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Be Alone And Lonely Are Two Different Things

Be Alone And Lonely Are Two Different Things

By EfulPublished 2 years ago Updated 2 years ago 7 min read
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Be Alone And Lonely Are Two Different Things
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Oddly enough, most people are usually puzzled by the undeniable fact that be alone and lonely are two different things. In a world that is usually made up of sounds, it is actually important to enjoy quiet situations of loneliness rather than boring thoughts of loneliness, even if communication with other people is part of everyday life.

What exactly will be the difference between them?

To begin with, you must realize that loneliness at this time is actually a point away from the present being, while loneliness is often a state of thought. While the latter is usually the type of pain that hits your chest and all your ideas, the former is usually a sort of retreat that turns into your refuge wherever you can rest and rejuvenate.

Countless men and women around love to have fun and socialize, but many of them also like to sit at home alone and be alone from time to time. Humans are by nature social beings, so the thought of being alone must be completely irrelevant and non-existent. But it's not!

I love time itself... but when people are lonely, they can be filled with such emptiness, despair and sadness. I am sure that loneliness has affected you no less than a moment in lifestyle. We all have. In fact, it is a feeling of unhappiness, and this is by far the most unpleasant thing that almost any of us faces.

Being alone is completely different from being alone, mainly because you have to be alone from time to time as a source. But loneliness comes up every time you don't feel completely alone. Let's get into it!

Why is it bad to be lonely?

Loneliness is often a vague, constant feeling that haunts you throughout the day. It doesn't depend on what you're doing or who you're with; It seems very difficult to get rid of this feeling or get rid of it, no matter who is next to you.

Never get me wrong; in fact, every person feels lonely sometimes, for example, because of a broken heart, or maybe the feeling that many business people experience on their way to success. But I'm talking about the style of loneliness, caused by the tragic feeling of loneliness, when no one is finished, and you are just in pain.

We all have other ways of coping with pressure, problems, and heartbreak, but you almost never need to allow yourself to reach your goal exactly where you feel so alone that it conveys adverse feelings to your mind.

Again, for anyone who has thoughts of being alone or a fear of being a man or a woman, this is actually a standard trait, however, it really should be the case from time to time. The condition occurs when you draw conclusions that are supposed to give you some relief from intermittent problems such as loneliness.

You should be aware that in the long run, this can only bring you long-term devastating consequences.

Being alone is wrong

Many people make the wrong connotations about being single at the moment. It is generally believed that if you are single, you must become a single person, or maybe something is wrong with you, especially in a lifestyle in which housekeeping can be a sign of ultimate satisfaction.

This is not at all because you are sad when trouble happens in your daily life or being alone in a cafe, this should really indicate that you are a lonely person. This is so far from reality. Loneliness will not mean that there is a problem, that you are unhappy or that you do not have one.

This means that being disconnected from your land from time to time is generally much more satisfying to meet your needs than constantly being surrounded by people, since being in your personal gives you a period to connect with your best self and really listen.

All effective people do it! Being alone is a really rewarding routine to fork out for alone time, trust, and put things into perspective. In addition, you could do the same by walking in mother nature, spending time in the quiet at home, meditating, and so on.

By making time for yourself, you connect with yourself; you notice what opportunities may arise in your lifestyle. Being itself has somehow become politically incorrect within our social land. But did you know that you're just missing out on a significant part of what it means to be yourself?

Great time for self improvement

I have usually watched myself grow to be renewed, improved and reborn as soon as I take time for myself. You never? Throughout all these quiet situations, I do feel something, not yours or lonely, but relative silence renewing my life force.

And by taking some time for yourself and getting to know who you are, you will discover the best strategies for improvement. This is really a great moment for self-improvement, because the usual interaction with people today deprives you of the opportunity to work with any areas of yourself that require some progress.

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Sufficient time that you devote to yourself creates space for your case to develop, assert and strengthen for the better. Independence is often attractive. You understand that having free space gives you the pleasure of standing your ground without relying on other people.

Being alone will also be seen as a therapeutic act right after the accident you went through. This may be a period of time when you need time to heal so that you may want to be content with you.

Too many people around the world tolerate inappropriate behavior from friends, spouses, children, or co-workers to not have to become alone or feel lonely. Why would anyone do this to themselves? Why would you endure it?

We are designed to be perhaps the smartest species on this planet, and yet we often act foolishly.

Strategies on how to love being yourself in the present

Be described as a daring adventurer.

Stop limiting the possibilities of using new factors.

Go to a movie alone, go to a coffee shop, go on vacation or go somewhere for a work day.

Feel relaxed as you figure out your rightful self.

Unleash your survival instincts.

Remember that self-confidence is within your qualities.

Have an idea of ​​what will make you an amazing person.

To be close to you to gain a sense of independence from many others.

Realize that you don't want anything or anyone else to make you feel loved.

Place with each other and view any positive emails, notes, letters, postcards, pictures and compliments about yourself.

Learn how to make time for yourself so you can better deal with challenges.

Explore the inspiration around you by doing something positive.

Use your free time to finish one thing you love.

Surround yourself with optimism.

Get to places that make you feel superior and powerful.

Walk away from unfavorable places or people.

Get in touch and connect with your inner self.

Release endorphins by doing something enjoyable or laughing.

Be confident in the Universe as well as in your skills.

Repeat to yourself that you just still have something to live for.

Oftentimes investing in itself is not to everyone's liking, but it does seem like healthier practices; it's all about balance and control.

“Now, you will most likely change to look at your daily life, but you will see a sign expressing “NO extended possibility”, but you will end up with a person claiming “YOUR Existence”. So grab a stick and your backpack and go ahead.”

Understand that there is nothing wrong with being yourself for a while. Consider rediscovering yourself this time, loving yourself, admiring your qualities and strengths, and improving by finding out in your trials, whatever they may be. By realizing the difference between be alone and lonely, you will enjoy the richness of who you are. So love your moment of loneliness.

Thank you So much for you to reading till the end, and please kindly to support me as you could, I would be appreciate it. Have a great day:D

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Eful

Hi there, I am Syaefullah Nur from Indonesia. I am reader and now I try to providing my best articles for you guys. Enjoy it;)

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