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By Lena BaileyPublished 4 years ago 3 min read
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So this series has been helping a lot of young women. I have been getting questions. I may recap and repeat some stuff so bear with me. I also want to address the fact that all of these are geared to in person arrangements and that is because that is the only way to do true sugar. The only way not to do full time in person is if you are long distance. I will be using the term daddy but this goes for mamas too.

There was one sugar daddy that I ran into on one of the sites who was asking girls to sell him something to prove themselves to him. Ladies this is the dumbest thing I have ever heard. If he doesn't trust us why should we trust him enough to sell him something? Plus there are other ways to prove yourself to a daddy. You could do clothed and clean pictures or video chat. The main way is just showing up for dates on time. You can also prove yourself by doing what you said you are going to do. Also don't expect them to pay before you meet to prove themselves that will make you look fake.

A lot of babies think that because a daddy won't directly pay their bills then they're fake. This is a huge myth because a lot of men would like for you to be able to take care of basic bills whether or not they are there. Now there are the daddies that will pay bills or pay for your house/apartment/ condo but that is not every sugar daddy.

Now if he promised to pay all your bills or a certain bill but then the bill or bills sit there unpaid then that is a sign of being fake. They should never make a promise he doesn't keep. Now you can talk to him then leave him if doesn't change or just leave. Babies need to have reasonable standards and expecting a successful person do what they say is one of those.

So let's address demands verses being demanding. There are good demands and bad demands. Good demand are those that are reasonable like be on time dressed appropriately for the day or date. Bad demands are the unreasonable ones like everything you wear has to be designer or cost over $100. We want the daddies with good demands obviously. When it comes to them being demanding it can be asking you to things right away or asking you to do things that are unreasonable.

The one thing that you need to do is to be cautious about is the "to good to be true" daddies. The classic one is he will give you a lot of money for very little work. There could be guys that are that rich but you still have to cautious plus they could always ask for more.

They could also be the abusive or blackmail daddies. There are daddies that will blackmail women especially if they have been hurt by women in the past. Most abusive or blackmail daddies will do this not only because they are fake but because they feel like they have this power over women. They may even feel like women owe them something. Some daddies or fake daddies have negative thoughts of women. There are also controlling daddies. They think because they are spending money on you that they can be controlling. Some girls put up with it because they think that it's how sugar daddies are but it's not. These guys aren't fakes they're just jerks that shouldn't be daddies, so don't put up with them.

I hope this makes sense. There will be another part of this series so stay tuned.

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Lena Bailey

Georgia born writer. Specializing in dating and true crime

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