Are These Your Kings

What is going on with these “relationship gurus”? No is ever who they really say they are and it is very suspicious. Why call yourself a relationship guru in the first place? Why not show off your relationship and let us form our own relationship goals? Do you know why they never show their own partners? The relationships they are in are all crappy to begin with.

By now you can guess who I am talking about, D. Jaxn and his relationship mess. This has been news heard all around the world. It has become international news because of KARMA!!!! This mad has a career of being a pick-me for women. Telling women certain signs to look for what he should be doing, what he should not be doing.

Every grown person knows a good relationship from a bad one and what is good for them. But people like Mr. Jaxn fed into the ‘the perfect man’ stereotype. He created this illusion of self that he portrayed to be the perfect partner for women. Especially black women!!!

In the past month 3 women and probably more today have come out and have said they were with Jaxn during his courtship and marriage to his now wife. But instead of owning up to it, he has a new punchline to his work:FORGIVENESS.

He already pitched this idea to his fanbase and they are eating it up, He is even gaining more followers. It is so terrifying how cult-like some people are.

There is another “relationship expert” or “image consultant” who has the time to just go around on this internet of 2021 and just rate women and tell them how they will never find a man. He has the gull and the audacity to do this with no secure or real relationship of his own. People are still following like he is Christ too.

The I.C man went viral a few months before D.Jaxn. D. Jaxn was still doing his mess and didn’t fully come out to his wife yet. Not for nothing, they probably watched each other's videos and took notes too.

There are reasons why men and women watch these kinds of videos. Women watch to seek out their perfect man and to tell men ``see this is how you're SUPPOSED to act, even he said it.” or to seek validation from men. Men watch to ridicule the women who watch for validation and to ridicule the men that watch the videos.

Also, why does anyone take these videos seriously!! Really, no one really knows the ins and outs of their relationship except the you people in them. Although, some people might be in denial about their shit-uation. But, no one said these people make up the rules and what they say goes.

As you can see, most of what they say is some bull anyways. You know what you need to fix in your relationship and what works for you. Do not let anyone tell you what it is or what it should be.

All of this shows how blindly we follow people without knowing anything at all about them. Are we as humans really this gullible? We rely on every word that is said to us instead of doing our own research. We never say that anything is skeptical or ‘take the meat, leave the bones’ as my grandmother used to say. We can never say I understand half of it but not the whole thing, its we believe all of it or none of it, just run with the whole thing.

I think once we realize that we, as a human race are extremely flawed and that nothing we see is 100 percent, we might do a little better.