5 Things That Women Want in Bed, but Do Not Dare to Ask

In general, ladies are not afraid to formulate certain things they would like in bed, asking their partner directly. It's just that things change when what they want goes beyond the "normal" and becomes a little perverse or risky.

In addition, with age, there are more questions and a greater degree of self-control and this is how the first doubts about what they want in the bedroom appear: is it good to formulate such a wish to your partner ?!

1. To receive oral sex

In general, modern culture has a rather strange relationship with the vagina, and ladies have come to be exposed to all sorts of strange messages about their vagina and that men do not feel like touching it with their mouths, for various reasons, such as being: it's too much hair, it smells weird, it tastes bad, it doesn't look great, etc.

So she may want to have oral sex and be afraid of these ideas. Meet her desire by telling her, "I love how your vagina looks! I love how you smell there! I love your taste! " So, caress her in that area, use your lips and tongue to satisfy her, until you see that she melts with pleasure. And if it doesn't melt, it means he doesn't like oral sex.

2. Put in exhibitionism

Let's be clear: this does not mean that he wants sexual intercourse, in the true sense of the word, in public! It would be very complicated… But any woman loves to touch and kiss her in a dark corner of the bar, in the back seat of the car, or even when you drive her home, right in front of the block!

So, take advantage, if you hear a song you like, ask her if she likes it too and consider it sexy - from here you can dare to start feeling it.

3. To be dominated

Even superpowered and leading women love to be dominated in bed! Many men, however, fear the act of domination, in itself, the fear of being accused of rape.

But in a stable relationship, with a lot of trusts and a lot of communication, you will make her scream with pleasure. You make sure she feels comfortable both emotionally and physically.

Or other insults that could confuse her. I'd better ask her simply: Would you like to be blindfolded? How would you feel? Would you like me to hold your hands while I take care of your breasts with my mouth?

Then establish a clear language that will tell you when to stop, especially since it is possible to confuse the jars and hear them say to you, moaning with pleasure: "Oh, no…" And these words should mean nothing but the fact that she fainted with pleasure. So, discuss these issues beforehand.

4. To dominate

Even if she doesn't look like that, every woman, from time to time, wants to see her submissive partner - even if she is shy and introverted! But from her point of view, it can be difficult to formulate such a request or proposal, for fear that her partner will not think she looks masculine.

But if you feel that your partner would like such a role, it is worth seeing it unleashed. Then take the initiative: do you like to see it from above, controlling the situation? Tell him directly: how I would like you to climb on me, to see how you control your movements and how you dose their intensity! Or ask her to blindfold you while you have oral sex.

5. Slap the bottom

Burning his palms at the bottom (easy enough to make a noise, but without leaving any traces or causing him pain!) Is something that you will both taste to the fullest. Many women become overexcited when they receive a slap in the buttocks, because the buttocks area is near the vagina and anus and, therefore, increases the pleasure of the genital area.

Unfortunately, women are reluctant to make such a claim directly and clearly, for fear of sounding stupid. The key to this whole story is to take it in stride: First, squeeze her buttocks harder in her hands, touch her anal area repeatedly, tell her that she has a fabulous ass and that you like it madly, and then ask -o: "Can I slap you on the ass?"

If the answer is yes, do it easily, once. Then ask her if she liked it and if you get an affirmative answer again, repeat the movement, possibly with a slightly increased intensity.