What tickles women most is that men don't give it, but feelings will last for a long time

Emotion needs to be matched by giving and getting. If you only give or get, the final result will not be too good. For women, in love, the more intelligent and emotional intelligence a woman is, the more she can see her role and position, the more she can find the balance at both ends of love, and she won't be pampered and arrogant.

Good feelings can make men love more comfortably. If a woman asks too much, it will only make men resentful and promote emotional change. In the process of communication, women do "three don't" to men, emotional intelligence is often very high, and it is easier for men to fall under her pomegranate skirt

1, don't men's "big money"

Falling in love, it must cost money. Some women unconsciously feel that since men love themselves, it is normal for them to spend money, and it is natural for women to ask men for money. However, a man actually has a steelyard in his heart. How much you are worth and how much he is willing to pay for this relationship, he has a standard in his heart. Once he exceeds the standard in his heart, he will feel unworthy.

Women with high EQ will make men spend money and enjoy the happiness of loving women, but they will definitely not put economic pressure on men. She will have the ability to support herself. Besides, she won't ask for a man's big money unless she has to. She will only spend some of his small money, such as eating a meal and watching a movie. If it involves buying a car and investing, she won't ask for too much money from a man. Because, once you want it, you will be subject to him, or make him feel that you owe him, and it is difficult to be happy.

2. Do not give men "companionship"

Many women in love struggle with why men don't accompany themselves, whether work is more important or she is more important. In fact, this is a very stupid behavior. We should know that love is not the whole of life, and men need to support the development and sublimation of love through many things. The more you ask for a man's company, the man will only think you are not sensible and even get bored with you.

A woman with high EQ will long for the company of a man, but she will certainly master a degree. If a man really loves you and he really has time, he will take the initiative to accompany you. And if you still have to hold him when he is very busy, he will only think you are naive and delay things. A woman should have the ability to be alone. Even if her lover is not around, she can live a rich life. In this way, men will feel relaxed with you and love you more.

3. Do not give men "love words"

Women love to listen to men's love words, which will make them feel sweet and warm. Love words are also an essential existence in love, and they are often in pursuit and love, and men will talk more. And when we are together for a long time, men will talk less and less. Why is this happening? Because a man is usually rational, he will feel that it is better to show more in action than to say these meaningless words.

Women with high EQ also like to listen to men saying love words, but they will not force men to say it. She knows that love words can't bring about substantial changes. On the contrary, if men are forced to say love words blindly, they will only make men feel that this woman is boring. Moreover, she is also very clear that the meaning of love words has no other function than pleasant to hear. In contrast, she needs more men's real love for her, and from these details, find evidence that men love themselves deeply.