wants.

On the other hand, if he speaks in the plural if he always asks you what you do tomorrow, on the weekend or next week, if you like surprises and especially, if he is very curious and wants to know more about you, then, of course, this boy wants something serious and stable.

Also, be very careful about what is said about him, rumors are not just rumors, and in every gossip, there is a drop of truth. So pay attention to how others treat him, he treats others, and especially how he treats you.

If he wants to look very interesting and is very full of him, he only tells you about his adventures, about how many girlfriends he had and how he left them, then you have to give up.

 Another clue, and not necessarily the last, is the mystery. True, a mysterious guy is much more attractive than the one you can read in one movement, but remember that too much mystery speaks, and he may not whisper good things about that guy.

If you have been together for some time and have not met his friends, colleagues, although he always goes out with them in clubs, parties, and walks, then you have to ask yourself a question mark. Why? Because avoiding to know his relatives is a clear sign that he does not want you in his life for a significant period.

What to do when a man wants sex all the time?

When a man always wants sex in a relationship, it is a sign that the woman he is having sex with gives him everything he needs, at least in bed. So, having sex is not always a bad thing.

But what if the woman feels pressured?

Being a relationship, the woman can use the foundation of the relationship, which is or should be communication. The woman must have the courage to talk to her partner and clarify things. It was when the woman was doing everything she was told, it was long gone, so you can explain to your partner how things are and in this way to reach a consensus.

Another solution is to do various things together, such as going to the gym together, to the pool, then dining together and ending the evening with a movie.

Schedule a vacation together, play sports together, talk about various topics, stay in bed and read a book … together.

Men appreciate women's personalities, not their puppet behavior.

If he looks for solutions to this problem, he will be marked by the fact that he has offended you by his attitude, it is a sign that he loves you and that he wants to make you happy. If, on the other hand, you are indifferent or irritated by the problem raised by you, you should think twice before continuing the relationship.

But if you don't want to lose him, even though he's pressing you, then change roles, press him too. Play with him until he gets tired and presses him exactly when he is exhausted, this way he will live what you live and maybe he will change his mind.

Remember that the most important aspect of a relationship is communication. Don't be afraid to talk to him.