How to Tell When a Hot Sugar Daddy Really Wants You to Notice Him

Although many sugar daddies aren’t afraid to let it all hang out when they really like a particular sugar baby, there are quite a few who prefer to play things a little closer to the vest. You could even say that some are a little hard to read.

But every sugar daddy gives little tells when he’s really super into someone, so you just need to know what you’re looking for. Here’s a crash course on how to read even the most stoic sugar daddy like a book.

His body language gives him away.

Even when people think they’re playing things super cool, their body language will often also give away their true feelings – especially if they’re into someone nearby to the point of distraction. What does your sugar daddy’s body language tell you about him?

A man who’s interested in a woman will subtly orient his body so that it’s facing her or otherwise focused in her general direction. His legs will be crossed toward you, or his feet will point in your direction. He may also angle his body so that it’s facing you.

He’s uncannily good at remembering what you say

Most sugar daddies are used to socializing in all sorts of situations, so they’re often also great listeners. And, of course, part of being a good listener is taking care to remember as many of the little things people say as possible.

But a sugar daddy who’s really interested in you and hopes you’ll look his way with a little more seriousness will go out of his way to show how well he listens to and cares about what you say. For instance, he’ll go out of his way to ask you about life details you told him about, even in passing – sometimes repeatedly.

You lock eyes a lot

Every sugar baby knows what it’s like to start spending time with a particular sugar daddy and experience those magical moments where you look up suddenly only to find yourself locking eyes with him. Sure, those moments can and do happen by accident, but pay attention to how often they happen.

Is this truly a rare occurrence, or do you find yourself playing what feels like a constant game of eye tag? It’s likely because your sugar daddy can’t stop looking at you, and you can’t help but keep catching him. This is especially likely if he often looks away or seems bashful about the fact that you caught him looking yet again.

He goes out of his way to maintain contact

Chances are the sugar daddy you’re thinking of is a seriously busy guy, meaning he doesn’t have a lot of free time to kill scrolling through Facebook or messaging his contacts on Instagram. So if you hear a lot from him anyway, it likely means something.

This is especially the case if you know he’s a bit of a technophobe and doesn’t particularly care for texting but also happens to know you love it. He’s almost certainly going well out of his way to make sure he stays on your mind and perhaps come to think of him fondly.

He tries to make you feel included

It’s one thing to be interested in a person you could potentially be dating in the future. It’s another to perhaps start seeing yourself fitting into their life on a larger scale. A sugar daddy who wants you to notice him and consider him as a potential partner will go out of his way to make you feel at home in his world.

He’ll look for cool or casual ways to invite you into his social circle or to otherwise show you what it might be like to date him. He’ll especially want to make sure you get a taste of the perks that come with dating him, the better to show you how spoiled and cared for you’d feel as his sugar baby.

He keeps up with you on social media

Again, as with texting and instant messaging, most sugar daddies are older and don’t usually see social media as the essential staple young people do. So if a particular sugar daddy isn’t terribly active on social himself but goes out of his way to scope out your profiles, it’s a pretty safe bet that he’s hoping to see more of you at some point.

This is especially the case if he’s among the first to like or respond to your posts and stories. If you know his interest in social media is fair to middling at best, then you can rest pretty easy in the knowledge that he’s there to keep up with you.

That’s what sugar daddies do when they’re really into a sugar baby and trying to determine whether to take things further or not. They insert themselves into their orbits, hoping they’ll catch your eye. Is it working?