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The Most Embarrassing Situations In The Bedroom

And how to avoid them

By Sunshine JanePublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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The Most Embarrassing Situations In The Bedroom
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You have probably been in delicate situations many times, in which you have been confused and you have not shown much presence of mind.

This category also includes the bedroom blunders, with which you unpleasantly "caught" your boyfriend and which made you feel extremely embarrassed and not at all sexy.

If you are one of the lucky ones who have not yet experienced these unpleasant moments, it is good to know what are the things you should not do in bed, if you want perfect intimate moments with your partner.

Find out what are the most embarrassing situations in the bedroom, which you should avoid so as not to ruin the intimate moments spent with your boyfriend!

Use funny caresses

"Sweet" and "fluffy" caresses, associations with different animals, or funny and cute characters are natural in a relationship, as long as they are accepted by both partners and are a mutual way of expressing feelings.

Even if there is evidence of affection and tenderness, it is not recommended to use this type of name in intimate moments, because they can bother your boyfriend and can make him feel unmasked and not at all attractive.

To make sure you don't spoil the charm of romantic moments, tell your partner by name - and you'll make him feel important to you and feel wanted at the same time - or use nicknames like "sweetheart", "sweetheart", "my love".

You remember the sexual experiences with your ex-partners

When it comes to embarrassing situations in the bedroom, there is nothing more unpleasant for your boyfriend than to compare his sexual "performance" with those of your ex-partners, whether these comparisons benefit him or not.

The fact that in such intense moments you remember other men with whom they had similar experiences will suggest to your boyfriend that you are not completely involved, that it does not make you feel good, and that you treat moments of intimacy superficially.

If you want your relationship to work, don't build it on comparisons of any kind and learn to know your partner and appreciate him for what he is, and if the things you discover don't satisfy you, don't insist on a relationship that doesn't work. you can dedicate your body and soul.

You blame him for forgetting about condoms

You probably think it's normal for your boyfriend to be the one to make sure the condoms aren't missing when you need them.

This idea is an outdated concept because it is natural to both take care to protect yourself so that you are not stressed by the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy.

If your boyfriend doesn't always carry condoms with him, it's worth it. This should tell you that he doesn't want you just for sex and that he appreciates any moment next to you.

So, instead of making a scene full of reproaches and nerves, you can start a petting game or you can run to the nearest pharmacy to buy condoms.

You get dressed as soon as the sex party is over

Few women have no complexities related to their physical appearance and most likely you fall into this category.

The waistband or the few inches on the thighs should not become reasons for stress, which will prevent you from sitting naked in front of your boyfriend.

Moreover, your partner does not analyze your defects during sex, on the contrary, he wants you to be uninhibited and sexy because that way he also feels wanted.

You will make him feel weird if as soon as he ejaculates, instead of kissing and caressing him, you rush to get dressed or covered up, as if the whole sex was a torment rather than a moment of tenderness and dedication. If you are unhappy with your body, do not hide behind clothes or bedding, but do sports and diet. You will feel much more beautiful and more confident.

You use too much makeup and parfume

It is natural to want to look good around your boyfriend, to feel sexy and provocative, but do not overdo it.

The foundation layers, the sticky gloss, the intensely make-up eyes, and the excess sprayed perfume will not delight the partner too much, on the contrary, they will confuse him and give him the feeling that he should not touch you, for fear of damaging you " Opera House

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