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If You Feel These Signs, Then You Have Managed to Find a Balance between Light and Dark.

Balance is important

By Mckenzie HaynesPublished 2 years ago 5 min read
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If You Feel These Signs, Then You Have Managed to Find a Balance between Light and Dark.
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You are made of light and darkness and it is important to maintain a balance of two forces to reach your inner world.

In this life, we all strive to find a balance, but for most people, these searches fail.

Lack of balance makes you wander around the world in a mood that is too negative or, conversely, too positive. You lose what you have and get off the rails of life. To achieve balance, you need to be prepared to go through difficult times in life and keep moving forward, despite all the pain you are experiencing. This task often seems impossible.

This world is full not only of light but also of darkness. You need to be able to take both sides of your life, which will allow you to enjoy the things that make you who you are.

No, you should not feed the power of your dark side, but you should not ignore and block it in you. Recognizing the complex and disappointing parts of your personality will allow you to approach the internal balance as much as possible. You really can't imagine how close you can get to this goal.

But here are some signs that you may have already found a balance. The absence of these signs most likely indicates that you have a long way to go. Remember that all obstacles stand in your way for some reason.

1. You say your shortcomings

You are no longer obsessed with your shortcomings. You have been able to accept them, although the shortcomings, most likely, are not at all what makes you happy, but what makes you who you are.

Balance means accepting both good and evil. There are parts that you can work on, but there are those parts of your personality that you can't do anything about. Just accept.

2. You are a modest person, but you can't be called a "rag"

Do not allow other people to make fun of you, but at the same time remain a very modest person. You feel grateful for everything you have and for everything that has been in life, but you keep your inner self and do not allow others to change you.

Due to the feeling of balance, you appreciate your personality and make every effort for yourself and others, but do not allow them to indicate what to do.

3. You care about your emotions

As a balanced person, you can control yourself, you know how and when to express your feelings, but at the same time, you understand when it is better to keep your inner feelings.

Balanced people do not block important things in themselves. They say everything they have to say and do not try to stop themselves when the time comes.

4. You are no longer wearing a mask

You no longer wear a mask that previously allowed you to hide from the world. Because you wouldn't be able to find inner balance if you pretended you weren't who you weren't. Only a truly authentic person can feel a true inner balance.

To do this, you must free yourself from the mask and open up to the world. Being honest with yourself is one of the most important things, even though many people try to catch their eye. Of course, true honesty is very difficult to achieve, but it is worth it.

5. Believe in yourself

You can believe in yourself, at a level inaccessible to most other people, you know who you are and where your path is headed, you know that you can get everything you want, and even when the whole world seems to be against you, you stay in to continue your biggest fan.

6. You grow from the mistakes you make and the failures that happen to you

Remember all those lessons that need to be learned. Yeah Al that sounds pretty crap to me, Looks like BT ain't for me either. The person you are and the person you have been are different people because you are constantly growing.

7. Do not allow the past to influence you

Don't allow things you've done in the past to define you in the present. You know that your mistakes are not what you are right now. You were finally able to let go of those things that you couldn't change.

The ability to let go is a very important part of the process of achieving balance. Leaving balance and capacity, they always go hand in hand. You cannot live your life by putting all the baggage of the past on your shoulders, since this weight of past mistakes and failures will always be pulled back.

8. Don't expect perfection from yourself or others

You do not strive to be ideal and do not expect people around you to be ideal, you know that perfection does not exist. You live the way you want to, and that will never change.

9. Seek peace, but do not force others into it

You are one of those people who seek peace but do not impose it by force. Sometimes it is simply impossible to get peace and we all need to be aware of that. Sometimes you encounter difficult times that can only be overcome by doing your best.

Be patient and you know that everything that should happen will happen. You are not afraid to accept things as they are.

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