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He Only Wants You for Intimate Relationships

Do you recognize the signs?

By Sunshine JanePublished 2 years ago 9 min read
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He Only Wants You for Intimate Relationships
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Intimate relationships are an important aspect of any relationship, meant to bring the two partners even closer and to satisfy their physical desire.

It is unpleasant when you realize that the relationship with your boyfriend has become one based only on intimate relationships. Although they are a very important aspect of any couple's life, when a relationship that is meant to be serious ends up being based only on intimate intimacy, chances are that its future will no longer exist.

Find out what are the most common and obvious signs that should make you understand that your partner only wants you for intimate relationships!

Intimate relationships from the first meeting

The adventures of a night out and the intimate relationships from the first date are in order, as long as it happens because you want it, without being constrained by factors that do not belong to you.

Even so, owning one is still beyond the reach of the average person.

If the man you just met offers you, directly or indirectly, to retire to his home or home to "get to know you better," it's time to shorten the meeting and avoid it in the future.

He sees you only as an extra opportunity to feel good, without obligations and complications.

Friends with benefits

The idea of ​​making love without complications seems exciting and fun, but by the time your boyfriend gets to make such a proposal to you, "just for the sake of fun", you can already ask yourself questions.

A man who loves or wants a stable relationship does not find the idea of ​​putting feelings aside and treating his partner as a simple object of pleasure challenging or distracting.

Moreover, if your partner is happy with the relationship, respects you, and loves the spiritual side you have, he will never be curious to experience pure physical love.

This is not to say that hot, uninhibited love parties are unrecommended by both, but on the contrary, they are a great way to make the relationship more exciting for both of us.

In the same category is the famous reply by which he tries to explain to you that he feels good with you, he likes that you understand each other (especially in the bedroom), but there will never be an "official" relationship between you, from various reasons that it easily serves you on every occasion.

Don't stay with such a man in the hope that he will change and that you will succeed in making him love you, you are wasting your time.

If you have noticed that your boyfriend avoids walks in the park, meals at the restaurant, going out to the movies, or any type of outdoor activity, and whatever he does, he will eventually bring you to the bedroom, you must take action.

No matter how much they would like you to spend time in privacy, to kiss and to be close to you, it is not natural for going out in the city to be a "luxury" that you rarely offer, at your insistence and to be replaced. of love, parties initiated only by him.

A similar situation is the one in which he is impatient and agitated when you go out in the city and can't wait to get home or in any other secluded space, where he can have you again.

Also, the fact that you don't have evenings to kiss, to watch movies, to hold in your arms, without necessarily falling in love, is another aspect that should tell you a lot about how he treats you. the relationship.

He is not interested in you during menstruation

Intimate relationships during menstruation are still a taboo subject, which in the perception of most men provokes reactions of rejection and reluctance.

If your partner also falls into this category and you have noticed that you see each other less often or not at all when you are in that delicate period of the month, it is time to make some correlations.

You will realize that this is not just a coincidence, but a clear sign that intimate relationships are the basis of your relationship, and as soon as you can't offer it, avoid it.

Intimate relationships - a favorite topic of discussion

Either he often makes jokes with a pronounced intimate touch, or he brings love into question on any occasion and does not forget to suggest to you what positions he would like or how happy he would be to offer other forms of pleasure, the so-called communication with your partner revolves around a single topic: intimate relationships.

This selfish and rude attitude signals to you that the man next to you does not respect you is not curious about knowing you, is not concerned with what you like, does not pay attention, and is not emotionally involved, limiting himself to the interest he has in you: physical pleasure.

He always has condoms with him

Using a condom is one of the most convenient methods of contraception, which guarantees a fairly high percentage of a healthy intimate life and free from the worry of an unwanted pregnancy. Although it is not a general rule, we women consider it normal for a man to be the one to make sure that the condom is not missing when it is needed.

However, if such a "hot" situation has never caught your boyfriend unprepared, on the contrary, he does not forget to remind you of the condom leftover from last night, you can ask questions.

If you have a relationship that you consider to be based primarily on feelings, then your boyfriend should not make a tragedy out of the fact that you missed a love match, which you can replace with a hot bath, a romantic movie, a tender massage, and even an incendiary petting session.

A man who always walks with condoms after him is the classic type of male interested in intimate relationships without complications.

Don't get to know your family or friends

Have you been in a relationship for a few months now, and so far you haven't met your boyfriend's closest friends, let alone family members?

For a beginning relationship, it is natural for these reservations to exist on the part of both partners, but with the passage of time and the welding of the relationship, it goes without saying that you should become part of his universe.

Even if you don't feel ready to meet his family, that doesn't mean that he doesn't have to let you know that he wants that, that he wants to share the joy of being in love with his family. Talk to your boyfriend about this, and if he continues to be distant, reconsider your plans with him, if you want to avoid the disappointments that, at some point, will surely occur.

He only comes to your house in the evening

He is the kind of man who is busy all day long, who attaches great importance to his career and the relationships he establishes with those around him.

Is this a reason to justify the indifference with which he treats you and to excuse him that he barely remembers you during the day and visits you only in the evening, for a fleeting love match?

Leave or fall asleep as soon as the intimate act is over. No matter how tired, stressed, or preoccupied he may be, the intimate moments and feelings that normally appear in such moments should detach him, make him take refuge in you and the beauty of the moments.

He avoids you when you are sick

Whether it's a simple cold or a more serious health problem, your boyfriend dodges every time you are in such a situation and proposes to see you only when he is sure that the danger has passed. Well, even in this case, it is clear that your partner does not take responsibility for you, has a selfish attitude, and, as soon as you can not give him intimate pleasure, he avoids you.

It doesn't tell you about the future

No matter how scared men are of the idea of ​​marriage and all that it entails, when they are sure that they love their partner and are involved in the relationship, do not hesitate to mention this possibility or to discuss the future of your relationship.

If he avoids topics related to family, children, marriage, responsibility, fidelity, and any other concept that refers to an equation in which you two have been together for a long time, it means that he is either very insecure or only sees you as close to him. you can give pleasure without getting bored.

He is selfish in the bedroom

Intimate moments with him are limited to brutal and hurried gestures, short or even non-existent foreplay, the desire to try new intimate positions, without asking her partner if she wants to experiment, the lack of kisses and caresses, and if possible, lack of a condom.

Well, if the situation seems familiar to you and you find your boyfriend in this description, you have probably already realized that you are sitting next to a selfish man, lacking in tenderness and only interested in pure physical love.

He only appreciates you physically

You certainly feel beautiful and wanted when your boyfriend tells you on every occasion how attractive you are, how much he likes your breasts and ass, and how excited it is to see you in action in the bedroom, but it is natural to matter only these issues?

A man who appreciates only the physical side and the intimate areas of his partner - the sources of his physical pleasure, will not value the spiritual side, will never be interested in establishing a communication relationship with the woman next to him and, for these reasons, will always treat your partner like a simple object in private.

I don't think you want such a man by your side.

Forget important dates

It's not a cliché, it's one of the little proofs of love that makes a difference.

Whether it's men or women, is a love affair, dates matters because they have a special meaning, related to some of the most important moments and stages of your relationship.

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