The five most important words in life
The five most important words in life
One of the most cherished phrases: "I love you."
When you hear this phrase, it means that you have reaped the love of another person. Under the sky, is there anything sweeter, more intoxicating, more joyful and happier than being loved?
When you say this, it means that you have found the ideal love partner. In the bustle of the crowd looking for, finally one day, you see a light: "She (he)!"
With love, you will no longer be alone; with love, you will no longer be confused; with love, you will no longer be adrift; with love, you will no
No longer easy. Love is a choice, a kind of enjoyment, but also a motivation, a responsibility.
The second most relieving phrase: "I'm coming."
Everyone has a time when they need help the most. After an exhausting week at work, when you want to enjoy a relaxing weekend, you suddenly find that the plumbing in your house is broken. You call the plumber, and when he says, "I'll be right there," you undoubtedly feel a great sense of relief. When you are driving on a busy road, your car suddenly stalls and the cars behind you form a long line, beeping their horns desperately. When you call a friend in a hurry, when he says "I'm on my way", your heart will immediately fall like a stone to the ground.
The third most confidence-growing phrase: "I believe you can do it."
A good teacher told me that one of her tricks to educate students is to often find students to talk to them individually. And whether it was a student with good academic performance or a student with poor academic performance, she said to them, "I believe you can do it." As a result, almost all of the students she has taught are full of confidence. Those who "can" are more "can", and those who "can't" are also "can".
This reminds me of Sun Yat-sen's saying: "If you believe that it is feasible, you will be able to move mountains and reclaim land, but you will be able to succeed; if you believe that it is not feasible, you will be able to break the branches of the palm of your hand, and you will not be able to achieve results." This is true not only for students, but also for adults. When a person encounters difficulties, makes mistakes or hesitates, if his leader or his friend says "I believe in you" or "I think you can do it", then he will soon have the courage.
Four of the most people can get rid of the whispered words: "Go your way, let people talk!"
My father once told me, "If you want what others can't have, you have to pay what others don't pay.
out. If others rest you also rest, others work you also work, others how to live you also how to live, then only what others get, you also get." Indeed, the successful in life, always see farther than others, think deeper than others, do more than others. But often also with the wind, cold words and even gossip accompanied. Therefore, whenever you hear different voices, you should both check your words and actions and be more determined, "Let people talk!"
Five of the most difficult and yet most resolving words: "Maybe you're right."
This statement is like telling a person to put down his weapon in the heat of battle, admit his mistake in the middle of an argument, is a very hurtful thing. But in many cases, saying the words will extinguish burning anger, calm roaring minds, put down flailing fists and feet, and bring about a convergence of divergent opinions. Not only will much harm and damage be avoided, but overall unity and stability will be maintained. This phrase is especially important in family disputes. When a couple is quarreling over a little thing, if one of them says this first, then a lot of conflicts, will come to an end. In fact, since they love each other, since they have been living together, what is the principle issue that must be fought over? The first thing you need to do is say "maybe you're right" and you won't lose anything.
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