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Is the child spoiled by the fact that he only plays with his mother?

A lot of parents take it for granted

By testPublished 4 months ago 5 min read
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At very young ages, motor development is like a switch, starting from scratch and slowly working its way down,

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Lie prone

The baby that the CHILD is not a month old can begin to lie down, we do not think lie down is a kind of exercise, lie down very hard, actually lie down is another

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Lie prone

Take the left front toy with your right hand. After sitting alone, practice holding the toy behind your back, such as holding it with your right hand.

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Lie prone

Some children are more prone to carsickness, will walk after the unstable or uncoordinated, do not like the weightlessness of the swing,

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Lie prone

One of the easiest ways to core train is to crawl a lot.

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Lie prone

It's a very common myth that the earlier you walk, the better you'll develop, or even the smarter you'll be,

About 0-3 years old parenting key, there will be special articles to share with you one by one.

A lot of parents take it for granted

In addition to make

01

Look up

At very young ages, motor development is like a switch, starting from scratch and slowly working its way down,

02

Lie prone

The baby that the CHILD is not a month old can begin to lie down, we do not think lie down is a kind of exercise, lie down very hard, actually lie down is another

03

Lie prone

Take the left front toy with your right hand. After sitting alone, practice holding the toy behind your back, such as holding it with your right hand.

04

Lie prone

Some children are more prone to carsickness, will walk after the unstable or uncoordinated, do not like the weightlessness of the swing,

05

Lie prone

One of the easiest ways to core train is to crawl a lot.

06

Lie prone

It's a very common myth that the earlier you walk, the better you'll develop, or even the smarter you'll be,

About 0-3 years old parenting key, there will be special articles to share with you one by one.

A lot of mothers have to me "pour bitter water", usually the elder with the baby, the child is very good all day long, but the mother came back after all kinds of noisy.

During the day, grandma took the bathroom, and the baby said, she will obediently play;

When my mother came home, she would go to the bathroom, and she would come in with her, and sometimes sit on her lap. She couldn't leave for a moment.

 

Just a little say, "you play with grandma and dad first, Mom will be back soon," the child began to tear up, then become crying and Shouting.

Even some teammates or elders "qualitative" : "when the mother is not in the baby can be good, this is your habit out".

Sometimes we ask ourselves: Am I too busy to give my children enough security?

Why is that?

First of all, almost every young child cries when their mother leaves and when they come back!

This is because children are reluctant to give up on us, and such emotions are real and should be allowed.

Second, there is no direct correlation between crying and security, which just means that your child feels more secure with you.

Because they are too young to express their thoughts properly, they will do so with what we adults consider "misbehaving" actions.

If at this time, the mother also because of the pressure of external evaluation, blindly hope to solve the problem first: the child does not stick to me, no longer crying, the child's emotions are not seen, but not the mother's feedback, may further use a variety of "do" to strengthen their emotional expression:

"I want to test my mother whether she loves me or not, whether she misses me..."

You can do that

 

1. Give back to children's emotions and "support" for children

 

When your baby comes home crying and clingy to you, say: "Baby, mom misses you so much, do you miss mom, let mom hug you";

 

Say aloud, verbally and physically, "Yes! I miss you too, I miss you so much!"

In fact, children are easier than we think to meet, ask the baby: "you miss your mother, right, because a day did not see your mother, so want to spend every moment with your mother. So does Mom."

 

Deal with the emotions first. Once the emotions are resolved, the so-called "bad behavior" will take care of itself.

2, calm in the face of others' judgment, do not mess up their own position

I ALSO ONCE VERY HEART BLOCK, OBVIOUSLY SPEND THOUGHT EDUCATION MOST, THE CHILD IS MORE OFTEN ANGRY WITH ME (THE HUSBAND ALSO RIDICULE ME: YOU SEE YOU LEARN SO MUCH "LOVE AND RULES" USELESS!

"Naughtiness" is the process that children go through before they become independent. They learn where the line is by challenging authority, and they learn what they can and cannot do by undermining.

Only when a child feels loved and accepted and trusted will he be willing to show his true self.

If a child does not feel enough love and attention from the other parent for a long time, he is likely to win the love by becoming better and better.

So don't take it as a sign that you don't like you, or that you're starting to doubt your parenting style. It just means that your child feels more secure with you.

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