Complaining, can not solve any problem

It is a well-known truth that only by reducing dissatisfaction can there be no more complaints. However, in real life, due to the narrow-mindedness and selfishness of people, it is difficult to do this.

"Complaining to God" is to complain about the unfair fate, bad luck, complaining that God does not give you a chance: "You" is to blame others for your mistakes, complaining to God is essentially a weak mind, very poor tolerance, always looking for excuses for their own mistakes, to get the heart of the A trace of grace for, such people can not achieve great things.

People who like to blame others have a great characteristic of focusing on shifting the blame, rather than on the thing itself. Such people are too many psychologically sensitive, and pessimistic, the more they are, the more the goddess of luck will not pay attention to them, one after another bad luck to make them believe more bad luck. This causes a vicious circle. Very often, how well things are done is not the key, the key is that they have a problem pushing everything to the fate of the matter.

A young man has not been reappointed, for this reason, he was sad, unusually bitter. One day, the young man complained to God: "Why is fate so unfair to me?"

God was silent, but he picked up a small, insignificant stone and threw it into the pile of stones. God said, "Go and ask me about the stone I just threw away." As a result, the young man rummaged through the pile of rocks, but to no avail.

At this point, God took the ring off his hand and threw it into the pile of rocks in the same way. This time, he quickly found the ring - the shiny ring.

God did not say anything else, but the young man became awakened; when he was still just a small stone. Never complain about the injustice of fate when you are just a small stone and not a piece of shiny gold.

God gives no one too much luck, in the face of bad luck, a moment of hardship, some people are complaining, others are calmly looking at themselves, asking whether they have honed themselves into a piece of gold.

The world is indeed trivial, the world is troubled, and there is always a harsh wind and cold rain. However, this is not suffering, but the test and refinement of life by God. At this time, to do is not to complain about God, but to continue to capture the wisdom of survival, to bear the suffering, face the blow, and eventually polish themselves into shining gold.

God is always fair, until one day, full of strength, no one can hide the brilliant and dazzling light. Therefore, young people should learn to pave the way for their future.

The priest went to visit a parishioner who had not been to church for a long time

The parishioner said, "The parishioners have too many problems with right and wrong. A bunch of people pull together and just like to talk about people's rights and wrongs, I feel very tired, and I don't like this kind of church. If the church was not like this, but a simple place, I would go."

The priest had no choice because he felt that the church had many problems with right and wrong, and these problems lasted for a long time.

Frustrated, he came back and asked the experienced older priest for advice.

The old priest went to the parishioner, who again repeated his words, "If the Church were a simple place, I would go.

The old priest listened with a smile and asked, "Have you ever seen a church like that?"

The parishioner thought about it, shook his head, and said; "No, I have not seen one."

The old priest said, "If you have, I advise you not to go either."

The parishioner was puzzled and asked, "Why?"

The old priest replied, "You will just pollute it even if you go."

Many people's first reaction to the many things in their lives that don't go their way is to complain. Complaining is not bad, but it tends to savor the sadness of falling into negative emotions.

Catholics complain that the church has many faults, and it does, but the church must have its good points. By focusing on its faults, one tends to magnify them and ignore its good points.

Everything must have its strengths and weaknesses. First, learn to think about what can be learned from such an event. Since such an event was encountered by a particular person, it must be a special test for him to learn in this world. How to learn and grow in this is the most important thing.

Try to look at the parts of things that make you learn and grow, rather than focusing on the parts that make you grow negatively. If you feel that you are not successful, and you blame it on bad luck, then you are probably the type of person who only complains. Then that person is probably a fatalist who only complains about the unfairness of God. This kind of person can be found everywhere in real life, and most of them are mediocre.

If you want to have a bright future, you have to believe in yourself and understand that you are in control of your destiny, not about others, and not about God's favor or not, so there is no reason to complain. As long as you believe in yourself and think about the good side of everything, you can certainly continue to help yourself open up to the world.