The real pattern

A person's pattern, to a large extent, determines his ceiling and the end.

People with a small pattern can only be confined to their limited perception and vision, it is difficult to achieve great things.

Only with a large pattern, can develop a life of depth and breadth.

But people with a big pattern, many times will not let you see it at first glance, they may look very ordinary at first glance, acting very low-key.

Most of them have their light inside and their wisdom hidden in their hearts.

The "Ghost Valley" says: "The transformation of heaven and earth, in the high and deep; the sage's way of governance, in the hidden and hidden."

People who have a big pattern, know how to "hide deep".

Chinese Taiwanese lyricist Zhang Nu, one of the famous "Three Great Lyricists", composed or filled in more than 80% of Teresa Ting's lyric works, and some people said: "Without Zhang Nu, there would be no Teresa Ting.

Zhang Nu, however, replied.

"Teresa Ting's success is the result of her efforts. If someone else had written songs for her, she would have become famous."

"I can also say that without Teresa Ting, there would be no Chung Nguyen."

Because of his outstanding achievements in lyric writing, Pepsi Awards gave him the "Lifetime Achievement Award", but in a media interview, he said.

"This award is not flattering to me, and I am ashamed to accept it. Although I have written songs for fifty years, I have not contributed much to society."

Like Mr. Zhang Nu, people who are truly accomplished often do not take their achievements as the capital of pride, let alone be complacent and loudly proclaim their achievements.

Because they know that the past achievements have become past tense, if lying on top of the fondness, will only make their footsteps.

And for those who have a little achievement will be full of world publicity, lest others do not know the people, is precisely a reflection of his shallowness and ignorance.

Wise people know that real achievement is the achievement that is seen and recognized by others, not by their bragging and showing off.

The front runner flaunts personal merit and may bring unnecessary trouble.

There was a colleague Xian Lin, irreconcilability is not bad, but he thinks highly of himself, that his position and treatment aren't worth the effort.

To let the big boss know how powerful he is, he frequently in his circle of friends on their work various achievements, and takes advantage of various opportunities to approach the big boss.

Wanted to let him know that he is more than the top boss, capable of doing, great credit.

Xiaoping even added oil and vinegar to the achievements of colleagues and the top boss added to their heads, which led to great dissatisfaction among colleagues, but also made the boss feel threatened.

Later, Xian Lin everywhere by the top boss crowded, the work is not open, a small mistake is also magnified, and finally was "optimized" off.

As the saying goes, "shoot the birds in the head", do not show off their achievements, both low-key and humble philosophy of dealing with things, but also the wisdom of life to protect oneself.

Many times, the personal achievements you show off, in the eyes of some people, is to side-step their failures.

No one but your parents will be happy about your accomplishments, especially the ones you flaunt in high profile over and over again.

What you have to overcome, Maugham said, is your vanity, your desire to show off.

Don't hold yourself up too high, it will only make you fall harder.

When I watched the TV series "Soldier Assault", I was impressed with the character of Chennai in the show.

Compared to X San duo, who is a simple and stubborn man, Chennai is "smart and clever".

He has a strong sense of purpose and is always playing smart to achieve his goals.

He carried three kinds of cigarettes with him, and when he saw the platoon commander, company commander, he toasted ten yuan of Tasha, when he saw the squad leader, he pulled out five yuan of Red River, and when he saw his ordinary comrades, he shared three yuan of Changchun.

The comrades around him, are very unpleasant to him seeing they are under the dish behavior, while Chennai himself is very proud, thinking they will do things, will do people.

To go farther in his military career, he left the Steel Seventh Company, which claimed to "not abandon, not give up", and went to the Red Third Company.

The 4944th soldier of the 7th Steel Company thus became the first soldier in history to jump ship.

But the abacus crackled, but he ran into walls everywhere, but also in the evaluation of the special force, by squadron leader Yuan Lang to lack of team spirit, in the battlefield is not trustworthy, for the reason that abandoned him.

National master Zen Shijiazhuang once said, "Smart outward is called shrewd, people should never be shrewd, shrewd people are the most disadvantaged."

If a person is so smart that others know he is smart, he either incurs jealousy and suppression, or makes people respect him away, and ultimately is a mistake.

Only those who are not satisfied with a bottle and a half bottle wobbly people will be smartly written on the face.

The truly great people know how to keep their sharpness inside and keep their light under wraps.

They do not care about small things and can be confused about confusion, but the big things can afford to take down.

And muddle people, is the small things everywhere to show off smart, arrogant and arrogant, and ultimately too calculating, not only can not get what you want but will lose more.

Wood in the forest, the wind will destroy them; pile out of the bank, and the flow will be turbulent.

Walking in the world is the most brilliant philosophy of dealing with things, not "the organs of calculation", but "not to reveal the sharp edges".

People with great styles know how to restrain their desire to show.

There is a saying that goes like this.

"All the superiority does not come from wealth, status, achievement, and power, it only comes from the lack of insight."

Deeply believed.

In the reality show "Heartwarming Offers," intern Wang Snap graduated from Stanford University with good abilities and a dazzling resume, but was frequently criticized.

From the very first day, he kept saying "Stanford".

From the mug to the intern lanyard to the phone case, all of them have the word "Stanford" printed on them.

When working with teammates, he always tries to be superior.

When it was clear that he had made a common sense mistake, he teased them, "Maybe we didn't go to the same law school."

As the filter of the prestigious school faded, the lawyers who were teaching him began to re-evaluate him, and a few who were not as educated as him began to emerge as leaders.

A truly powerful person doesn't put superiority on his face or flaunt his so-called status and accolades, because he doesn't need to exalt himself in such a way.

They understand that it is not noble to deliberately prove one's superiority over others and that it is really powerful to put down one's stature and stance.

The little bit of starlight on the actor is most of the time brought to you by the character.

When you come down from the role, from the screen, you are an ordinary person.

The fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these.

If the role does not require it, she would rather always hide in her corner, to be an ordinary person, polishing her acting skills, and serious life.

A person who is rich at heart will not flaunt what he has.

The truly educated people have long forgotten their "identity" and put down their sense of superiority.

People who have too much superiority tend to be confined to their self-imposed dilemmas, self-righteous and difficult to go far.

After all, "weakness and ignorance are not obstacles to survival, arrogance is."

The Chinese have a word for the highest state of the wise, called great wisdom.

People who have great wisdom often look rather foolish.

That is a simple state they present after they see everything and stop whitewashing and disguising.

The real pattern of the people, will not show off their brilliance, they tend to be simple, simple, and clumsy.

To themselves, they know how to properly place the light, will not let themselves alone, can do the heart of the pearl, and not show the sharpness.

To others, they are never bossy, everywhere show superiority, they know, wealth has a lot, learning has the dept, but no one is noble or low.

People who have a big pattern, not everywhere "show", but at all times "hide".

Hide talent in simple appearance, hide wisdom in humble words and actions.

Only in this way, on the road of life, to walk a long, steady line.