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How to Treat Your Soulmate with Love and Affection She Deserves

Show her you love her.

By Mia JohnsonPublished 5 years ago 4 min read

Your soulmate is, without a doubt, the most important person in your life. She is the one who loves you unconditionally and understands you completely. The one who sees the best in you and always pushes you to become your better self. Though you may be grateful for all the things she provides for you, sometimes it’s hard to express that. This should just encourage you to find ways to show her how much you actually care.

1. Really Listen

More often than not, your soulmate will tell you exactly what she wants and needs. Of course, she may not always say this directly or expect you to do anything about it. For example, she could be complaining about losing her favorite earrings and just generally venting about the situation. You could buy a similar or the same pair and surprise her with it.

If she says her back has been aching today, greet her with some scented candles and massage oil. When she tells you about her day, pay attention and ask follow-up questions. Ask her about that work project she told you about the week before. All of these examples show that you’re an affectionate and attentive partner who really cares and listens. This is bound to make her fall head over heels for you, even more than she already has.

2. Don’t neglect the intimacy.

The physical aspect of a relationship is as important as the emotional one. Nothing can make a woman feel more loved than holding her hand when you’re walking down the street, kissing her under the lamppost when you walk her home, or just tucking her hair behind her ear when you’re sitting next to her on the couch.

Intimacy in the bedroom is important, too. Make sure she knows you want her as much as she knows you love her. Light the fire you feel inside her and show her how sexy you think she is. Set the mood, seduce her, and bring her closer to you with every delicate touch down her body.

3. Tell her what’s on your mind.

The number one rule of relationships is that nothing is implied. You may love her and think she’s amazing, but you need to say it. She may also know how you feel about her, but the warmth and joy that overcome a person upon hearing such sweet words is unmeasurable. If she catches you staring, don’t just shrug it off; tell her exactly why you can’t draw your eyes away.

Verbal affection will surely bring her confidence up and make her feel like the luckiest girl in the world. The more you tell her the things you like about her, the more she’ll try to show them off. This is the way to nurture a healthy relationship full of love, not by pointing out the things she should fix.

Another thing you should express is your love. It goes beyond just saying “I love you” even though that helps. Make sure she got home safely, wish her good morning and sweet dreams, send her a text throughout the day to ask how she’s doing.

4. Surprise her with gifts.

Everyone knows that materialistic gifts shouldn’t be the point of any relationship, but they can be adorable tokens of affection. Inexpensive but thoughtful gifts like a bouquet of flowers show that you’ve been thinking of your loved one and want her to know it. There’s a different take on what the ideal small gift should be throughout the world, and in London, you’ll most often come across Gift Rebellion as the provider.

After all, where else can you get donut bouquets that are both original and delicious? This is especially a good gift if your soulmate has a sweet tooth. Surprise her at work so she has a tasty dessert, or simply come home with open arms and a treat she’ll love after a long day.

5. Don’t stop winning her over.

Just because you’re in a relationship, it doesn’t mean the romance should die down. You should try to win her over as often as possible. The most romantic and sweetest period is that just before you officially get together when you really try and make an effort for her. Now that you’ve been together for a while, it seems there’s no need to try so hard anymore.

A little initiative, a weekend getaway, planning romantic dates, or even just greeting her from work with a glass of wine and homemade dinner will go a long way. Every woman likes feeling cared for and loved, so the more you put into the relationship, the more you’ll get back.


Love and affection are the necessary components for any relationship. The more attentive you are to your soulmate’s needs, the more she’s bound to reciprocate, which will, in turn, make your relationship even stronger than it is. Your loved ones should always feel loved and cared for. Think of your soulmate as a rose you need to tend to and tenderly nurture, and she is bound to blossom into something more beautiful than she already is.


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