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27 sentences will help you see through human nature. You can trust people, but don't believe in human nature!

By DerasomPublished 2 years ago 7 min read
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The underlying logic of human nature is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. When something is good, everyone wants to fight for it; when something is bad, everyone wants to avoid it, so if you want to drive others to do things, you must tell others the benefits of doing so in advance. When you don't want others to do this, you tell others the disadvantages in advance, and naturally you can let others do things according to your ideas:

1. Don't complain to anyone unless it's a sign of weakness! In most cases, your complaints will only lead to two results, one is the schadenfreude of others, and the other is the indifference of others.

2. The biggest ugliness of human nature is that you can't see the good of others, especially the people who are similar to him suddenly get better, so you have to learn to make a fortune in silence.

3. If you have money and power, all you see are smiling faces, and all you feel is kindness; if you have no money and no power, you will only experience the coldness of the world and the indifference of human feelings. Money is not everything, but money is the most powerful. Test humanity.

4. Don't have a bad mind, but don't be too good or too kind. If you are too kind, but you don't have the slightest edge, then others will only ask for anything from you and take your goodness for granted.

5. Human nature cannot stand the test. If you don't have enough interests to bind a person, don't trust a person too much, otherwise, you will be slapped in the face by reality sooner or later.

6. When people walk in society, they should make more friends, but also be careful. Many social people's friendships are exploited and deceived. Before you know each other, don't unilaterally trust each other.

7. No matter how good the relationship of friends is, you should be cautious when making suggestions. If you are not sure, try not to mention them. Otherwise, you will be testing friendship with human nature. Once things fail, friends will easily turn against each other.

8. Some people don't know how to be grateful. The more you help them, the more they take it for granted and think that you owe him. When you stop helping one day, he will treat you as an enemy.

9. The more honest you are, the more people will bully you; the kinder you are, the more people will try to take advantage of you, the less likely you will be bullied, the less people will dare to bully you; if you behave a little bit, the more people will be. To please you, this is the weakness of human nature.

10. One of the great truths of human nature is that you always think that you are right, you are unwilling to accept criticism from others, and you can always find excuses for yourself.

11. Human nature is complex. It has never been purely black and white, good and evil. There are still large areas of gray between black and white. Good and evil are just a matter of thought, so don’t always judge by good or bad. Alone, don't look too extreme.

12. Maturity is not to understand things, but to see through human nature. If you have been ignored, don't expect too much; if you have been deceived, don't believe it easily.

13. One of the stupidities of human nature is to blame others for everything. If you can’t do anything, you should instead seek yourself; When you encounter a problem, you might as well reflect on yourself first and find the reason from yourself. This is the performance of a person who is smart and has high emotional intelligence.

14. How others treat you is actually what you teach others. Any bad relationship must have your share of the credit. It sounds cruel, but it is the most real human nature.

15. It is human nature to break the drum and beat it, and the wall falls and everyone pushes it. Complaining against others, nothing can be changed; crying bitterly, nothing can be moved. You can only feel the sunshine all over the place when you "knock down your teeth and swallow blood" and climb to the top step by step.

16. You would rather starve and give your only bread to others, but it is better to have a hundred breads and only give them two. Remember: people don't care how much you pay, they only value themselves. How much can you get!

17. Don't try to please anyone! From the moment you want to please someone deliberately, you give the other person the qualification to look down on you, and you are already in an unequal position.

18. It is a good thing to be kind and help others, but human nature is complex, kindness must have the edge of protecting itself, and helping others must be done without harming your own interests.

19. Pursue high-quality social interaction and have a good relationship with important people. Should stay, should be cold, should be rolling, should be ruthless, whoever treats you well is the one who treats you well.

20. You can let others drive for you, but you can't let others walk for you. There has never been a real empathy in the world. Success must be fought for by oneself, pain must be endured by oneself, and pinning hope on others is doomed to be a tragedy.

21. You have the ability to hold an umbrella for others to keep out the rain, and others will pave the way for you; if you are as humble as dust, no one will look down on you. Don't complain that the world is hot and cold, and human feelings are as thin as paper, because this is the truth of human nature.

22. People are separated from each other. Good and evil are often in one thought. If you trust a person too much, it is equivalent to giving the other party the right to hurt you. Remember Nietzsche's words: "Man is a rope between the superman and the beast".

23. You have been helping a person. If you don’t help that day, he will help you as an enemy; you slap a person every day. If one day you don’t fight, he will kneel down and thank you. So, don't be too soft, because human nature has always been bullying the soft and fearing the hard.

24. There is a kind of person who doesn't want to make others feel better when they are not doing well. They will try their best to block others and use any means to make others stumbling. If you encounter such a person, don't get too close to them. .

25. When your sincerity and kindness are exchanged for the other party to make progress and intensify, you must stop the loss in time, because human nature has a kind of evil, it is called: You help him in the misfortune, but he makes you worse; you lend a helping hand for him. , but he fell for you.

26. If someone is nice to you for no reason, then he probably wants to get something from you, for the ulterior motives of profit. Once he gets it easily, he may turn his face instantly. So, don't overestimate your relationship with anyone, otherwise, you will often end up disappointed.

27. No one cares how you cry in countless late nights, and no one cares what darkest moments you have survived. The process must be supported by yourself, and people only look at the results. Therefore, don't complain to others, and don't be hypocritical in front of anyone. After you succeed, talk about your original intentions.

Whether it is in society or in the workplace, only by mastering human nature can you better control your own destiny, and you will be able to walk in society with ease, because in society and the workplace, you have to deal with people. It is to master the underlying logic of operation, and to avoid many detours in society and the workplace.

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