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Heterosexual intercourse, do not ask for these things with men, easy to be looked down upon

Love is to communicate in an equal state so that we can coexist harmoniously. If one party is devalued in the eyes of the other party and becomes humble, then the relationship is out of balance and downhill from now on.

By zhaohaoPublished 2 years ago 5 min read
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Heterosexual intercourse, do not ask for these things with men, easy to be looked down upon
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Love is to communicate in an equal state so that we can coexist harmoniously. If one party is devalued in the eyes of the other party and becomes humble, then the relationship is out of balance and downhill from now on.

In an intimate relationship, it is often women who play a humble role. They are mostly emotional. Once they fall in love, they will be completely controlled by each other and lose their basic self.

To a certain extent, relying on men can help the progress of a relationship and make each other more intimate. However, at the same time, it is easy to take love to the extreme, which will make men dislike you and make the relationship tense.

Love is supposed to be a strong feeling, a natural initiation, both of you because of love, so are constantly taking out their own to get close to each other, to meet each other's needs, and try to do their best to him.

The person who likes you will naturally be willing to give everything he can, he knows the desire of your heart, and without you taking the initiative to ask for it, he will naturally give.

If something you take the initiative to ask for, it has lost the most basic meaning of love and will make men look down on you.

Remember, never ask for these things in love with a man, if he loves you, nature will give, if he does not love, do not have to ask, turn away.

Ask for a gift

They all say A man who likes you will be willing to spend money on you. This is true in any relationship.

The man who spends money for you may not love you very much, but the one who is not willing to spend money for you must not love.

Those in love are extremely stingy, haggling over every ounce of men, to put it bluntly, is you as a plaything, just want to enjoy your care, enjoy the joy of love, do not want to pay for you.

Women usually measure a man's love by a gift, but what they care about is not the value of the gift, but the thought of the man.

This, however, is often seen as "material" by some men, who want a woman who wants nothing but to save him money and serve him like a nanny. Any association with money will reveal her nature.

How can a man not understand the little romance that women crave in love? How can you not know that they don't need much, and a small gift can go a long way to make them happy? They all know, just don't do it, as long as you ask for it, will look impatient.

The things that can be solved by money transfer will never bother to choose a gift for you. When you indicate that you want something for a long time, he will pretend that he doesn't know. When you are full of expectations and finally fail, in his eyes, you will think you are greedy.

Such demands require no need to ask. Want things to buy their own, their gifts to pick, can solve the things do not ask for and men, and finally lost self-esteem also abandon life.

Ask for company

Companionship in love should be standard, not something to be asked for.

Two people have each other in their hearts, then they will be concerned about all the time, time to want to be with each other, eager to spend their free time together.

Many new and interesting things we want to experience with each other, such as the latest movie, the newly opened milk tea shop, and the online celebrity restaurant. When seeing the novel things, the first thing that comes to mind is to bring her.

After falling in love with a person, it will change. He who originally did not like shopping may be willing to go shopping with you. He originally rejected some snacks, but he will also be willing to try new things with you.

He will automatically put you on his first list without you asking. He will seek you out when he has time. He will always be there for you.

The one who loves you will never think you are clingy, only that the two of us spend too little time together. People who do not love you always think you are boring, too you always stick to him. Dating, once routine between lovers, can become a burden.

Time is the fairest thing, is no need to pay everyone has, if a person even the most basic time and company are not willing to give you, then you ask for only hate, just absent-minded will be looked down upon by the other side.

For the future

A man who loves you, he will be very active about the future, will be very want to have with you, very want to always go on.

After being together with you, I never thought that one day I would be apart. I have already made full preparations, and I will wait for the day when I marry you.

There are some things in which it doesn't hurt either man or woman to take the initiative, but there must be a difference in the future.

The man who loves you will show a kind of impatience, openly and secretly saying that he wants to get married countless times.

The man who does not love you, he never talked about the future with you, he just wants to enjoy you now, maybe one day will choose to leave you.

We can judge a man's sincerity by this point, if they have been together for a long time, he has never mentioned the word of the future, then it is obvious that he does not want to marry you.

At this time, even if you offer, you will be rejected. He will find all kinds of excuses, saying that he is not ready, the car, the house, the deposit is not ready it is just a kind of evasion.

You mention the number of times, the other party will only feel you must him, more will not pay attention to you, no need to have expectations, timely turn around is the best way.

In love, some things do not need to ask for, the moment you open your mouth you lose.

If love, he will naturally give you, if not love, even if you open your mouth countless times, the final exchange is only disappointment and loneliness again and again.

Many of the answers have been in the middle of getting along clearly, if you break the sand-frying pan in the end is also not interesting, since his perfunctory and don't pay attention to has been so obvious, don't expect, finally lost self-esteem also lost love.

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