The Woe-Men

I read somewhere that “A wombed-man (woman); loves, cares, honors, and respects her husband, while a “woe-man” is stubborn, aggressive, clamorous, uncooperative, bossy, arrogant, contentious, ... She is unbending, unyielding, dangerous, and impossible to lead”.

It is futile to strive to perform the Sacred duties of a husband as it is expected for a woman that is rebellious. This is why the Sacred Scriptures affirms that it is better to pitch a tent in the wilderness than to cohabit with a brawling woman. It is simply impossible to husband a woe-man, and this is why many men go their one way or are leading free agent lifestyles where they have no commitment whatsoever to the female.

You can try all you want, but a clamorous woman cannot make a good wife. Not only is she unaccountable, but she is also uncooperative and will most assuredly take the winds out of your sails. This is perilous. She mostly lacks the capacity to take responsibility for her own actions, and her need to be right come first all the time. She demands worship like an idol. A woeman is headless.

In the book of Genesis, we are presented with the phenomenon that typifies the woeman. The first woman demonstrated the archetype of a woeman when she directly rebelled against the authority of her husband, and her maker. She disobeyed the instruction that she was given, and instead chose to pursue the wicked desires of her heart. The consequences of her choice were fatal, and we are to this day reaping the effects of her misstep. The tendency to revolt against authority is innate in every woman.

The Most-High gave to the woman the uncanny gift of influence. It is a great power to wield, but many of them yield themselves to evil, and what is a gift becomes a vice. A woman can manipulate you into doom (think Adam). The ones who manipulate become woe-men.

Life happens to us all. We are not always the best judges of character (of our own, and others) but, it behooves us as men to exercise discretion, and be prudent in the choice of who we decide to make a wife. It does not matter how confident, intelligent, and assertive you are as a man, if your choice is flawed, you will experience pain.

Please read my article on the factors to consider when vetting a female.

There are not many things that can kill a man faster than marrying a woeman. The pain that comes with such an error can effectively short circuit the life of a man. I beseech you to please engage wisdom in this matter. It goes without saying that marriage is not for every man. The Scriptures are very clear what kind of man requires a helper; if you are not that man, it is better for you to be alone.

I am writing a three-parts article on the attributes of an eligible male man.

My prayer for every young male man out there is that you will be wise; that you will by discipline, and discretion escape the wiles of a headless woeman.

Sirach 25:19-20

[19] All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her. [20] As the climbing up a sandy way is to the feet of the aged, so is a wife full of words to a quiet man.

From the streets, she came, and to the streets, she shall return.

Shalom.