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What happens when you meet the right person?

The right person appears to help us create more reasonable expectations. Maybe this is because we will have the right person to have a good, balanced and respectful relationship for ourselves. We also start to see what true love looks like.

By Sophia MiaPublished 3 years ago 4 min read
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What happens when you meet the right person?

If our best match is found, we will date, pursue relationships, and try to shoot stuff when we feel like an individual or a situation is promising. When you're with the right guy, the feeling is different from when you're with someone who's just a good match. I wrote about the difference between a good match and a good catch before. I wanted to create a list that could build on this concept and explain the distinctions between being a good match and being with the right person. When I say "the right person," I mean your best match.

Your best match is not necessarily someone who has a safe and happy relationship. Moreover, someone you would consider to be your soulmate should never find everything to be perfect in life. But what you should expect or at least expect is a sense of calm. Someone discovers something genuinely peaceful when they reach the right match. Things flow naturally with the right individual. Also, this kind of honeymoon feeling you will not only experience but will last. The excitement and joy of life are illuminated by the depth of deep love you have for each other. At the same time, you can feel relieved, excited, and breathless.

You have to do a few things to find the right guy. You must be open to falling in love, risk getting hurt, remove any wall or emotional barrier you may have developed from previous relationships or experiences, and leave this hurt. You have to know what you want, know what works and what doesn't work for you in a relationship. Finally, you need to distinguish between someone who is a good catch, a good match, and the best person for you.

#1) THERE'S NO GAME PLAYING.

No weeks are gone, no waiting to receive a text, and the relationship automatically flows. It isn't always simple (love is never), but it works. It is not forced. It is not forced. Until they match, you're not bending bits. The right guy has the same priorities in mind as you, and play won't help them. You can trust him. You can trust him. Trust is so scarce these days, but he will never make you doubt him.

#2) You Stop Searching

You don't think the grass is greener everywhere else. But you pick up the grass you're on, you see it as fine. You know what you have, and you know you found it.

#3) YOU FEEL SAFE WITH HIM.

The world can be cold, but your safe place can be the right man. A man instinctively protects those he loves. "The One" takes care not to hurt anyone or something, unlike jerks before who made you feel insecure and even embarrassed. "The One" There is no better place than wrapped up in his embrace.

#4) Things Naturally Flow

Things move and sound balanced naturally. No one is placing pressure on the other. Yet, you prefer to be on the same page and take the same pace instead. You feel relaxed in your presence, rather than anxious, awkward, or uncomfortable in some way.

#5) YOU CAN RELY ON HIM WHEN THINGS GET TOUGH.

It's not easy to find someone who doesn't care about your back—most people can hardly want to re-text you. To find the right partner means to find someone for you who Will be there. He needs you to be safe, and well looked after. He's the guy for you to ride or die. Life with a strong partner by your side gets easier, and it can even literally save your life.

#6) The Honeymoon Type of Feeling Lasts

Over time and years, true love does not disappear. But instead, it becomes something that builds on the beauty and love you share and evolves into something more beautiful and meaningful.

#7) YOU NEVER FEEL ALONE

You see yourself forever with him. You don't imagine Christmas Eves alone sharing your cat with old Chinese food. You have someone with whom you can confront the universe. Whatever life brings to you, you know you can get along with him. Particularly, you never have to question that he's next to you and in your corner. He's always showing it.

#8) The "Get You" Without You Having to Explain

They love you all and consider your imperfections as perfections. Nothing you say would shock or surprise them as regards your personality. You interact easily on several levels. You're, of course, best friends.

#9) HE KEEPS YOU BALANCED.

He matches your fire, loves it, and supports it while ensuring that you do not burn out. He's there to lift you in the rough days. In the great days, if you slip, he's ready to catch you. If you're anxious, he's your serenity, and he's there to cheer you on if you feel wild. You stay balanced in the right partnership so that you never fall too hard or sail too close to the sun.

#10) You can imagine growing old with them when it is the right guy.

You look at them as your future. In life and your future, you want the same things. You think you can build with them and even have children together.

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Sophia Mia

Hey, friend! I’m Sophia, and I am a digital marketing expert. I’m so happy to see you! I appreciate your attention on my profile.

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