People who have really seen the world, often have a small temper

The broader a person's insight, the more he can accommodate the faults of others. Because he knows: that not every fish, live in the same sea.

Every person has his or her limitations.

Understanding to tolerating the limitations of others, without being too harsh, is the top cultivation of a person.

People who have seen the world are not overly critical

In life, we will find that some people, once they find that others have made mistakes, will be furious, thinking that others are foolish.

They wantonly blame the wrongdoer, until the wrongdoer is criticized to the ground, they will not rest.

It is said in the "Night Talk Around the Fire", "A person who speaks profoundly is ultimately a person of weak fortune."

If a person presses hard on the wrongdoer and is extremely mean, then, in the end, it is he who will be hurt.

As the saying goes, "there is a cause and there is a consequence".

Planting "means" cause, will inevitably harvest "mean" fruit.

People who have seen the world, in the face of other people's inadvertent mistakes, often choose to point to stop.

They can understand the difficulties of others, so they are more likely to be generous to others.

Once, Zi Gong asked Confucius, "Is there a single word that can be acted upon for life?"

Confucius replied, "Forgiveness."

By "forgiveness", I mean to extend it to others.

When we see others making low-level mistakes and want to "scold" them, we should think about the low-level mistakes we have "made" and perhaps the accusation will disappear.

People who have seen the world, do not dwell on trivial matters

As the old saying goes, "There is nothing in the world, the mediocre people disturb themselves."

The reason why a person has a lot of trouble, very often, is from their mind is not broad enough.

Other people's bad words, will also be in the mind for a long time, indignant.

Others have taken advantage of a little, but also will be a long time to forget.

Such an approach will only let themselves in resentment, wasting a good time.

People who have seen the world, know that in the vast universe, there are more beautiful things waiting for them to appreciate, so they will not waste their time and energy on bad things.

Su Shi said in the "stay marquis": "When a man sees an insult, he draws his sword and rises to fight, which is not enough for courage.

There are great brave people in the world, suddenly approaching and not frightened, no reason to add and not angry. This is its hostage is very big, and its ambition is very far."

People who have seen the world are often able to calm down and do not get angry at will.

Why can they be calm?

The reason is that they have a big picture in mind and know what is most important to them.

They will not "fight for leisure", and let themselves pay a heavy price.

The reason for this is that they know what is most important to them.

In the end, he won without a fight.

Sometimes, the choice to hold your tongue is not cowardice, but rather a kind of "the belly of the prime minister can hold the boat" of the great temper.

People who have seen the world, do not reject differences

Voltaire once said: "I do not agree with your point of view, but I defend to the death your right to speak."

Some people, when they meet people who share their views, they like them; when they meet people who do not share their views, they resent them and even accuse them of being useless.

Such an approach is biased.

Why is this world wonderful?

The reason is that there are all kinds of differences.

If there were no differences, it would become monotonous and dull.

In "The Wall of the West Woods," it says, "The peaks are different from each other, and the heights are different from each other."

If a person's viewpoint is different from ours, it doesn't necessarily mean that his viewpoint is wrong; it may also be because he sees things from a different perspective than we do.

When we put ourselves in each other's shoes to think about the problem, perhaps, we will come to the same conclusion as each other.

I've heard the term "seeking common ground and respecting differences".

Consistent views, of course, are pleasant; but, with inconsistent views, we can make them reflect on their shortcomings, and then improve ourselves.

"A big belly can tolerate, tolerate the world's difficult things."

To be able to tolerate differences is the real big picture of a person.

Conclusion.

Someone said: "A sign of maturity, is to find someone to blame, less and less."

Everyone has their own "not enough for outsiders also" dilemma.

The real people who have seen the world, "have known the greatness of the world", so they will be more "pity grass green".

The real power is not to become full of hostility, but to become gentle and calm.

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