The Secret To Fill The Void In A Relationship

When love sprouts, it feels like a spring, but over the years in a relationship, the same love faces the hot summer, and the couples change their colors and fall short in love. At last, the bond turns cold and turns to a leafless winter. Many of us face this, but only a few of us thrive until the next love spring with the same person.

Preserve The Brittle Heart

Our heart already stretches out and stresses like a rubber band for n number of things. It is better if we don't pull the string and break our hearts. It is necessary to plant our fragile heart with the love it needed to preserve the plant in the pot.

The Void As In Space

Just take a look through the years you crossed your togetherness. Do you feel something is in short? Many relationships die a slow death only because there is a void built over time.

A lot of factors create this void in your relationship. But an important factor is the lack of attention to the other by either one or both.

In the early days of a relationship, the urge to create a feeling of belonging makes the couple to shower love on each other. As days pass by, the sense of commitment pressurizes the love. It is this stage where love makes or breaks.

With three effective mantras, it is quite easy to fill the void with love and make the seed of love to grow again.

Speak With And Not Speak About

Many of us lose our love and relationship because we have fear, the fear of losing them if we talk about what we feel at our hearts. The problem worsens if we start speaking about them to someone to solve the issues. Speak about things that bother you then and there with your love of life. Talking behind the back makes a ball of mess.

Frank talks will fix the problems. It is as simple as that.

Take A Break From The Trend

Eating your favorite cake is yummy. It feels great for the first time. But what if you eat the same cake for breakfast, lunch, and dinner? It doesn't sound a great idea, Am I right? What if you eat the cake every day? It makes you sick. The same is with the relationship.

If you are addicted to a regular boring routine in your life, the relationship sours.

Break the trends, explore new things. Think of ways to make your relationship spicy. Too much sweet turns your taste-buds bitter. Do things together that you have never done before. Be adventurous. Be silly. But don't let the seriousness of argument enter into your love life. It is like a weed in your garden. When it appears, pull it out and throw it away.

Remember A Spark Creates Wildfire

It all initiates with a spark, be it love or hate. One spark creates the wildfire. A moment of happiness creates a ripple of delight. Same way, it all starts with a trigger of feeling, and it turns out to be a wide gap between the two hearts.

When there is a lack of togetherness, check out if it's in your mind.

If it is, work on it and don't allow it to grow. If you feel it is a problem of your partner, indicate to him/her that it is high time to take a workaround.

Either way, try to fix it because always remember it will take a lot of time to create, but it takes just a spark to destroy.