Does He still love me

Every relationship has its ups and downs. Having relationship problems is completely normal. If it gets to a point where you have to question “is it over?” Most likely it probably is. Just in case you want to be sure here are 4 ways to know for certain.

1 No Communication :

I know that after an argument it’s kind of natural for a couple to not communicate for a couple of hours. If it become more common with out arguing and you haven’t talked about your issues it tends to make both of you feel worse inside. Talking it out can save a lot of problems that you might have. It the foundation of a relationship.

2 No Trust

You might have heard the saying, “if we don’t have trust, we don’t have nothing.” This saying is true. Without trust you can never really be able to love that person the way you once have. Maybe he cheated and you forgave him. Now everytime he goes out you don’t fully trust him and when you ask he about his whereabouts you don’t believe him. This is the worst feeling. Now you have to question everytime he goes out and doing this for so long the love soon runs out. At this point your body is there but your mind is gone.

3 No Commitment

No, I’m not talk marriage necessarily, I’m talking about keeping your “word”. You have to be committed in a relationship. Once you both agree to be in one, then that’s where you stay. Even saying that you are going to have lunch together then “flaking” on it. That would make the other person feel stood up or even forgotten. Keep your word at all times, Or your partner might feel betrayed justa little.

4 No Positivity

Having positive thoughts and actions in a relationship is extremely important. If you are being negative towards each other, calling each other names and criticizing one another can cause they relationship to suffer horribly. Also without any negativity could me that you are holding in grudges and frustrations which are leading to unresolved problems between you two. Which means am you have to balance both of them out, going back to our first point, communication.

Being in a relationship is a beautiful thing l. Just don’t rush it.

My grandma always had the best advice when it came to relationships. My favorite saying she would say when someone asks the question “How do I tell if my man is am cheating on me?” She would always say. “If you think your man is cheating on you, that’s how you can tell.”