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He’s Just Not That Into You

by Rose McBrayer 4 years ago in advice
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He’s just not the one for you...

Do you ever sit there and wonder, why you were never good enough? Why didn’t he call you back? Why didn’t he keep to his word of making plans? Why is it that when you’re out with a group of people, he barley pays attention to you? If you’ve felt this way with talking to a man, then you’re in the same boat as many females on this planet. The key thing is, if you’re asking yourself those questions, he’s just not that into you.

I’ve had my fare share of guys that would treat me like absolute garbage, and make me feel as if no matter what I did, I would still never be good enough. I’ve felt this way plenty of times, not just with men in general, but with family, school, friends, to even being a mother. It feels as if a heavy burden has been put onto your shoulders, and there is no way to get rid of it. Well, I’m here to tell you, even if nobody else will, you are good enough. It took me years to realize, the only person that you can make happy, is yourself. After having guys put me on the back burner, or treating me as I’m the dirt on the ground, to cheating on their wife/girlfriend. I’ve still managed to pick myself up, and walk with a smile on my face. I’ve just learned, they aren’t the person they say they are, and are not into me as they say they are either. Your partner is supposed to be the one to lift you up when you’re down, not knock you down even more.

When you ask yourself “why hasn’t he called me back yet?” Or the classic, “why didn’t he keep his word to making plans?” I’ve been in this position lately. Thought I had met this amazing man one night, well as you can imagine, that didn’t work out in my favor. We’d go out for drinks, I met his family, and his best friends. Thought everything was just perfect, and he’d always tell me he’d call me later, or tomorrow. Well, being like every other female in lust, I believed his lies. At first it would be just a couple days in between each other, then to weeks, and then months. Finally, after six months of playing cat and mouse, I realized; he was just not that into me.

Have you ever went out with some guy you were talking to, with his friends, and you realize he pays more attention to his friends then he does you? Does he get up and say hi to people he knows, and just leaves you to sit by yourself? If so, yet again.. you’re not alone. With his friends, it could just be that he hasn’t seen them in a long time, or you’re both friends with them, and that’s a completely different story. I’m talking if he does this to you every time you go out, then he doesn’t care for them to get to know you, because he doesn’t see himself with you for the long run.

There are plenty of females, or even males that feel this way. Just remember, even if you don’t feel as if you are important, or that you’ll never be good enough for anyone. I’m here to tell you, there is still hope. There is still a chance for you to find your forever. Just keep searching, you have your whole life to live, to find love, and find your inner happiness.


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Rose McBrayer

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