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11 Simple Secrets Of Happy Couples That Ensure A Lasting Relationship

Discover the secrets to being a happy couple and having a lasting relationship.

By Silena Le BeauPublished 3 years ago 4 min read
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Do you know the definition of a happy couple? Most people seem to think that it means... he does what she wants, and she does what she feels.

It's imperative to know that happy couples never really have the same character. And that's perfectly fine because they have a good understanding of their differences.

It doesn’t take an entire mountain of effort, small introspective gestures are enough to make you two live happily ever after!

Partners in a long-term relationship support each others goals and appreciate one another.

A happy couple always demonstrates unity and also have the ability to work together as a team.

They also never miss the opportunity to always remember to tell each other how much they value the other person. Each partner thanks the other for what they do, and it isn't seen as weak. That type of mindset doesn't exist when you know how to succumb to vulnerability..

Happy couples know that they need to be kind to one another every day. And do so willingly.

Although it does take daily commitment to keep that relationship flame burning, lasting love may seem like it's hard to come by, but there might be just a few simple things that help couples stay together. Check out the list below.

11 Tips To Be A Lasting Happy Couple

1-Give them your full attention: When your partner is telling you about their day, try not to be distracted by things like a phone, tablet, or the TV. By giving him your full and undivided attention, this allows him to see how important he is to you.

2-Touching regularly: Make loving touches a priority. Regularly touching each other in a gentle, loving way is very important. Hug your partner for no reason, hold his hand or rub his back. Touch doesn't always have to be a sexual act. Doing this just helps strengthen the bond and connection between you and your partner.

3-Regularly express gratitude: Start off the day in the best possible way by saying, "I love you" or "Have a great day." It'll put you both in a great mood for the day ahead. Be sure to make them feel appreciated and remember to say thank you. Telling your partner that you are still happy and grateful to have them in your life boosts their love for you and grows your connection.

4-Truly love being together: Happy couples are the ones who tend to enjoy each other’s company no matter what they are doing. You can spot them at any event or function. They are so giddy together and give each other googly eyes all night from across the room.

5-Flirt And compliment: This is big for happy couples. No matter how long you've been together, your partner will love being reminded of why you find them so attractive. The thing to know is that happy partners don't stop courting each other just because they've committed and settled. down. It's both partners duty to notice new hairstyles by complimenting how they look or giving a flirty smile. Your partner will never feel neglected.



6-Happy couples listen to one another: This because the happiest couples not only love each other, they like each other. So respect always works both ways. It's not a struggle to pay attention to someone whom you adore, its easy and doable.

7-They laugh together: A great sign of health in a relationship is laughter. You don't have to be a comedian or a great joke teller. Just be yourself naturally and have a few quick one liners and your partner will laugh even because you're making an attempt. The reason people love this is because if he doesn't mind making a fool of himself just to make his partner smile it makes her fall a little more.

8-Cuddle Randomly: Happy couples tend to be comfortable with one another. Cuddling doesn’t always mean having sex. You can simply lay down with your partner under a blanket and cuddle or spoon. Do you know that there has been research that affirms the body odor of your partner has certain chemical keys that initiate comfort or a sense of security in you. Hence, cuddling is a special response to a healthy, lasting relationship.

9-Work on something together: Get creative and do something that you've always wanted to do but do it as a team. Even if no one ever sees it but you two. This always keeps it fresh while adding an element of closeness and bonding.

10-Have fun together: Play pranks on each another. Life is hard and keeping a relationship robust and healthy takes work, but don't take it all too seriously. The most happy couples are those that can shrug their shoulders and laugh at what life throws their way.

11-Forgive: Little resentments have a way of growing up to be big, unwieldy resentments, so try to just let them go. Smart couples pick their battles and more often than not, they will write off small transgressions if they threaten the bigger picture.

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About the Creator

Silena Le Beau

She expresses her gift of writing through each piece. She studied writing in college and has been inspiring people for 20 years. She gives back to the community & enriches them with enlightenment. Philanthropist, Empath and Nature lover.

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