How to Give Her an Awesome Nipple Orgasm.

Nipples are erogenous zones, which are highly underrated.

How to Give Her an Awesome Nipple Orgasm.
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Marge Piercy has rightly said.

‘It is not sex that gives the pleasure, but the lover.’

A skilled lover knows that pleasure spots in a woman exist far beyond the vagina and the G-spot. And he uses all the 2000 arousal spots existing within a woman to give her the ultimate pleasure.

That said, of all the erogenous zones on a woman, the nipples are arguably the most neglected. Very few men realize that nipple orgasms are possible.

Why? To start with, the nipples have 800 nerve endings. Ancient Chinese texts advise men to suck on the women’s breasts because doing so causes her body and mind to relax into pleasure. In fact, nipples are the closest erogenous zone to a woman’s heart and touching or caressing her nipples, sends waves of energy to her heart and pleasure zones.

And Science has proved that stimulation of the nipple activates an area of the brain known as the genital sensory cortex. This is the same brain area activated by stimulation of the clitoris, and vagina. What this means is that a woman’s brain seems to process nipple and genital stimulation in the same way.

That said, nipple orgasms are different. According to women who have experienced it, such orgasms start gently in ever-increasing waves of pleasure and then explode out of nowhere. The slow sensation builds a powerful climax, which stays long after the orgasm is done and dusted.

Thus, when a man learns how to stimulate a woman’s breasts, he opens a limitless pleasure of possibilities. Yes, you can make her moan in pleasure just by using your mouth and hands if you do it the right way.

And here is how to give her intense nipple orgasms.

Tease her .

Do not start with the nipples right away. Start by kissing her slowly and passionately.

Look her into the eyes and whisper sweet nothings, dirty talk in her ear. Gently caress her arms, back and buttocks to release the sexual energy trapped within her.

Nibble her earlobes and play with her hair. Stroke around her the belly, rib cage, and in between the breasts to get her in the mood. Alternate between a featherlike touch with your fingertips and a medium-light touch to caress her stomach, between her breasts, and the nape of her neck.

Remember not to hurry things up. Let her say she is ready to go ahead.

Massage Her Breasts

Once you see her react, use a feather touch to start circling her breasts.

Gently ease into massaging and squeezing her breasts without touching her nipples. This will not only increase the anticipation but also stimulate the flow of oxytocin, a hormone that makes her feel happy.

The key to stimulate the nipple and make it harden is a little known technique called edging, which is playing and massaging until the edge of the nipple until she reacts and begs for more.

Go slowly. Savor every touch and sensation. Take the time to get her truly ready for the next phase.

Gently Nibble on her Nipples .

Is she hard? Now is the time to start nibbling using your teeth.

Slowly breathe warm air around her nipples to stimulate the nerve endings. Trace little circles around her areola and take the nipples deep within your mouth to stimulate extra blood flow and increase the sensitivity. Do not neglect any nipple. Some women have one nipple that is more sensitive than the other, so while you suck on one, you can caress the other one and then ask her which one feels best.

You can also use something soft (a feather or fur pillow) in between to caress her nipples to give her the added sensation. Ice put into the mouth while nibbling or licking also works well to take her to the orgasmic heaven.

Remember while you are doing this, do not bite her nipples or use your teeth at all, as that can be quite painful for her. If you want to nibble on her nipples, ask her first and then go ahead.

Increase the intensity to bring her to orgasm .

She is already heated up by now. You just need to give that final push.

Ramp up her pleasure by pinching her nipples. A pinch will send a wave of sensation through her body but you need to be careful to ask her what pressure works best for her. Giving her nipples a slight twist or pull also brings her to the edge. Bring her to the edge; pull back, repeat. Go on doing this until she erupts with waves of orgasmic pleasure flowing through her.

Sometimes gently slapping her nipples also give the desired effect but again it may vary from woman to woman. You can also try using vibrators or clamps around the nipples to give her an instant nipple erection.

Experiment with speed and different techniques, find out what makes her feel good, and do it slowly. Play around. Remember, getting to know her body is the key to better orgasms.

Finally, it is all in the mind.

Any orgasm starts with the mind and ends in the vagina. Therefore, if she is not enjoying it, it will not work.

Make her feel comfortable. Give her the comfort to savor every moment of pleasure. Listen to the sexy sounds coming out of you and your partner. Concentrate on your own breathing and try to simulate the moaning of a genital orgasm.

Be patient. Do not hurry up things or assume that your standard procedure will work like magic on every woman. No. Every woman is different and unique and responses will vary.

Remember when she feels the waves of the orgasm reaching her; you can also feel it deep within yourself. Ride it. Intensify it. Make it go all the way until you crash.

As Chloe Thurlow has rightly said.

“An orgasm is like the big bang, the explosion that creates life and makes life worth living.”

Ravi Shankar Rajan is a information technology program director working in Mumbai, India. He writes on a variety of subjects ranging from programming,leadership, creativity and even dabbles a bit in poetry. He is also an Haiku poetry writer, archaeology enthusiast, and history maniac. Connect with Ravi on LinkedIn,Vocal and Twitter.Subscribe to his blog “The Perfect Programmer” for latest articles on programming,creativity and much more…...

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