People who live a thorough life, know how to "make things difficult for themselves"

The more afraid of suffering, the more suffering; the more willing to suffer once saw a conversation between Hai Qing and Huang Lei.

Haiqing: "Master, why is life bitter? Life should not be sweet?"

Huang Lei: "Life is bitter, precisely because sweet is rare, sweet is very rare, so we go looking for. You ask yourself, is it bitter now?"

Haiqing: "It is bitter."

Life is a bitter journey, bitter with sweetness.

In this journey, some people are afraid to retreat, looking ahead; some people are not afraid of the wind and rain, the courage to go forward.

A person, if you just want to walk around the bitter, you will encounter more bitterness. The only way to break free from bitterness is to rise to the challenge.

Without the bitterness of the frost, you can smell the fragrance.

People who live a thorough life, know how to "ask for it".

Only through the suffering of making money

To avoid the pain of lack of money

Ni Ping once said: "relay on the mountain down, rely on people old. You will find that the last thing you rely on is yourself."

People live, if everything depends on others, when life encounters changes, you will have no power to fight.

A person, the only way to walk on their own, money to earn their own, to not fear the wind and rain, calmly forward.

Feng Xiaoqin in the hit drama "Heart Dwelling" is a foreign daughter-in-law who married in Shanghai. After marriage, she works full time at home to take care of the elderly and children.

The family's peaceful life is shattered by the unexpected death of her husband. Feng Xiaoqin lost her source of income and had to borrow money from her sister even to pay for her son's school fees.

She did not want to stay at home and feel sorry for herself, so she decided to go out to earn money and change her life's plight through her efforts.

Feng Xiaoqin is not well educated and has been out of society for many years, so she can only start by delivering takeaways.

At first, she did not know how to grab a single, always failed to receive a single, and was often by the customer complaints.

On one occasion, Feng Xiaoqin was eight minutes late in delivering food. Although she kept apologizing and enthusiastically helped the customer throw away the garbage, she was still given a bad rating.

Another time, on the way to deliver, Feng Xiaoqin was involved in a car accident and did not have time to pick up her son, so she was complained about by her family when she returned home.

Although the work is hard and not understood, she is very attentive. Every night after tutoring children's homework, she carefully writes about her work.

After a while, Feng Xiaoqin was not only able to take orders quickly but also discovered business opportunities in the elderly market during the delivery process.

She came up with the idea of starting her own business and found a partner to start the "Not Too Late Nursing Home".

Feng Xiaoqin is hard-working and willing to do everything for the sake of the elderly, and they trust her. More and more people came to her, and the "Not Too Late Nursing Home" became a model of excellence for nursing homes in the city.

Her efforts and dedication were seen by her boss, Zhan Xiang. The boss not only offered to give her a salary increase but also gave her 10% of the shares.

The increase in income allowed Feng Xiaoqin, a foreign girl, to establish a firm foothold in Shanghai. Not only did she buy the house of her choice, but also fulfilled her dream for many years.

There is a saying: "Money, very often, is the capital you need to settle down."

Making money well is the best solution to life's problems, and is the biggest guarantee against life's difficulties.

A person, only through the embarrassment of having no money at the moment, will understand that making money is hard, but the lack of money is more bitter.

After all, it's better to rely on someone else's roof to hide from the rain than to hold your umbrella more solid.

Only through the suffering of self-discipline

To avoid the bitterness of mediocrity

Read a question: "What is it that makes a person successful and famous?"

The answer is to take the initiative to do those things that make you suffer.

The more successful a person is, the more disciplined he or she is. Behind every great achievement, there is ascetic-like self-discipline hidden.

The literary genius Feng Tang, with the sentence "Spring breeze is not as good as you" has become popular in the north and south of the country. At the same time, he has also published many best-selling books, such as "All Things Grow", "Beijing Trilogy" and "Capable".

In his life, he has written poems, published books, practiced medicine, and done business, so it can be said that he has done one line of work and refined one line of work.

The most powerful thing is that every time he crosses the border, he starts from zero, but he manages to excel and achieve the top.

Feng Tang's success is due to his high degree of self-discipline.

He has a lot of work, working 90 hours a week and sleeping only 6 hours a day. But he still has a lot of energy and is extremely efficient in his work and study. In 10 years, he has read as many as 5,000 books alone.

He has 2 habits that he has stuck to for more than 30 years, and he never stops every day. One is to do 100 push-ups and 100 sit-ups every day, and the other is to look at the Kindle every night to fall asleep.

The man in his 50s, who has maintained a weight of 60 kg unchanged for decades, looks without a trace of greasiness.

Feng Tang wrote in "The Heart of Becoming" that "reading, writing, being and doing are all lifelong endeavors, and 'respect' and 'constancy' are the grip."

Very often, the gap between people lies in whether they can manage themselves well.

A person, if you can not eat the pain of self-discipline, can only envy the success of others and accept the reality of their mediocrity.

Wang Xiaobo said: "All human suffering is essentially anger at their incompetence. And self-discipline is precisely the fundamental way to solve the pain of life."

The process of life is a process of slowly becoming better.

All the metamorphosis is in the sweat of the teeth; all the reversal is in the persistence day after day.

The extent of your self-discipline determines the height of your life.

Right now, how much self-discipline you can eat; in the future, you will be able to taste the sweetness of live.

The only way to avoid the pain of loneliness

Only then can you avoid the suffering of blind obedience

Adonis wrote in "My Solitude is a Garden", "Solitude is a ladder for me to climb toward the light."

In this world, there are always things to face alone, and there are always roads to tread alone.

The sign of a person's maturity is to learn to get along with solitude, draw strength from solitude, and refine oneself in solitude.

A friend @Xiao Yin told a story.

When she graduated, she only had a diploma in accounting, so she was unable to find a job.

Later, she went to work as a cashier in a company. To improve her education, she enrolled in adult self-examination after work.

She worked during the day and spent all her time studying at night.

When others entertain themselves, she is reading; when others chat and brush drama, she is doing the questions.

In this way, after three years, she finally obtained her bachelor's degree.

After two more years, she got her CPA and successfully jumped to work in an accounting firm.

Now, Xiaoyin has not only improved her income but has also become a partner of the firm and has a business of her own.

Xiaoyin said, "The learning process was hard, but after I got through it, I realized that it was the solitude that made me who I am today."

Time spent alone is the best time for one to settle down and improve oneself.

Grandma Moses said, "When you are doing what you want to do in solitude, it is a kind of belief, a kind of persistence. It may be a trivial thing, but it becomes great because of your persistence in solitude."

What you have suffered in solitude lights up the road ahead of you.

The things you have persevered in solitude have shaped your excellent self.

On the road of life, when you learn to walk in solitude and stay awake in solitude, you will meet a more wonderful self.

Only by eating does the pain of breaking the circle

Only then can you avoid the pain of being eliminated

A group of children visited the aquarium.

One child asked the aquarium director: "When the baby shark grows up, will be put into the big shark tank?"

The curator smiled and shook his head, saying, "Small sharks in fiberglass will never grow up. The fiberglass limits their growth and they will have to stay in the small tank for the rest of their lives."

The fish tank may seem comfortable and safe, but it limits the growth of small sharks.

People are the same, only bravely out of their comfort zone, to break through the self, and harvest new growth.

In a village, there are a pair of brothers. They were both blacksmiths when they were young, visiting the streets and soliciting customers. Although the work was hard, the income was considerable.

Both brothers built a small building in the village, which was the envy of their fellow villagers.

With the development of the times, fewer people need to beat iron. The two old men no longer have a use, and can only go home to grow vegetables.

Brother lived a life of leisurely vegetable growing, no longer wanting to be so leisurely life, he decided to go to the city to learn to do wholesale business.

He started by playing hands, learning wholesale, buying, shipping, and other operational processes. Later, he accumulated some funds, and opened a store, although every day from morning to night is very hard, soon opened up the situation.

In a few years, the elder brother expanded, an set up a factory, and the days are getting richer and richer.

The younger brother, who chose to stay in the village, has been living a comfortable life of farming and playing mahjong. Over the years, he did not learn any new skills, his income is meagand er, life is stretched to the limit.

The gap between the two brothers today stems from the different choices they made at the beginning.

People who want to live comfortably are like putting themselves in a small fishbowl, seemingly escaping the wind and rain, lly losing the opportunity to grow their own.

People who step out of their comfortable lives and bravely step out of their safe and familiar areas will experience some hardships, but they also get the opportunity to break through.

Robert Iger said, "All the things you want are outside your comfort zone."

Rather than hiding in your comfort zone and waiting to be eliminated, take the initiative to jump out and see the world from a different perspective.

With more forethought and one more try, you will no longer be a frog sitting in a well.

Try to step out of your comfort zone so that unexpected joy will be waiting for you in the future.

The world is secretly rewarding people who "ask for it"

There is an excerpt: "Life is bitter, but how can you feel the sweetness of life if you have not experienced the bitterness."

Life is full of flavors, the bottom color is bitter. Whether poor or rich, living, no one can escape the bitterness.

Suffering is a necessary test of life.

One day, you will find that the road you've walked, sweat, injuries, every time you pay, will not be in vain.

The more afraid of suffering, the more suffering to eat; the more willing to suffer, the more blessings to enjoy.

Only people who are not afraid of suffering can chew life to taste and make the days sweeter and sweeter. The more you enjoy, the more you are blessed.