Let Him Go, He Doesn't Deserve You

The emptiness has come back, hasn't it? Where you no longer feel loved or appreciated...

He's started to take you for granted again. You don't receive the cute messages telling you to get ready because he's taking you out, or the phone calls during the day just to see if you've eaten or how you're feeling.

You have to sit and wonder: where did it all go wrong?

You're sitting there writing paragraphs, explaining how you feel, just to get "What do you mean?" or "You're moving mad," and that's when you think you're finally done with him. You tell yourself he's not worth it, it's his loss, I'm better than this and I deserve so much more, but instead, you call him just to let him sweet talk you into thinking you're just delusional. You end the phone call with "I love you and miss you loads," just to realise what you let him do AGAIN.

You've come to terms with that fact he isn't the man you fell in love with and that's OK. You don't need him. Just remember how perfectly fine you were doing before him and how perfectly fine you will do after him. Your life doesn't depend on him...if you're giving your all to someone and they can't even appreciate it, then what are you doing?

You did absolutely nothing but be yourself and somehow he's finding a way to take all his problems out on you, to make you feel guilty for something you haven't done. Sound familiar?

You sit there and think of ways how YOU could improve his mood and what YOU could do to make him feel better, not realising you haven't actually done anything...

It now becomes a one-sided relationship, only one side is fighting for something that is no longer there; that should've been done and dusted a long time ago...

He starts to realise you're drifting; you're getting yourself together, so of course he comes along with the sweet talk, the hugs and the kisses, starts drowning you in gifts and luxuries, hoping to win you back...

This is what you fell in love with. The "sweet guy" knowing that will work, and he's got you right back where he wants.

You can't be with someone like this—someone who makes you feel miserable, depressed, confused, and hurt. Someone who intoxicates your life doesn't deserve to be in it. Someone who makes you feel like that all the time isn't going to understand or realise the pain and suffering you're going through. They're never going to be sorry or ever going to feel bad or wrong for what they've done to you and your heart.

HUNNY, leave him. Let the right one find you and let him drown you in gifts, hugs & kisses, and most of all, let him LOVE & CARE for you.