When you reach middle age, you suddenly understand

Some people say that earth is a theater, we are all actors of all kinds in the theater, their own lives are always full of a variety of roles, one of the most important role is: themselves.

In the rolling flood of society, perhaps we have long thrown our own hearts aside and simply can not hear his voice. I think this book "The Second Blossom" is a healing book to open our hearts, so that we can become joyful, transparent, no longer cling to the idea, and spontaneously look at their own lives.

In fact, sooner or later, you will understand: in fact, in life, except for life and death, the rest are just scrapes! --Subsequent Blossoms, Shia Rongbo Khenpo.

The Second Blossoming of Flowers": When one reaches middle age, one suddenly understands

There are no words in the world that can enlighten you.

What really enlightens you is an experience, and that sentence is like a match in a gunpowder store.

As someone said: no one will suddenly stop loving you, just that you suddenly know it.

The actual fact is that you'll be able to see the actual world, and you'll be able to see that the world is changing, before you suddenly wake up to some truths.

01

Suddenly you understand.

The heart of a person is curved water, the world is overlapping mountains, the human heart is complex and unpredictable, the world is unpredictable.

The ones who are good to me, I will cherish doubly; the ones who betray me, take your time; the ones who count me, will not be the next.

The most important thing is to be able to say that the aggravation is not aggravation, to be able to snatch the lover is not a lover.

As long as you do not admit defeat, all the previous setbacks will become the motivation to move forward, can not defeat me, will eventually make me stronger.

Life is good for decades, and those who laugh until the end are the winners.

02

Suddenly understood.

Life is their own boil out, no one can bear for us.

The world is walking, no one, who has been spared by life, and no one, than who lives more easily.

The world of adults is like a bottle filled with sweet and sour spices.

Life and work are intertwined, pain and laughter mixed, bitter, is the normal state of life.

No one is born strong, are learning to work hard and strong only after falling down again and again.

No one's life is smooth, there is only the persistence behind the clenched teeth.

Born as a human being, inevitably encounter difficulties and twists and turns, will not be discouraged, do not give up, hold on means everything

The road of life, the bitterness and happiness of their own, through the storm to see the rainbow, through the valley will be straight up, clear sky.

03

Suddenly, I understand.

All things should be open-minded, let nature take its course, what is yours is yours, not your forced also no results.

Life, not everything will be as it should be, not everyone as you want, too much care will only seek trouble, too much obsession will only be more disappointed.

The first time in life, do not let the unwillingness, pain, helplessness fill their hearts.

The past people, to learn to put down; the past things, to learn to let go.

The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a couple of days.

All lost, in fact, did not really belong to you, for this regret and chagrin, there is no point, people have to learn to go forward, look ahead, the future can be expected.

There is no need to spend time on unhappy things, let nature take its course, no need to worry.

04

Suddenly understood.

Parents, always the people who love you the most, must know how to be grateful.

Perhaps, with the change of time, your parents may help you less and less, but they give you all they have and never hide.

Perhaps, there are many people who have helped you and you have sincerely thanked them, but never said a word to your parents who gave you life and raised you.

We always used to leave the best side of ourselves to others, but leave the worst side of ourselves to our parents.

Because we know that our parents will never be bothered with us, will tolerate and forgive us.

But time is the most relentless, wait until your parents grow old, wait until your parents are gone, you will know that the people who love us the most in the world, is always our parents.

Therefore, we must know how to be grateful, good to parents, filial piety parents do not wait for the coming day, because the coming day is not a long time.

05

Suddenly, I understand.

Not sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity, not pay will be rewarded.

As the saying goes, "A liter of rice feeds a benefactor, a bucket of rice feeds an enemy". To others too generous, regardless of the return, but in the end will hurt themselves.

Instead of taking the effort, it is better to spend time and energy on yourself and live a good life.

Life is just a few decades, don't waste your time on people and things that aren't worth it.

The rest of your life is short, leave time for the important people around you and for the things you love.

Do not be submissive, do not deliberately please, simple and happy to live their own reckless life!

The Tibetan wise man Xi'a Rongbo Khenpo said in his book "The Second Blossom", "Let go of your thoughts, remove all the material world, let go of your physical thoughts, and let go of your obsessions, then you will be able to see the unseen state, this is the practice."

With his wise and soft words, he speaks about the topics of suffering, precious life, I-ness, life, and cultivation in a modern way of thinking and expression, giving us encouragement and inspiration.

The book "Sublime Blossoms" came out and was loved by everyone, becoming a treasure trove of inspiration for many people in their work, spirituality, practice, and life, helping many people to get out of trouble and understand the true meaning of life.

Life is more like a practice full of sufferings, which is not easy. If you want to live a good life, you have to cultivate yourself, make yourself strong inside, and face all kinds of difficulties and obstacles calmly.

I remember that Fan Deng said, "In The Second Blossom, I knew for the first time what true freedom is. The way to read this book is to turn a page at random and read on, all with spiritual gains."

If you are experiencing life's misery and life's worries at this moment, the book "The Second Blossom" is like a faithful friend who gives us encouragement and inspiration when we are confused and vulnerable, and through the secret of keeping the Tibetan spirit happy, we get the inspiration to live happily and face the ups and downs of life with inner wisdom.