Because she most certainly won't give you a third opportunity, you ought to get in love with the woman who will give you a second chance. You shouldn't question whether or not that she is going to move out of you without a second thought if you make a mistake and manage to harm her again.
She will be bored of being forced to put up with you, so she won't feel bad about leaving and abandoning you. You found yourself in a situation where the majority of people in the entire globe would have simply ignored you. She didn't, though. She made the choice to give you a chance. And you must take care to avoid messing that up.
Be humble for a while and swallow your pride. Even though you are aware that you don't deserve it, she still gives it to you. And you ought to be wise enough to understand that you shouldn't let a chance like that pass you by.
If you screw up with her again, it's truly not her fault. You must therefore consciously strive to work with her to the best of your ability. You need to be careful not to let her down in the future.
You must take care to avoid making mistakes. You must watch out not to take her for casually. She is a really valuable woman. Additionally, you must always strive to earn her respect and consideration.
She is the greatest thing that will ever happen to you, and you have to accept that.
You are the idiot in this situation if you let go of the most important person in your life.
You must keep in mind that just because she is capable of forgiving you for all of your transgressions does not imply that she will tolerate your bad behaviour. Rather, she has the strength enough to find it among herself to do so.
That does not mean she is absolving you of responsibility. That doesn't mean she'll accept you continuing to make the same errors, so don't interpret it that way. She won't get rid of the past. She won't forgive you for what you did. Not all forgiveness entails forgetting.
She's not a lady who doesn't recognise her worth just because she forgave you, despite the fact that she did. She doesn't necessarily have a low sense of self-worth or self-confidence just because she accepted you.
She is aware that your treatment of her was unjustified. She is aware that she is worthy of far more than you were. She is aware that you were really lucky to have met her in the first place. She is aware that she was the superior individual. She has a huge heart, though.
She is also aware that mistakes are occasionally made by humans. She is aware that we are all flawed. She is also aware that everyone has the capacity to grow from their mistakes.
She chooses to have faith in your ability to improve because she is aware of this. She is putting her faith in you to grow from your mistakes and become a better person. And you need to watch out that you don't violate her confidence. You must watch out not to let yourself down.
You need to realise that she isn't just giving you another chance because she really wants you. Just because she lacks confidence doesn't mean she will give you another chance.
She has no low opinion of herself. She does not have low standards for girls. She doesn't believe she doesn't deserve more, unlike some girls. She simply holds onto the belief that you will eventually evolve and treat her better. She still believes that the two of you can still create something wonderful in your relationship.
Therefore, feel free to love her. Give her everything you've got if you want to. Don't be timid around her. Always put forth your best effort for her since you are certain that she appreciates it.
Always make an effort to convince her that you are DESERVING of a second opportunity. Make her feel as though spending time with you is no longer a waste of time.
Persuade her that by deciding to stay with you, she didn't make a mistake. Persuade her that you are a person who genuinely hopes to change. She is due it. You should give that to her. Avoid being an idiot. Avoid being a fool. Keep a woman like that around. Because as long you're going to live, you will never meet another lady quite like her.
About the Creator
A Lost Girl is: A woman in her 20s, 30s (and beyond) who's more than a bit unsure about what she's doing with her life, the direction that she's headed and how to make changes for the better.