Do You Like 2 People At The Same Time?

It does not make you a 'Don Juan' or 'an immoral' person. What is wrong is to flirt with two people at the same time and play with their feelings.

But we know that your case is not that (we really believe it), we want to think that you are in doubt, that you were very excited about your partner and suddenly you met someone who captivated you, it is really fun or very smart, the truth is that you can not stop thinking about him or her.

If you are single and only like them, this guide will help you. And if you have a partner and do not know whether to continue with your relationship for fear of falling into a betrayal, these tips will make you put all the cards on the table and decide correctly.

1. Consider your options

Ask yourself, what am I looking for: a serious relationship, an adventure, the love of my life?

When you like two people at the same time the only thoughts in your head are passion, even lust. Put all that aside and look at what you really need in your life right now.

2. Evaluate a possible relationship with each one

If you are in a relationship this will be a little more complicated, because with your partner you already know how life is as a couple and the second person would only be something idealized or imagined.

Try to think calmly and one question that can help you is who do I have better conversations with?

Here come the passions or tastes, with this question highlights the essence of your partner.

Another factor here is determining who you trust the most, who is most reliable for you and of course the communication.

Analyze with which person it is easier for you to talk about serious things, not everything in a relationship is laughter, so stop thinking about who you laugh with the most, the important thing is who you grow up with the most.

3. Determine how each person makes you feel about yourself

Which of the two do you feel more valued, respected, free to be yourself? Analyze how your personality changes or is maintained with each person.

4. Be honest with yourself

Don't rush into a yes, start a relationship just 'because you like it better'. Remember to organize the priorities in your life, what you are looking for now with a person.

Good moods change into problems, laughter can end into problems, sexiness can become vanity.

5. Make a list

This is something very interesting and will help you a lot: Make a column for each one and write down all the positive qualities that come to mind.

If both share the same quality, cross it out. You should consider their unique qualities and compare them to choose the ones you like best.

The person who has the most unique qualities is the one you should choose.

However, you should also consider their defects; the person with the least amount of defects is also a good choice.

6. Take some time

The list is just a tool to help you sort out your ideas, but it is not the final decision. Now analyze your feelings and put everything on a scale.

Take your time wisely (not too short, not too long because you will lose both). Remember that you deserve someone who is worth it, you deserve the best option.

7. Choose

You have to be honest, maybe with your decision you will lose a friendship and that is the biggest fear, but if you are honest with yourself and with your partner, it will be a nice memory.

Don't flirt with both, learn to enjoy friendship. Only then you will be able to make the right decision. Don't let momentary desire make you lose a serious relationship or maybe you're stuck in a relationship it's time to get out and grow.

Analyze the qualities, look at yourself in a future relationship with each one, analyze what your heart and mind are telling you.

Your emotional intelligence will help you make a good decision.