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Today's Women vs. Neggling

Nature of Today's women

By LunaPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Today's Women vs. Neggling
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In the 1990s, negging was a huge hit among pickpockets. What is the current efficacy of this seduction strategy on females?

Let's get this party started:

Women in the Present

The year is 2022.

Women today are more self-reliant, self-assured, and aggressive than they have ever been. Possibly more intellectual; unquestionably more intelligent.

Communism is reaching its pinnacle, and it's been said many times that today's women know exactly what they want.

They've imagined a life they want to live and are working to make it a reality.

Their options are evident, whether it's in terms of work, travel, food, clothing, cash, or anything else.

Similarly, they are clear about what they want in a guy; their dating and relationship objectives are clear, with no opportunity for compromise.

In most areas of the world, it is, in my opinion, the golden period to be a woman. With today's lady, you can't play around; she'll put you in your place.

Negative Thinking

Negging is a term that dates back to the 1990s. Pick-up artists devised it as a seduction strategy to get women to sleep with them.

The approach was developed by a group of pick-up artists who experimented with various techniques to attract ladies. At the end of the day, they'd compare notes on what worked for them.

Negging was developed as a result of their discovery that giving women backhanded compliments works.

Negging was the name given to the practice since it works by slapping ladies with Negs (negative remarks).

What is the Process of Negging?

Negging's psychology is simple: gain control of the situation by making a snarky comment unexpectedly.

Michelle, for example, is surrounded by guys who complement her. She exudes self-assurance and a sense of command.

The Negging artist then makes his appearance.

"Wow, you have such a shine on your face," the irritating artist says to Michelle. "Can you tell me how much make-up you're wearing?"

She is well aware that that is backhanded praise. However, she does not respond with a retort; her confidence is damaged.

Michelle takes a step back as the Negging artist takes command of the situation.

Now that men are in charge, women have something to worry about. They are looking for approval.

Michelle didn't fall for the men who made her feel in charge, but she's in bed with the Negging artist seconds afterward.

Pick-up artists say that highly attractive females in the 8 to 10 range are good prospects for negging. These women are at the top of the social ladder, and when they lose control, they become vulnerable.

Negging has succeeded in the past, with several success tales of women finding themselves in bed with men who had insulted them minutes before.

Women who are clever, educated, and self-reliant are among them.

Today's Women and Negging

Negging is a method of exploitation. The ladies who are being hunted were nothing but bait to be consumed in bed.

Negging was not well-known in the 1990s. People were not as socially linked as they are now. Back in the day, the technique was a huge success.

However, there is a wealth of information accessible today on how to avoid being a victim of negging. The negging strategy is well-known among women who are actively dating.

What happens when negging meets today's lady, I wondered?

I stumbled upon Emily Vernam's piece during my study.

She explains: I was on a date with someone a few years back, and he asked me where I was from. I informed him that I was born in the United States, but that my parents are Indian immigrants. He had a puzzled expression. “India? You're quite attractive for an Indian... 

There's a blatant effort at negging here. But we don't know if he was successful or not.

Most of the negative reports on the internet are from 6 to 10 years ago. They're merely being re-circulated due to the fact that websites want content.

I also discovered this website, which is maintained by Jesse, who claims to have been "getting people laid" since 2001.

In 2010, he wrote the essay Negging Women – Amazing Negs That Work. Is it still possible to use the negs? We have no idea.

Is Negging Effective in Today's World?

When the dating market booms in 2022, I'm sure guys will attempt anything to entice women into bed.

I'd want to enlist your assistance in determining the effectiveness of today's negging against women.

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