Bad Guys and Their Irresistible Charm, Why They Attract Women’s Attention

Why are women irresistibly attracted to "bad guys"? Why does it happen so often that a girl/woman is conquered and turned upside down by exactly the most inappropriate boy/man? It seems that it is a special talent - that of wanting exactly the wrong person and ignoring the obvious lightness - the fact that a "bad boy" is not exactly a relationship material…

How do you explain the charm that these "bad guys" have on girls and women, who let themselves be so easily conquered by them? Why their obvious flaws are turned into irresistible qualities and a woman who refuses monogamy, a rebellious man who breaks the rules, a man addicted to alcohol/drugs, a man who would be suitable for anything but a stable relationship. no, do you earn points in front of a balanced and reliable man?

It is always insisted that women want a serious, mature, realistic, trustworthy, polite, and sensitive man by their side, who listens and supports their partner in the couple. And then you notice how perfectly balanced and normal women, women in their place, are conquered and turned upside down by the exact opposite - a superficial, immature, cloud-headed man, arrogant, selfish, who has no security and more, behave horribly with them!

How many times does the question "what does she see in him?", "How can she stay with him?", "Why does she love him?" - women like any other who sit next to men who do not deserve them and what is the exact opposite of an ideal couple partner! What is the explanation and why do the "bad guys" seem to get everything and win in front of the "trustworthy" ones ?!

"Bad boys" and women:

The "bad guys" are indifferent and direct. A "bad boy" generally behaves indifferently and often even ugly with women! They ignore or care too little about the rules of politeness and their sensitivity! Bad guys often behave as if only what they want matters and as if the woman has to give them what they want!

And behold, women fall into a trap - it seems that the worse a man behaves, the more attracted a woman is to him, the more he ignores her, the more she wants him! Some exaggerate and say that to conquer a woman, you have to behave indifferently and coldly with her… What is the explanation - why, despite any logic, women not only accept but are also attracted by an indifferent or ugly attitude?

This brutal sincerity and carelessness confuses them and makes women want to get the appreciation of the man who behaves like this! He provokes them and instead of making them run away, he makes them try their best to please the man…

The refusal. The "bad guys" are just doing what they want! The "bad guys" refuse and refuse in a direct, abrupt, insensitive way! Tell a woman she can't have anything, anything, and she'll want that threefold thing! The more she is rejected, the more she is challenged and wants more! If such a man conquers a woman and then refuses to have a stable relationship with her - she will want to have him even more…

The "bad guys" exude strength, dominance, masculinity. They are often indifferent, arrogant, and have self-confidence that, although often unjustified, impresses women! All are traits that attract women, who - although they want a sensitive man - can not help but be attracted by strength and masculinity. And although reason would tell them to run away from such a man, they do not listen to reason when they fall in love with the "bad guys."

The thrills of adventure. Doing something different, something "wrong", having a passionate adventure, although it is clear that the man does not offer anything that a woman needs - the very idea of ​​adventure, risk, danger can conquer a woman. She wants stability in her life, but she can't stop dreaming about the adventure… And so she quickly regrets the price paid for living the adventure…

The "bad guys" are not subtle - they are direct and interested in body and sexuality! That's why they find a woman desirable if she's sexy! And although it is said that every woman wants to be appreciated for her inner qualities, she can't help but be very flattered when a "bad boy" appreciates her and considers her "quality material"!

The "bad guys" are sexy. Many "bad guys" - those in the category of women and rebels, by their strength and confidence, emanate sexuality and although they are not always beautiful, they look like that in the eyes of women. Rationally speaking, many are not at all beautiful - but that aura around them makes them look irresistible… A study even showed that when women ovulate, hormones make them attracted to sexy men, to look at them. these as desirable partners despite any logic!

The fantasy "I can change him" / "I can make him happy, another man". Here is another explanation of the attraction for "bad guys". Women want to heal and help! And a "bad boy" for them is not just like that because he likes that lifestyle!

No - women always tend to look for deep motivations and causes and inevitably concluded that "he is like that because he is not happy" / "because he did not have someone to help him" / "because he did not meet the right woman" / "Because it has an inner void." And nothing more irresistible than the idea that you could change him, help him and that he would turn overnight, thanks to you, into an equally irresistible man, but serious and happy!

Therefore, an effeminate man will be in her eyes a heart disease that can be saved, an addict (alcohol, drugs, gambling) will be an unfortunate one who can be healed, a rebel will be an empty man on "Evil boys" receive an aura of tragedy, an aura that conquers a woman - it even seems that women are attracted not by happy men who look ok and smile, but on the contrary, by men who display unhappiness or aggression, with expressions of sadness or nervousness on his face…

And the idea of ​​changing him, of being what "a bad boy does" is an irresistible challenge…