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How to Make Your Husband (Re) Fall Madly in Love With You

But are you sure you want him back?

By Daisy ThunderstrikePublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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How to Make Your Husband (Re) Fall Madly in Love With You
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In any relationship there are periods of monotony and it is perfectly normal. Sometimes you look at him and ask yourself, "Does he still want me? / Does he love me the same way?" We all have these thoughts at one time or another.

You don't have to worry because there are many methods from specialists on how to rekindle your passion between you and your husband. Make him want you with all his being and start falling in love with you again.

When you understand male psychology, it is much easier to give him exactly what he needs. Many women have been in the same situation and have managed to turn the needle of their love every time. Here are some ways you can make him (re) fall madly in love with you.

1. Make him feel desired

We agree, times have changed and the emancipation of women took place many years ago, and we admire the strong and independent representatives of the fair sex, there is no doubt, but ... men like to feel that they are useful.

They have that instinct to protect their partner, to make her feel comfortable and safe. If he does not consider that he can get involved in your life, then he can lose his self-confidence and, implicitly, in the relationship.

Ask for help. Not only will you give him a purpose, but in the end he is your husband and you will see that he is willing to help you. In other words, tell him he's the man you rely on the most.

2. Make him feel like a hero

If you want your husband to fall in love with you, you have to make him feel that he has earned your respect, that he is a hero to you. We know, it sounds a little dubious, nowadays women don't need someone to save them.

But the truth is, they want to be considered that way. Because it is embedded in their DNA. They need admiration, they want to go to the white canvases for their wife and earn her respect in return.

This is deeply rooted in male biology. A man is not completely happy in his relationship if this wish is not fulfilled.

3. Do fun things together

As the years go by, you seem to completely forget to have fun. There are worries, problems, responsibilities and, in general, you prefer to rest in your free time than to go on meetings or to have exciting adventures. Just because you're a couple doesn't mean the fun is over.

Yes, the moments you both spend in peace and in which you strengthen your relationship are important, but it is vital for you to have fun. It's part of the fabric of a long-term relationship. If that doesn't work, try taking steps to find interesting activities to do together, depending on your interests.

4. Let him miss you

Separated time is very healthy for couples. This way you have the chance to live your own experiences and to evolve individually.

If you spend absolutely every moment together, you run the risk of becoming addicted to each other and developing a toxic relationship. Separate activities allow you to strike a balance and, most importantly, to miss.

Many people discover how much they love someone only when they are no longer with them. When he spends his time away from you, he will feel how much he misses you, and it is guaranteed that the inner fire will be kindled.

5. Love yourself

If you don't love yourself, how can you expect your husband to love you? A confident woman is much more attractive. As children we were taught that if we love ourselves we are arrogant and narcissistic, but in fact it is the exact opposite.

Show your partner that he cares about you and will make him fall madly in love. This means accepting yourself completely, with flaws and qualities, because no one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone regrets it. But many of us spend a lot of time trying to change.

But when a woman has the courage to love herself, she becomes absolutely irresistible in front of a man.

6. Learn to say "thank you"

It is no surprise that we all like to feel valued for our efforts, but when it comes to routine, we tend to forget to thank our partners for the little things they do.

So the next time he does something for you, don't forget to say "thank you".

7. Don't try to change him

When you spend time with him, whatever the situation, you will always find things that bother you. That doesn't mean you have to change anything that annoys him.

Coupled men who constantly try to control them and tell them how to behave tend to become introverts. If you want to suggest something to him, be very careful how you say it.

Don't get us wrong. If it's something you both depend on, then you need to express your point of view. We are only saying that gestures that cause only slight upset should be viewed from a different perspective.

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