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by Temitope Smart 2 months ago in advice

The Singles Rules To An Explosive Love life

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As you only have a few minutes, focus on the significant things. First try to figure out whether or not this person is suited for you. Within a couple of minutes you’ll already be getting a certain feel from that person.

Whether it’s a good thing or not, you have every bit of power to steer the date your course of direction, so to speak. You must emit a confident, driven and likeable energy. That way your date would feel more comfortable and conversations will by easy. It’s also a practice of good judgment. Keeping an open mind is key.

Don’t shut yourself to the idea of seeing this person until you get to know them. Zone in on what the person's life feels like, and whether or not he or she's happy with it. In the long run, the success or failure of the date will depend upon the little things that the other individual does or says -- just like in a conventional dating situation. The little things count.

Basic grooming tips for both him and her.

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1. Always, always maintain a clean shave. Don't let your beard grow beyond being unattractive. No woman would want to snuggle up next to a hobo and kiss a network of facial hair. Learn how to give yourself a clean and smooth shave. Among the important things to keep in mind when shaving is to do so after showering, while the pores are still open. Or you can place a facecloth in warm water, place it on top of your beard area for 30 seconds and then shave. It is important to invest in a good quality razor and shaving cream. This will help you avoid having shaving bumps, annoying cuts and wounds that will end up as gross little patches of white on your face as you’re walking down the street.

2. Maintain a good haircut, as well as clean hair all the time. Hair is a symbol of power. Of style. And so of course the woman mind takes this into account as something that matters. A feat that is also one of the biggest deciding factors in attraction. Make sure you have no dandruff and your hair is neatly trimmed. Itchy white flakes are a big no-no. Also make sure that the hair style you’re going to get is perfect for your face shape. Salons as well as barbers would know this as common knowledge. Before getting a haircut ask them first which hair style is best suited for your face shape. The result is a big high- five and a better looking you. Avoid using too much grease or oily hair product on your hair as it tends to give your hair a grimy look and feel. Less is more. Just a little product, along with the right shampoo and conditioner, can go a long way.

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