The 20 Things You Should Never Do To Yourself

The social psychologist Festinger has a very famous behavioral theory, known as Festinger's Law: 10% of life is made up of what happens to you, and the other 90% is determined by how you react to what happens.

The American social psychologist Festinger has a famous theory of behavior that is known as "Festinger's Law".

　　Ten percent of life is made up of what happens to you, and the other 90 percent is determined by how you react to what happens.

　　In other words, if you do 1 thing wrong, you may need to do 9 things to make up for it, chasing after mistakes you will get further and further wrong.

　　If you want to change yourself, please never do the following 20 things to yourself.

　　1, do not entangle with rotten people and rotten things

　　Zhou Guoping said.

　　Life should have the wisdom of not competing. Often competing with the same good, not with the fool on the short and long.

　　And the wrong people entangled, will only drag you into the muddy quagmire. Do not tangle with rotten people and rotten things, because your good time is worth wasting on all the good things.

　　2、Lifelong learning, do not stop

　　The times abandon you, are not going to say goodbye to you.

　　No progress is the biggest step backward.

　　You run forward with all your might, not to change the world but to not be abandoned by the world.

　　3, be yourself, do not blindly imitate others

　　You can be a whole day into a Fan Bingbing, but can not read a day into a Lin Huiyin. Other people's beauty can not be imitated, and do not have to imitate, you have your uniqueness.

　　Everyone is born original, do not let yourself live as a pirated version.

　　4, do not lose the sense of youth

　　Youth has nothing to do with age, some people are old at 30, while some people are still young at 80.

　　Keep the sense of youth, do not compromise to life, dare to fight, dare to break through, dare to be the first, if the heart is not old, life will always be evergreen.

　　5、Don't over-consume yourself

　　You can feed your dreams with a tired body, you can take a strong body to win success, but you can not take success back to health.

　　The body is the capital of the revolution, overspending themselves, will not be worth the loss.

　　6、Don't be too idle

　　Busy when tired is tired, but busy for meaningful things will be fulfilled and satisfied; idle time, although comfortable, but idle for a long time people will be rusty.

　　Don't choose to be comfortable at the age of struggle, don't do anything but comfort yourself with ordinary and valuable.

　　7、Don't just take the road well traveled

　　People are often lost for only one reason, that is, your strength does not match your ambition.

　　Do not go straight to the flat avenue, the road of resistance even if you walk for a long time is difficult to jump out of the inherent thinking.

　　Infinite beauty in the peak, not taking the rugged road is more attractive.

　　8、Don't be afraid to make mistakes

　　Making a mistake is not terrible, terrible is never to make a mistake.

　　Mistakes are an opportunity to learn, everyone is in the trial and error growth, knows shame and courage, and knows that mistakes can be corrected is the best. (Progress = trial and error + modification + re-implementation)

　　9、Don't put your happiness on others

　　Do not attach happiness to others, because people will change, love will fall apart. The road of life is always to go on their own, no one can replace your happiness, and no one can pay for your happiness.

　　The self-sufficient happiness will not suffer from loss.

　　10、Don't always wait for everything to be ready before you start

　　Timing, location, people, and, of course, everything can be ready to win, but such times are often few and far between.

　　Do not always wait until you are ready to start, because the vast majority of miracles are man-made before they meet the time and place.

　　11、Don't ignore the subtle touches

　　Ordinary life, the flash is the subtle touches.

　　Do not ignore every beautiful moment in life, you never know which second will become the happiest moment of your life.

　　12、Don't jump to conclusions too early

　　"The sluggishness of the horse is not a blessing", do not jump to conclusions too early about anything, the gloom of this moment may be the next second is the darkness of the flower.

　　"painting skin and bones are difficult to paint a tiger, know the face of a person does not know the heart", do not jump to conclusions about anyone too early, human feelings, the world is warm and cold, you have to be careful to distinguish the good from the bad.

　　13、Don't be afraid to get hurt and refuse to start

　　Romain Rolland said: there is only one kind of heroism in the world, which is to see the truth of life, but still love life.

　　The real strength is not afraid of injury, but after the injury can be self-healing, after healing still fall to embrace a new beginning.

　　14, do not leave the bad side of the most loved ones

　　The biggest mistake we make is to give the worst temper and the worst side to the people closest to us, but give patience and tolerance to strangers.

　　15, do not humble love a person who does not love you

　　No matter how much you love someone, you can't be so humble as to lose yourself, the purpose of love is to make you better, not to get you all over the place.

　　Some love is destined to be met but not sought, do not wait for people who can not wait, do not squeeze into the world do not hard.

　　16, do not deceive yourself

　　It is much easier to deceive yourself than to deceive others, but it is much harder to wake up yourself than to wake up others.

　　People should know themselves, see themselves, face themselves sincerely, and accept themselves openly, to have a broader world.

　　17、Don't waste time explaining yourself to others again and again

　　The important people, no need to explain the also naturally understand you; not important people, a thousand words he may not put in mind.

　　The long road, you just go your own way, regardless of his gossip, no shame in the heart enough.

　　18, do not forget the original intention

　　Do not forget the original intention, the only way to get always. Have been moving forward on the road, do not forget to stop from time to time, looking back at the reason for starting at that time.

　　19、Don't always compare with others

　　Do not compare your shortcomings with the strengths of others; do not go to envy what others have and despise what you have; do not get lost in the comparison, and do not follow the map of others to find their way.

　　There are people outside the sky, you don't have to be better than others, you just have to be better than you once were.

　　20、Don't get hung up on the past

　　The past is like smoke, the past can neither change, nor erase. The human heart is like the sea, put the past in the past, to make the beginning of the beginning.

　　The person who lives the most meaningful life is not the one who lives the longest, but the one who feels the most about life.

May you, perceive life, as free and easy.

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