A Man's Commitment

A man, every day in the store across the street from me killing chickens, to pass the boring time. Over time, my heart began to anger. A man does not do business, do not work, do not earn money, behind three children, plus his wife, the day into a bitter. He wore clothes on how many years has been very old, very old, and no money to buy a dress to wear wear, this old clothes as in the construction site to wear general, shabby and dirty, adults and children walk out one yellow skinny.

The day so poor, but not to go to work, not to find ways to earn money, but to buy a little food to eat, hard to pestle in others to play until noon home, or play until late home. This is to do a day monk hit a day bell, put the children's wives aside, the home far behind. In fact, such a man is irresponsible, no conscience, lazy, selfish to only themselves.

Seeing him, I thought of my friend's husband, at that time is also like this, resting at home, not earning money, not looking for things to do, friends talk to him to earn money, talk about the days of poverty, his mouth than friends fierce, but also always vicious to friends yell: "I have no money, you go find a rich, you have the ability you go earn money ah." At that time the friend's life was very hard, sometimes said, said, tears poured down, alas ------

"You go find a rich man, you have the ability, you go earn money ah." A man can say such words, it can be said that they do not deserve to have a family and wife and children. Poor, no ability, the wife knows, recognizing that you are so little little ability. But there is no recognition that you muddle through, and nothing cares, what do you want? The family needs money for all aspects of life, such as: utilities, rent, clothing and food, sick to the hospital, children go to school, which do not want money. Well, you have two hands, nothing cares, make the whole body and wife quarrel, quarrel to a set of set, always step on the wife under the foot.

What's more, you know that the family is very poor, but not bend over backwards, pragmatic labor, but the only money saved in the family to take out to the tea room a run, gambling money to go, days poor to the rent can not pay, utility bills dragged and dragged.

What is a man's responsibility? Not their own scantily clad, not their own food and fun, not their own in front of friends throwing a lot of money in front of the false face. But, there is a stable job, to ensure that the family live lightly, so that their wives and children do not worry about life, in front of people can also stand up straight. The wife and children did not say that you want to live a rich and luxurious life, but the minimum life security to have it.

I can't say that the home and children dumped to the wife, regardless of their own outside to eat and play well, and come home to yell, your face is not red, think about what they do for the family, for the wife and children to pay what?

This is the bottom of the poor family of a class of men. Now let's talk about those men who squeeze themselves from poverty to good days. Some people metaphor, husband and wife with a bird in the woods, the great disaster came to fly separately, which is very thin. There are couples with suffering, but not together sweet.

Two people in love into marriage, that is, a small family began, but also the beginning of life. How hard is the start of life, on a poor word, let you in the dark for more than ten years, twenty years. The poorest time in life is from the time a child is born to the time he or she enters college, every family is very difficult, both to live, but also to raise children, this burden is very heavy, the average person can only pick this burden well, pick stable.

People have a heart to improve, but also run in the direction of good development. Many people, how many entrepreneurial men, at the beginning, and even in how many years of struggle, the wife has been with you through thick and thin, lending you money to start a business, saving money to save money for you to go out into the world. At the time of your business, men poor even themselves can not feed, this a home are women, are your wife alone to carry up. This poor days slowly boil to the head, not yet a break, not yet turned around, the man that complacent, stupid heart began to restless. They put themselves in a very high position, ah, the house is I bought, the money is I suffer to come. You have what ability, I am more capable ah, alas, when the eyes blind, looking for you this useless person, ugly dead, to my face are lost, with you will be straight is my shame. Slowly, the heart began to alienate his wife, there is nothing to like to sneak around outside, is late to go home, home is also ironic face, not a word, talk is also as loaded bullets, always go off.

Money earned, but did not think so, how many years, my wife and children and I live in poverty, they are too hard, I now have the manpower, the change in my family life, so that the children's wives live a better day. Living conditions improve a little. Now that I have the ability, I should also honor my parents who gave birth to me.

If you think so how good ah, but unfortunately there are a lot of people, self-righteousness, villainy will be rampant. Begin to junior, junior, began to skim back away from people, they earned money, they flew away, poor family do not want, bad wife, yellow face no longer want, they are outside the wind and snow alone free.

God damn it, where is the heart. Forget everything that you had, forget how you came through so many hard days step by step, forget who you are?

You dazzle, only you embrace the new man laughing, but the frost, wind and snow like a mountain on the old man, you embrace the new man laughing, happy, their wives and children into the long rainy season, into the hell on earth. Where is the heart of man?

Don't say that when you leave home, you are cut off from the past and there is no trace of it at all, really? How can you forget what you have walked, what you have done. You abandoned your wife and children, this is your life is a shame, will be deeply imprinted in your heart. No matter how you say it, it's your fault.

A person, no matter what position you are in, how much ability, do not forget who you are, looking for a mistress, a mistress, divorce and then marry is not the ability, but in telling the world that you have a problem with character, a bad conscience, do not be generous, what else is there to say ------

What is a man's role? When you hold her hand, into the hall of marriage, you should know that with her - your wife with life and death together, life and death will never leave.

Women and you married for life, is entrusted with a lifetime of ah, no one said, living, living, old, yellow face, you do not want, do not, she will live alone, her life and death and you have no relationship. You find a bunch of reasons to say she's bad for divorce. Is it really bad? Is there really so many flaws?

Between two people, what do you mean by right? What do you mean by wrong? If you love, wrong is also right, big things and small things, laugh it off, do not love, how she did is also wrong. Abominable people want to divorce people, the general will get a big shit on people's heads, alas ------- this is also the ugliness of human nature, right.

A man's role, the family to live well, so that the wife, children, parents, in your little life, can live peacefully, can have so little happiness, not much to ask. This is your responsibility, no matter what time, do not forget who you are, a man with a family, in the jungle, more dangerous, should know: there is so-called, something not to do.

The jianghu is much more dangerous, don't do things that chill people's hearts, don't hurt the people behind you. Your today is not all yours, there is no support behind you, there is no your today, people can not repay the kindness, but can not forget their roots, let alone hurt others.