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A person who changes goals over time

spin a cocoon around oneself (idiom); enmeshed in a trap of one's own devising

By Yi SuPublished 2 years ago 16 min read
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A person who changes goals over time
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Zhou Guoping said, "The so-called success of life is to take care of your life well and to settle your soul. In this life, there is always a need to have someone around who understands you, to warm your soul and perceive the beauty of this world.

Therefore, if you meet someone with a similar soul, do not miss it, get along well, he is the golden key to unlock the pain of your life.

Life is not as good as it should be, sorrow and worries are part of life, only to be yourself, the worries and sorrows as nothing, the bright sun will light up life.

So, for the trials and tribulations of life, life's woes, depending on how you look at it, good attitude everything will be good, bad attitude life will be incomparably worse!

In fact, not everyone is born to quietly understand life, life is like a practice, every person and thing that comes through your life, you will be able to learn to grow once.

It is because with it will teach you how to face the pain in life, so as to untie the knot, and then start living well again. Life is a practice full of suffering, it is not easy.

Some people say that earth is a theater, we are all actors of all kinds in the theater, their own life is always full of a variety of roles, one of the most important role is: themselves.

In the rolling flood of society, perhaps we have long thrown our own hearts aside and simply cannot hear his voice. I think this book "The Second Blossom" is a healing book to open our hearts, so that we can become joyful, transparent, no longer cling to the idea, and look at our own lives with freedom.

Someone said: "The rarest thing in life is not to know everything, but to be able to continue to plow deep in a field and break through. Every single person has qualities that others do not have.

A place with the heart, even if the lure is moving, do not be a long time; break the barriers of thinking, even if it is difficult, can not stick to experience.

Perseverance, even if laborious and painstaking, you can not get off halfway; starlight does not bear the road, you pay the effort, the years will eventually give you a satisfactory answer.

The hardships people suffer when they are young are not considered hardships; the real hardships are the lack of blessings in their later years. The real bitterness is the lack of blessings in later years. If you enjoy your blessings early and consume them all, you will only be left with bitterness later.

In fact, what really makes people grow is not the years, but the experience. Live half a life what storms have not experienced, a little bit of difficulty, it will immediately collapse.

From a young age, numerous trials and tribulations, have carried over, after growing up what the wind and waves are not afraid. There is a saying that: it is difficult to be a man without having been poor, and never naive without a blow. There are no people who have cried in the long night, not enough to talk about life. Pain, is a mandatory course of life.

The body is not bitter, it is not rich; the heart is not bitter, it is not full of wisdom. It is not a bad thing to suffer in life, who does not suffer in this world, thousands of people suffer in thousands of ways, suffering is not the same. Only some suffering is we passively eat, but some suffering is to take the initiative to eat.

If we don't suffer physically, we don't know the importance of cultivating blessings. If we don't suffer some severe trauma psychologically, we don't know the urgency of growing wisdom. In fact, the so-called suffering in life, only from the "body" and "mind", to solve these two, people will be truly at ease.

 Take good care of your body, the body is the capital, any sacrifice of health for wealth and fame is not worth it. Observe your mind well, don't get worried, don't have obsessions, go with the flow, go with the flow, be able to enjoy blessings and sufferings, and not delay this life.

The world is pouring with rain, no one is carrying more for you, you have to hide your weakness and be your own shelter. No one under the sun is your real support, even your closest people, they can pass by your life, but will not always accompany you.

People always understand happiness as "having", having a house and a car, having money and power, but in fact true happiness is "not", no illness, no disaster, no worry, no fear.

The real possession is your inner freedom; the real strength is the awakening of your inner cognition. In this impermanent world, don't think about eternity and forever, live in the present moment is the fundamental.

Life is like this, either this suffering or that suffering, suffering is the norm, we have to learn to adapt, understand and tolerate. Although suffering, but people are enough to "endure", there is an old saying that "people can not eat the suffering.

Only can not enjoy the blessings", the more you can train people in front of suffering, for the strong, the more difficult days, the more polishing and achievement. The more muddy and rough road, the more test of patience and perseverance. You can carry it, you are qualified to get what you want.

Life in the world, but just a few decades. Time, not because of a person and stop the pace of progress, but also because of a person and additional length of life. The time is like an arrow, the days and months are like a shuttle, life shakes, they are also old.

"Each of us, in fact, is a passerby in this heaven and earth; our life is just a journey of time. We can not extend the length of life, but we can dig the depth of life, so that their lives are more meaningful."

The lost time will be lost eventually, even if you have more money, you can not buy back the time; scattered youth, eventually become past tense, even if you have the right, you can not return to the old; physical health, even if you have the ability, you can not always guarantee.

In this world, money is not everything, not everything can be bought back with money. Some things, once lost, there is no chance to recover; some people, once missed, there is no chance to meet again.

"Time, once spent, there is no chance of regaining; hearts, once hurt, there is no chance of regaining. Every thing we do, every word we say, is counted, there is no room for backtracking."

Many people feel that they have money is the biggest capital, so they continue to squander their youth, and constantly overspend their bodies. I do not know that there is gain and loss, the more you are greedy for pleasure, the more you will lose health.

Life in the world, no matter how rich and capable you are, in fact, the end is the same, one day will leave this world. Therefore, do not compete, do not envy and do not show off, is the most correct choice in life.

 Many people, always like to put money in the first place in life. They feel that money is the only thing worth pursuing in life, in order to obtain more money, do not hesitate to get up early and go to work overload, desperately also want to make their wallets become more bulging.

There are even times when one's body is seriously overdrawn and one's physical strength is exhausted, and one wants to go earn a little more money, not willing to spend a little time off.

Such an approach is not a manifestation of cherishing time, but a foolish choice. At all times, we must know how to ensure our own health, and then to rationalize their time.

To harm your body for the sake of money is the most unprofitable approach. Perhaps you are still young and have not yet felt the sickness, once you are old, your body will have all kinds of problems because of the overdraft when you were young, and then you will regret it too much.

In fact, money wealth is good enough for your own use, there is no need to go overboard. Once their desire is too heavy, then the heart of greed will be bigger and bigger, although you can get a lot of money, but there is no more healthy body to enjoy.

No matter how much money you have, you can't buy back the health of your body; no matter how much money you have, you can't maintain the vitality of your youth. Instead of regretting in the days to come, take good care of yourself while you can and don't hurt your body for money.

Many people, when they have money power themselves, start to see no one else. They think that money is status, and with money they can look down on others. Once they get rich, they have a villainous look, no matter who they see, they are toadying eyes.

I do not know, thirty years of the river east, thirty years of the river west, who is the final winner, who can not say. Do not think you have a few stinking money, you can see no one, you can look down on those who are working hard.

Those who show off their money everywhere, the more arrogant they are, the easier it is to offend others, the easier it is to get high and fall heavy. Others don't mind, just don't want to be bothered with you, once you encounter difficulties, no one will help you.

And those who are working hard, although still in the difficult stage, but the more effort the more fortunate, one day, they can also break out of a world, those who have laughed at their own disdain.

Life in the world, to respect each other, do not feel that they have money to look down on others. Keep a humble attitude and keep a kind heart in order to get yourself more help.

 Life in the world, in fact, the end has long been predetermined, no one can avoid the predestined cycle. We came to this earth, we have to live a good life. Too much greed will make you lose your sanity; too much desire will make you miss out on the good; too much pursuit will make you lose more.

Money, is never finished, life is only once, rich or poor, is a journey on earth, healthy and happy is the most important thing.

No matter how rich you are, no matter how capable you are, you can't get a second life. All the fame and fortune you have fought for, all the profits you have chased, after a hundred years, is just dust to dust, earth to earth.

We need to learn to cherish our lives! Cherish the people around you, cherish your health, cherish what you already have, don't lose the beauty around you for the pursuit of things outside your body.

People live a lifetime, rich is also over, no money is also over, do not have to dwell too much, only the heart feel happy happy is enough. This life, live to know how to wake up a little, see a little, not to live so tired heart.

You have to know that the world is actually a cold, cold world, no matter how bumpy the road of life, more rugged, we have to learn to rely on themselves, do not count on others, expect too much, disappointment will be more, and we only have to look down on it.

Not everyone will always be good to us, and not everyone is around us, some people appear in your life, is to love, and some people are to hurt you. Some people are good to you, there will be people who are not good to you.

Life is not as good as nine out of ten things, everything should be lighter, do not have to be too serious, do not care too much, right and wrong, human feelings, who is not a god, always for their own time.

When others choose for themselves, we can not force others, more can not ask others, so we need to do their own home, rely on themselves, see the reality, no one to help, we have to rely on themselves, no one love, we have to love themselves.

The human heart is cold and warm, when things come to know, who is sincere to you, who is false to you. Many times in life, are in the time of things, only to find that some people around you, it turns out that they are not as iron relations as they thought, but more than a mask, making it difficult to see.

Those who once told you, if there is anything to go to him, he will help you, if there are any difficulties, say it, we will work together to find a solution.

But when it comes to the real thing, those who once said at the table, but really just talk, when they really need to ask someone, but get more is indifferent and ruthlessly rejected.

It turns out that we have overestimated the hearts and minds of people and overestimated the relationships. When people are most down and out, they know that it is easy to add flowers to the cake, but it is so difficult to send charcoal in the snow. Few people will genuinely help themselves, and more are hiding from themselves, so the human heart is warm and cold, no one should expect anyone, so you will not feel disappointed because of who, everything look light on it.

The world is a cold place, it's good to look at it lightly. Mr. Yang Jiang said, in this materialistic society, life is really too bitter. Yes, people live, there is no not bitter. We have been in society for so many years, we can best appreciate the state of the world.

Especially when people are in a humble position, it is easiest to see the state of the world. Because of the humble people, the most likely to be looked down on, despised, and even targeted, bullying, and squeeze you.

In fact, look at the "hidden into the dust and smoke" of Ma Youtie, although he is very honest, very kind, but also has a kind of contrary character, but in fact he is not stupid, he sees more clearly than anyone else.

Although he was in a humble position, poor, down and out, no one to help, but also everywhere by people oppressed, but he did things, always stand up to the conscience of heaven and earth, very principled, borrowed things, will always return, even if others say no need to return, he will still return, because he said, a code to a code.

And when he was kicked out many times, did not have a home to return to, their own hands to build a house, and no one to help, even his own big brother wedding banquet did not call himself to go, and will not come over to help.

Ma Youtie actually see everything clearly, has long seen through the world, and quietly do their own, live their own life, do not ask others, do not expect others to help, no more suffering, no more tired, but also their own one to carry. The warm and cold of human feelings, the world's heat and cold, only those who learn to look away can live their own lives.

Many things are beyond their control, we can not change others, the only way to change their own state of mind, let fate take its course, let nature take its course, not sad, not happy, relaxed heart, not to count, not to complain. Even through the vicissitudes of the world.

As long as the world is light, the heart is naturally safe and sound. Human feelings like people drink water, warm and cold know themselves. There is a saying that there are two things in this world that cannot be looked at directly, one is the heart, one is the sun.

The people live a lifetime, do not try to test the hearts of people, do not speculate on the hearts of people, you do well despite yourself, time will prove everything, will also give all the answers. The people who are really good to you will always stay by your side, and the people who are not, sooner or later will leave.

If you feel uncomfortable with people, if you feel embarrassed, if you feel aggrieved, then learn to stay away, not everyone is worth your heart and soul, life choose good and make friends, see the hearts of people, what people can deep friendship, what people should stay away, their own heart has a number.

The best way to get the most out of your life is to keep your heart and soul in the right place.

The best way to live in life is to keep the inner calmness and calmness. As the sentence says, the favor is not shocked, look at the flowers in front of the court, to stay unintentional, look at the sky clouds rolling.

People live, do not have to care so much, some people, some things, some truth, see clearly on the good, look light to be comfortable. The most important thing is that you should not be in a hurry, love is very casual, not for the past disturbance, only for the rest of life smile.

Life is short, the face is easy to grow old, prosperity is difficult to stay, the eye is empty, while the time is not old, the sun is just right, cherish all the encounters in life, whether it is a person, or a flower, a drop of rain, are rare encounters in life.

Cherish all the beauty of life, the warm sunshine of each day, each passing encounter, the track of each year, are the most beautiful gift of life, is the long flow of time, the rare bright years.

The body is hard to get now, the light is hard to meet now if you meet, not to lose the years not to lose relatives, cherish everything to return. Cherish the time: the years are easy to pass, not to lose time.

Time is like an arrow, not only to describe the passage of time, but also an apt metaphor for life, meaning that from the moment of birth, life is like an arrow that leaves the string, rushing through the air, every minute and every second, closer to the landing.

The life of a person, the length of time, from the moment the arrow flies out, it is decided, no matter how much force, the arrow will eventually fall to the ground, the air can not leave a trace of the arrow flying over.

In the established time, one day will be one day less, is the day has passed, life is also reduced, such as less water fish, what is the joy of this? When diligent efforts to live up to the time.

In this way, the so-called treasure time is to find the meaning of life in the limited time, the limited time

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