A 75-year-old mother was abandoned to death by her 6 children. The word "murderer" angered the whole network: when you are old, it is more cruel than you think

Saw a sad news.

In Shangrao, Jiangxi, an old man was found dead in a bamboo forest.

No one could have imagined that the "murderer" who caused the death of the old man would be her own children.

The old lady Chen has been married 3 times in her life and has 6 children in total.

After the second marriage, she remarried with her 9-year-old son Huang Mou and gave birth to Wang Mousheng and Wang Mouxiang.

Decades have passed, and the children have started a family and established a business, but Grandma Chen has Alzheimer's disease and is often lost. Several children began to blame each other on the issue of support:

Huang clearly stated that he would not support the elderly, and Wang Mousheng, who had been responsible for taking care of Grandma Chen for a long time, was dissatisfied and abandoned his mother in the town government.

After mediation, the two brothers agreed to take turns to support Grandma Chen for 7 days a month.

But when it was Huang Mou's turn to support him, he refused to take his mother back, and Wang Mousheng abandoned his mother again at the town government.

A month later, Huang simply asked his wife to send his mother to the home of his nursing sister Wang Mouxiang.

The next day, Wang Mouxiang took her mother to the door of the police station and left without waiting for a response.

It was this time that Granny Chen lost her way from the gate of the police station until three days later, the old man's body was found in a bamboo forest.

After identification, the old man died of various diseases caused by hunger and cold.

In the end, Huang was sentenced to 7 months in prison for the crime of abandonment. Huang refused to appeal, and the court of second instance upheld the original sentence.

Until the end, Huang did not show any guilt for his mother's death.

After working hard all his life, his 6 children have no one to rely on.

How cold would it be for Grandma Chen, who was regarded as a burden, and how helpless and hopeless would it be when she was pushed to death by hunger and cold.

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"Everyone is afraid of death, but for aging parents, what is more terrible than the god of death is the disgust of their children."

Have you noticed that your parents are starting to be afraid to trouble us?

The host Zhang Quanling was once curious as to why many elderly people have a special "old man smell". For this reason, she specially consulted a doctor and got no answer.

Until an old grandmother told her:

"I try not to take a bath. I'm at home alone. Taking a bath is the most dangerous thing when people are old. If I fall, how much burden will I have to put on my children in the rest of my life."

Previously, news of an elderly man who tried to commit suicide by cutting his wrists at a cemetery was trending.

The old man is 79 years old and has been living in Beijing with his son.

Later, unfortunately, he suffered from lymphoma and returned to his hometown after being hospitalized twice.

He didn't want to be tortured by illness, let alone drag his children down, so he read Feng Shui, asked someone to dig a hole and put it on the altar, changed into new clothes, and planned to commit suicide with a knife.

When he was rescued, his feet were covered in blood.

someone said:

"The useless old man thinks that he is no better than broken metal, and his body is like being evacuated, and he has lost self-confidence and self-esteem."

For parents, what is more terrifying than getting old is that they are no longer valuable to their children and become a burden to their children.

When singer Li Jian first entered the society, his father suffered from bowel cancer.

He and his sister pieced together everything to raise the surgery fee.

At that time, his father was already inconvenient to move and could only be taken care of by Li Jian.

Once, when carrying my father to the toilet, my father whispered, "Forgive Dad."

This sentence has made Li Jian unable to let go:

"He's too polite to be polite to his son who has been carrying him since childhood, and I only carried him a few times."

In "Where Has Time Gone"?

"Having a child and adopting a daughter is a lifetime full of children crying and laughing."

Even at the last moment of their lives, what they worry most about is whether they will drag their children down.

Parental love is like that.

Say "parents", and worry about it all your life.

They don't want to cause trouble to their children, but they are exhausting their last ounce of strength to work for their children.

Grandma Hu Zhaocui, in her 80s, was supposed to be happy, but she pushed a cart and sold fried food for more than ten years.

From the first day of the new year of this year to the first day of the next year, no matter it is windy or rainy, there will be no rest for a day.

She didn't have to work so hard.

Years ago, the youngest son, who was laid off, wanted to start a business and sold his grandmother's house. She also asked her to borrow more than 900,000 yuan in foreign debts.

Just when the whole family thought that life was about to get better, the young son who was in business went bankrupt and lost contact for a while.

Every day, different people come to the house to collect debts. Grandma washed her face in tears and even thought about suicide by the Huangpu River:

"I'm relieved, but what should I do with the money I owe? Whose money is not earned by hard work!"

Without my own house, I live in a guard room with a size of 9 square meters. I set up a small table at the door for cooking, and I go to the public toilet 400 meters away when I go to the toilet.

Every afternoon, the stall is 5 yuan for two oil dumplings and 5 yuan for a piece of stinky tofu.

Some people know that grandma is not easy, they bought you dunk, and they want to give grandma another thousand dollars, but grandma refuses.

"Grandma hasn't been paralyzed yet. One day Grandma is paralyzed and can't do anything anymore. Let's talk about it later!"

The only people who can make grandma cry are her own children.

The younger son lost contact, the eldest son did not come to see her, and the daughter did not call her for 7 years.

"I don't know why they are so cruel."

"Pay back one less, and when the money is over, I will not do it."

Grandma once said that by February this year, the debt will be repaid, and her task will be completed.

Now the debt of more than 900,000 yuan has really been cleared, but on February 8, the grandmother who paid the debt for her son also left forever because of illness.

She was disliked by her children for many years, but silently supported her children for more than ten years.

All these, but a sentence "because I am a mother".

I saw a short film called "What's That".

On the bench, the elderly father pointed to the sparrow not far away and asked the son beside him, "What is that."

The son replied, "That's a sparrow."

As if he didn't hear him, the father repeatedly asked "what is that" several times, and the son's tone became more and more impatient.

Eventually, the son broke out:

"Why are you like this! I've told you so many times! That's a sparrow! Didn't you hear it?"

The father was silent, stood up silently, went back to the house and took out a diary, and turned to a certain page for his son to read:

"Today, I was sitting in the park with my youngest son, who just turned three years old, and saw a sparrow parked in front of me.

"My son asked me 'what is that' 21 times and I answered 'that's a sparrow' 21 times.

"I kept holding him and he asked me the same questions over and over, but I wasn't mad at this innocent little boy with a curious expression on his face."

The son was silent.

In fact, parents don't really want much.

They don't expect you to be rich, and they don't need you to be successful.

All they want is a companion and a little patience.

As they did to us when we were children.

When leaves wither and sprouts grow, people grow white hair, but there is no time for black.

Parents, can't escape the day of old age.

When we were young, our parents sheltered us from the wind and rain, and now, we should also be their most solid support.

In their confused years, remember to take them for a ride; when they are old like a child, don't be late for your love.