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Don’t Give a Fuck About Your Romantic Shit

Just forget the fucking heartbreak and live your life happily

By S M Mamunur RahmanPublished 3 years ago 3 min read
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Where There Is Love, There Is Heartbreak. It's Natural.

Do you think you can love someone forever? No, you don't. Maybe there can be one or two exceptions. But life is not a fucking fairy tale. There is no 'happily ever after.' And the concept of romantic love changes over time.

No doubt, life will fuck you up in many ways, and heartbreak is one of them.

You can become a victim, or you can bounce back and start enjoying your life on your own terms - the choice is yours.

Life Is Hard, Isn't It?

Everybody knows that. You will hardly find any person who didn't experience at least one heartbreak in his/her life.

This is it.

This is life. It is supposed to be full of sorrows, heartbreaks, failures, and fucking pain. If you are a man(or woman), you will bounce back.

You must kick your fucking emotions out of the window and tell yourself - shit happens, but I have a life ahead. I don't have time for shits.

If you can tell yourself this and be optimistic - you are okay, my dear. But if you become the victim of some fucking hormonal imbalance and codependency, considering it as your romantic surge, then I have bad news for you.

You are going backward, my friend. You are fucking yourself up. Mark my words, I may sound a little harsh, but this is true that you will never be a man with a backbone ever.

Your romantic shit will always follow you. You will become a jerk who has nothing but some shitty past to remember and regret.

I Will Never Find Someone Like Her/Him

Oh, my goodness! I hear such nonsense all the time. After having a heartbreak, it's the first thing that comes into your mind that you will never find someone like this.

Really? 

You will not find any - out of this 07 billion people across the world?

Have some commonsense, my friend. I think you are too worried that your beloved will have sex with others (not with you). I think that's bothering you the most. Maybe you have thought of getting married to her and living happily for the rest of your life.

If you have the misconception that love-marriage is the best thing that could happen in your life, I would recommend you google some statistics on the current divorce rate. You'll find that love marriages break faster than arranged marriages.

So, don't live in a false colorful bubble. Face the reality.

Who Will Love Me?

Go to the street and put a signboard over your head. Are you a dumb one? Of course, you will be loved. One heartbreak is not the end of the world.

Life is full of uncertainties and opportunities. Who knows - maybe a better person will warm your heart in a few days or a few months.

If no one cares for the time being, what's wrong with that. Have some guts. Be confident and optimistic. Do not allow fucking tears to fuck your life.

Tell yourself that you can deal with yourself, and you have a higher purpose in life. Love can be a tiny part of it - certainly, it's not the whole.

Don't Give a Fuck

Maybe tons of fairy tales and romantic comedies fucked your brain from childhood. It made you believe that love and romance are the only truth that matters. So you are desperate to get attached to your prince charming or cinderella to live a filmy-life.

Let me tell you - it's time to get out of that fucking fantasy. Romantic love is not the only thing you need.

What about love for humanity, the environment, wildlife? What about love for the deprived ones? What about love for your passion? What about creativity, knowledge, philosophy?

Don't give a fuck about your heartbreak. Just be confident, bold, and optimistic for the coming days. Try to live a life full of diversity. Allow your mind to explore more - know the unknown, and expand your worldview.

Don't cry like a child feeling devastated. 

Deal with your emotions like a mature person. 

Let it go.

Then turn your heartbreak into a better-art if possible. Choose your next step carefully. Learn from your past mistake. Forget the events but always remember the learnings.

Choose to live happily and respect yourself. Because if you don't respect yourself - nobody will.

Final Thoughts

Heartbreak is common. It happens, and it's painful. But you must keep a pro-mindset to come out of that nonsense.

No one can live in the past. So, if you are heartbroken, just don't give a shit. Move forward.

Forget your ex and go for the next adventure of life. Have fun, and love yourself.

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Thank you for reading.

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* The article was originally published on Medium (link)

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S M Mamunur Rahman

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