This Whole Chaser & to be Chased Theory:
Today's View of Love
Why would you want to chase someone who makes you feel unwanted? Or Why would you have to pretend you do not want someone-when that is all you want?
I mean, what kind of "love" is that?
It is a really poor childish interpretation of the concept of love, and I am well aware, that "love" is subjective. But-even so, It just makes think that somewhere along the lines of growing-up, you or your circumstances gave "love" those characteristics, and you never went back and double check them nor update them
Have in mind, that "love" is also subjected to changes. Meaning, your concept of "love" as a child or a teenager should have changed as you reached adulthood--due to all the experiences that you go collecting through the years of..., "I do not want this" "I want that."
I cannot be one to entertain this whole chaser and chased theory. It is not my essence. Why would I like that? Why would I make someone, I say, I love and care for-feel so unwanted-to the point, for him to want me?
I cannot, I simply do not like that. That would be me playing with my own life, feelings, and my own precious beautiful time. If I want someone or something-for that matter, I would put the effort and the attention that it needs-to a certain limit. And if I do not want it, I simply do not even go looking at it.
But-I wonder, How come this theory works so well? I mean, it even seems that the universe goes by this theory.
I mean, have you ever noticed?
Maybe, as twisted as it sounds, the secret in life to obtain what one desires—it is to not give it attention. Meaning, acknowledging that one wants what one wants but without going and chasing after it. Maybe, it is about admitting you want it but taking your attention and time with you somewhere else.
I mean, have you really ever noticed it?
Whenever you ask for something or whenever you want something, and you constantly ask for it to the universe—and the more you ask, the less you see it. The more you want it—the less it gets there. So, you get tired of asking—you get quite disappointed, but you keep going with your life as if you never even asked for it.
But then, it happens!
The thing you asked for, gets to your life. And, you probably do not even remember wanting it, and most likely, you are not even sure if you still want it.
Ironic much, huh?!
That seems to be life, and not just with the materialistic things. Butt also, this theory seems to be present in achieving all type of relationships with individuals, and it is successful at it. I mean, has it ever happened to you?
One day, you are crazy about this individual—you want that individual, but at that time, that individual wants anything but you. And, at the first sight of moment that you are not longer chasing or interesting in that particular individual—they appear back in your life with a “Hey!” and what it is even weirder—they are back wanting you.
So, it seems the secret in life to get what you want, it must be to be able to be insignificant towards the things that you are dying to have. Maybe because nobody likes to feel the pressure of things, people and things like to feel free, like to think that they are choosing something because that is what they want to do—when in reality, this is a whole powerful controlling master game.
About the Creator
Alessandra Santos
**Ocean Addict**
I have my inspirational moments.
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