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Heart, be simple; Be cheeky and thick

Heart, be simple; Be cheeky and thick

By Moyana MoyanakaPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Some people say that intelligence is talent, kindness is choice, and cheekiness is an ability.

Just because you pretend to be stupid doesn't mean you're really stupid.

I think so.

In life, there are too many unhappy things. Sometimes, we live very tired. It's not that life is too mean, but that we care too much about some voices and opinions.

We live too seriously and soberly, but we lose some confused happiness.

As the saying goes: "die to face, live to suffer!" A person who cares too much about face often misses many scenes of life because of "face".

Clearly know that others misunderstood themselves. At this time, many people seem to owe something. Therefore, I'm sorry to deal with others again. Is it necessary? Misunderstood, just laugh and don't care so much. Don't care too much whether others say you are thick skinned or heartless, because no one is perfect, you can't care at all.

After making some mistakes, many people always feel that they can't lift their heads. In fact, what is there! Even being ugly is just an experience in the process of life. Why don't we be free and easy, pat the dust on our bodies and move on shamelessly!

Only when you put down your face can you really live inside. The essence of the hero in "Three Kingdoms" is to be thicker skinned than anyone else, and the outcome is that Cao Cao with a black heart lost to Liu Bei with a thick skinned face. The cheekiness here is not without bottom line, but a kind of wisdom in dealing with the world.

Face is skin, dignity is bone.

In life, many people equate face with dignity and feel that losing face means losing dignity. Therefore, in life, they are subject to face, many things they want to do but dare not do, and many things they don't want to do but are forced to do. They are busy every day, but they still achieve nothing. In order to get the recognition and envy of others, exaggerate their worthless life and make their own thin shoulders bear too much burden.

On the contrary, those "cheeky" people are never afraid of being looked down upon. They live a very honest life, don't care about other people's opinions, and do things freely. They are not bound by rules and regulations, kidnapped by moral integrity, and don't play cards according to common sense. They violate social conventions but don't blush. Their favorite things are laughter, cunning laughter and insidious laughter, Cheating is like playing with sand to them. They can not only pretend, but also face it calmly. Anyway, none of them is accurate. They can put down their fetters and move towards their goals wholeheartedly, so as to get the results they want. If Xiang Yu had a thicker skin, he would have killed Liu Bang. If Ma Yun had not a thicker skin, he would have no climate... It can be seen how important thick skin is to achieve the great cause of life!

To be a man is to be thick skinned.

Salespeople are often rejected by customers in the process of selling and promoting products. If they have a thin skin, how can they sell guangpin? For them, cheekiness is not only a very important professional quality, but also a weapon that can advance and retreat. They can ignore failures and setbacks and all negative human factors in order to go all out for what they do.

I have a friend who works in sales. He said a sentence that impressed me deeply: sales is to fight for the skin. The thicker the skin, the greater the probability of success. We should be able to withstand the rejection and the blow.

When we stay low, as small as a Young Eucalyptus, the world is completely not covered or wrapped by rain. At this time, it is particularly important to be simple, cheeky and thick.

Knowing where we are, we must understand our role. I'm afraid it's not so easy if we don't lower our head. We must lower the tone of our voice. Gradually, we feel that every cell in our body lacks calcium genes.

As a result, I feel much more relaxed.

At the moment, we may be a kind of helplessness to life, otherwise, the result of running around may be scarred.

Since we can't climb to the top, we don't want to think about the "happiness" at the top, because we can't reach it when we jump up. Our happiness is at a low place. We just need to bend down and pick it up.

This bow is not shy, but helpless.

Thick skinned, open, play, put down, and take action. When you really become such a person, let you be east, West, North and south, fearless.

Many times, "cheekiness" is our means of survival.

Cheekiness is also a realm.

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