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Does Penis Size Matter?

Average May Be Better

By Timothy A RowlandPublished 4 years ago 3 min read
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Every guy wants this question answered and most women are a little sketchy when answering. Tell us once and for all; does size matter women? As far as I understand it, the simple answer to that question would be "yes" but it would help to hear from all of you women who read this. I know you may be tired of even hearing the question by now, but please... have pity on us poor men and give us an honest answer that is straight forward. :-)

Analyzing the Question

Now, we have to realize that part of the reason guys can't get a straight answer to this is because every woman is different. It is kind of like asking men if the size of a woman's breasts matters or not. Despite, in many ways, being a subjective question, we can safely say that it does in fact matter; but not always the way we men assume. There is a such thing as too big after all, I'm sure. Many of the female friends I've ask (don't ask girlfriends because they will tell us what they think we want to hear) said that as long as it is at least 5" and not so big that it hurts; they are good with it. This- again- is one major reason the question is subjective; what hurts one woman, may feel perfect to another. Then, of course, you have to consider the women that are perhaps into a little bit of pain and would consider a “comfortable level” of pain to be a positive when judging the size of man’s penis.

Of course, you have the fall back old saying of "it's not the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean" or maybe "it's not the size that matters; it's how you use it." Well, that's all fine and well... but it's still too rehearsed and if you really think about it... it's also kind of an incomplete answer. We men are smart enough to know that usually when a woman says that; it just means she doesn't really want to answer the question, but also doesn't want to talk about it anymore either.

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The Better Question?

Perhaps it is better to ask the question, “does the size matter to that specific woman?” Being that the original question is a subjective one, it stands to reason that when looking at this question, you are really asking if the size of a man’s penis is good enough for his partner. If you are single and not only sleeping with one woman; you are still really asking this question in the moment as it pertains to the person you are currently with. This is an obvious fact when you stop to think about it. Of course; the problem with this simple and obvious fact is that, it also means that there may not be a true solid answer. Every partner is different both physically- vaginal depth and so forth- as well as mentally and emotionally. This means that there can’t be one true answer when asking a question that spans across an entire gender or species of beings; such as humans. The answer for one, may be false for the next. Of course, it is always possible that many women can’t give men a straight answer; simply because for one reason or another, they may not fully be certain of the answer themselves.

So, please... women; if you can; give us your blunt and honest answer to this question. Won't take long to answer it; unless you want to take a while and leave a long and detailed response... it's all good.

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Worth a Quick Mention

It is well worth mentioning that if you are wanting to better satisfy your partner in bed, or are downright concerned about your current abilities; maybe worry less about the size of your penis, and try to last longer. You will surely be able to satisfy her better by lasting longer in bed, than you will by increasing the size of your penis. Aside from that, making your penis longer in a safe manner is extremely unlikely. Learning to last longer in bed; it totally achievable. Change what you can and forgive what you cannot. Chances are; your partner is at least “good” with your size; she just wishes you would stay in the game long enough for her to reach the finish line more. Just a thought.

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Timothy A Rowland

I’m an every day human Xennial from the United States. I have many interest. I just want to improve your life and maybe entertain you. Available for editing and LeadsLeap projects at: https://www.fiverr.com/greyhatcompany

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