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How to Activate His Unwavering Commitment

by shehan anthony 4 months ago in advice
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How to Activate His Unwavering Commitment
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Do you have a friend who always seems to have the ideal guy in her life?

You know him—the handsome one with the large heart who only cares about one person—the one and only thing in the world.

He's in a relationship with her.I know you're happy for her that she found him, but...

You're so envious, I can't believe it. You can't help but be captivated by them. The fact that he pays such close attention to what she needs. The way they appear to communicate without speaking. The way he holds her so closely in his arms makes them seem like one. It's painful to see them. Because the person sitting next to you does not treat you in this manner.

Despite what you may think, he isn't a bad man. He's fantastic, of course. There's more...His behavior towards you. He treats you as though you've been around for a while.That man doesn't wake up every morning thanking his fortunate stars he got someone like you.

I bet that other man does the exact same thing. It's in his eyes, as you've noticed.An expression of ecstasy on his face whenever he gazes into the eyes of the lady he loves.

So you ask her whether he has any brothers, half-joking and half-hoping. She simply laughs.What you need isn't that. She takes a step closer to you and checks to see whether anybody else is watching. "Do you want to know something?"

You're all smiles as you give an enthusiastic nod.

Our relationship was just like everyone else's before," she says softly. However, I later learned about this bizarre secret. A relationship coach by the name of James Bauer has come up with this advice. The key to men's hearts, if you will.

As you continue to nod fervently, she has ceased to speak. You track her glance across the room. Without saying a word, her lover holds up a drink and asks her if she'd like one. After she gives him a shaky smile and a kiss, she turns to face you. Do you want to know what it is, then? "

I hear you exclaim, "Yeah," in response. "As long as it helps me and my boyfriend understand each other better, like you and your partner have just done."

"Okay, then pay close attention..."Women all throughout the world make the same error when it comes to males.

They're not to blame. They're just doing what everyone else is doing. It's a widely held belief that men are attracted to women only if they are exceptionally beautiful or interesting. (Mainly those with exceptional physical attributes.)

According to conventional thinking, you can bet she has something you don't just by looking at her with a man trailing her behind her.

It's a simple explanation, however...It's a blatant error.

Who is that lady?

You're just as great as her. (I don't know what "that" implies.)

However, she has a unique insight into men's minds.What matters most to her is what he sees when he looks at her, not what he sees in her.But the way he sees himself in her eyes.

Here's the bottom line:

Men are attracted to women because of the emotions they elicit in them.As soon as a guy feels like a hero in the eyes of a woman, he vows to her his eternal devotion.

He has no choice but to be this way.He isn't affected by most ladies in that way.A lot of ladies make him feel like an idiot when they're around him. There's something about him that seems to be always breaking the rules. As if he requires the services of a nanny to take care of him.

The amount of ladies that admire him may be counted on one hand. Who have a great deal of admiration for him.And those ladies will always have a place in his life.

In other words, how can you turn a man into a hero?It's a tad ridiculous.Is he going to have to save kids from a burning house or an elderly woman from being hit by a car?

No. It's far more straightforward than that.

You may start right now to make your boyfriend feel like a hero by doing one simple thing:You can go out of your way to thank him for everything he has done for you.Is he going to fetch you anything to drink?

Thank him for his kind words.

Has he cleaned up after himself?

Thank him for his kind words.

Do you remember if he took you to a meeting by car?

Thank him for his kind words.

Even if you don't realize it, he is a hero to you every day.

Has your boyfriend "rescued" you recently, in a figurative sense?

He may have put his plans on hold to assist you. It's possible he was there for you when you needed someone to bounce ideas off of. If you followed his advise, you may have made an important decision.

There are some things that we take for granted. It's expected. It dulls our senses to the wonder of being able to rely on someone else.

However, the more you value him, the more...

The more he realizes how much he values YOU.

That's not how the majority of people view things, however.

It's a common misconception among women that they may impress a man by performing a slew of nice deeds for him.

This is backwards.For a man to appreciate you, you should appreciate everything he does, no matter how insignificant it may seem.

His "Hero Instinct" is activated.In James' video, you may discover more about the Hero Instinct.As a general rule, don't expect him to fall in love with you just on the things you do for him...

It's all about how you respond to what he does.Do you think he just encircled you with his arms?

Give a fist-pump of happiness.

What about the show you wanted him to watch?

Give him a kiss of gratitude.

You'll find that your partner will go out of his way to satisfy you if you pay attention to the small things he does.

Your hero is him.Those are the things that heroes do, as well.Nevertheless, this is only the beginning.Much more may be done to arouse his sense of duty in him.

You may activate his hero instinct 100 times more strongly than simply saying thank you by uttering certain phrases, sending SMS, or making little requests.

A lady who makes him feel heroic is irresistible to men, so knowing a couple of these emotional trigger points is essential.

If you're looking to improve your relationship abilities with men, this course is for you. After that, watch this short video to learn more about how to master this potent method (from the man who devised it).

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