People who are willing to "get" you

After encountering love, some people gradually realize that "it is easy to love each other but very difficult to keep".

When you are in love, the two people are in love, and all you see are the advantages of each other.

When handing in hands, into the hall of marriage, the next day and night together, both sides will find that person in addition to the advantages, there will be many flaws.

The most important thing is that you have to be able to find the most suitable love for you.

But after going around in love, you still have to face the reality that there is no real sense of perfect feelings, those who fall in love and go on together, in addition to love, the secret of getting along with each other mostly lies in the understanding and tolerance of these two words.

Because we have loved, we are compassionate; because we understand, we are tolerant. --Eileen Chang

As Eileen Chang said in her work when a person is moved, he will try to love the other person, with a soft heart to care for that person, but also a little bit, reflect understanding and tolerance.

The only way for two people to get along is to build based on understanding, which will bring the two hearts closer together over the long years, so that differences will not increase because of misunderstandings.

Some people describe it this way, two people in love, how a mode of living together.

A woman is a water, you use 50 degrees to me, I am not cold; you use 100 degrees to me, I will boil.

A guy who understands her, to communicate and get along with each other, to win the girl's heart, so that love continues to romance and keep fresh.

In the growth of a person, there may be many people who love you.

However, the person who understands you and is willing to understand and tolerate you is often few and far between; obviously, the person who is willing to understand you must value you deep inside and is willing to love you all the time.

From a psychological point of view, the person who understands you can put himself in your shoes and consider what your needs are; in the process of loving you, he will also give you a sense of solidity and happiness in the way you need.

The person who does not understand you, he may get along with you in the process, but day by day becomes exhausting.

When it comes to the age of marriage, girls should choose what kind of marriage object. It is not difficult to understand, willing to "understand" your people, it is worth spending the rest of your life together.

If he understands you, you can continue to be true to yourself.

Why is he obsessed with you during the live stage?

Because in the eyes of the boys, you are a charming person, regardless of face, personality, or style of dealing with people, can easily impress and attract him, so that person will willingly, in the pursuit of you, hoping to build a long-lasting relationship between you.

Many love, after the hot love, gradually enters a new test period.

If in a relationship, the girl learned to compromise, everything at each other's command, then her charm will also be greatly reduced, the two people get along, and will also usher in more challenges.

Meet a person who is willing to understand you, and deeply understand you, he will not deliberately change you, but for the sake of the fate between you, to choose to tolerate and understand you, the result of doing so, not only to make the relationship last a long time, and you can continue to be true to yourself.

In front of him, you do not need to cover anything, and do not have to cater to someone, just use the most comfortable way to continue their part of the wonderful, the rest of your life to grasp more happiness.

Because understand you, he will thoughtfully guard you.

If a person is not willing to understand you, and will not understand you when things go wrong, he is bound to not love you.

Perhaps he likes you, and also wants to have you, but because not enough love, so will not change anything for you, but over time, trying to change you; such a mode of living together, you will inevitably often fall into an awkward situation.

The one, who is willing to understand you, will not ask you to change, but try hard to understand your needs.

In your mood loss, he can promptly detect, and according to your preferences, let you smile up; in your silence, he will not boast, but will be quiet, quietly accompany you.

Because he understands you, so he knows your hobbies, tastes, personality, and so on.

Sometimes you will find that through one of your eyes, he can easily understand what your thoughts are, and what kind of needs you have at this time, just because he is willing to understand you, will grasp the many details, to give you uncompromising care.

Two people, in the long rest of their lives, that person will understand you, accommodate you, not only to give you immediate happiness, will also give you a long future, you will find that this life to meet each other, is their luck.

From a guy's standpoint, if you want to grasp the happy feelings, you have to take the initiative to understand each other, to be a person who understands her. About the secret of love and happiness, Chen Doming once said.

When you put down your face to be good to your wife, it means that you have become a real man; when you give your wife enough face, it means that you have succeeded.

A loving relationship is not something that a person can sway.

However, in a relationship, boys usually occupy more dominant power, if he is willing to understand you, everywhere there is to understand your performance, it is easy to make the girl's heart touched, and thus, in the same way, to give each other a certain return.

So, the two people get along with each other, it becomes a mutual affinity.