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No need to explain too much and make yourself unpleasant

Time will explain everything, no need to add to your worries.

By JadenPublished about a year ago 4 min read
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No need to explain too much and make yourself unpleasant
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Everyone may have experienced such a moment: not your intention, but others feel that you are against him; you are straightforward, but others think that you have a string, there are words in the words; you are not that kind of person, not that kind of heart, did not do that kind of thing, but others just do not believe your explanation.

People who live in the world, always hope that someone can understand themselves, the face of other people's misunderstanding, and always spend a lot of words and effort to explain themselves to others, but the results are often counterproductive. Sometimes, the explanation is futile, believe in yourself, you do not need to explain; do not believe in yourself, how you explain do not believe.

In this world, everyone lives in a different world and has their values, and people, and people's sadness and happiness are not the same, understand your people are not destined for many. Sometimes, do things without explanation, life instead of living better; the more you explain, the more people misunderstand.

Everyone has their distinctive personality and ideas, do not try to use their ideas and concepts to change others, and do not try to control others and ask others to understand you. People who understand you do not need to explain, they will understand you; do not understand your people the more you explain, the more trouble.

Be a human being, no need to explain too much, the more you say, the more you find yourself struggling to please. If it is right, why explain, time will prove everything; if it is wrong, no need to explain, time will correct everything. No need to go to great lengths to please people who don't believe you, the more time to portray the darker.

Harrumph Murasaki said: "Not all fish will live in the same sea" different circles will have different lives, and there will be different ideas. Do not understand your people, you say more, but also as nonsense, do not waste time with such people, do a good job on their own.

People live in this world, it is difficult to adjust the mouth of people. How kind you are, people who hate you also think you are fake; how you pay, do not know how to thank people also think you are hypocritical; how you are good, jealous of your people also think you are relying on others; how generous you are, calculating people also think you are stingy.

As the saying goes, "Those who know me say I am worried, those who do not know me say what I want." Those who know you do not need to explain, those who do not understand you do not need to explain, the fate of the time must have, the fate of the time not to force. Life is not easy, do not need to thirst for understanding and recognition of others, go their way to let others say.

The people who know you, you do not explain also have the heart; do not understand you, explain more is also to play the piano. People who know you, naturally know what kind of person you are, and will do what kind of thing, you do not explain the also understand. The people who do not understand you, always think of you in the opposite direction, you can explain again is also in vain.

Not all misunderstandings must be clarified; not all people are worthy of an explanation. The people who are willing to believe you, simply do not need to explain; not willing to believe you, the explanation will not believe. People who have good intentions towards you, do not need to explain but also understand you; for people who have hostile intentions towards you, how to explain will not help.

The people who do not want to listen to your explanation, how you say can not please him; can listen to your explanation of the people, you do not explain can understand you. Everyone is fighting in the red dust, time and energy are very valuable, the limited time to those who understand you, do not waste it for those who do not deserve it.

Everyone has their own identified guidelines, everyone also has a different style of doing things, and everyone looks at things from a different perspective. The same thing means different things to different people; the same result has different benefits to different people. Do not expect you can make all people satisfied.

It is difficult to adjust to all people, you can't please everyone. Ten fingers have a length, and a bowl of water is not even, do everything, some people are satisfied, and some are not. You have to do, a part of the people are satisfied is enough. After all, not all people can stand on the same level to see the problem.

A piece of bread is insignificant to an elephant, but to an ant that is a lofty mountain. What seems beautiful to you may be ugly to some other people. You can't force everyone to share your views.

The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do. The most important thing is that you have to be able to understand what you're doing, and if you don't, then let him go. Life is not long, instead of spending time explaining to people who don't deserve it, you should spend more time finding fun for yourself. Time will explain everything, no need to add to your worries.

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Jaden

If I had a single flower for every time i think about you, i could walk forever in my garden.

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