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Underrated Love songs

by Melissa Ingoldsby 24 days ago in song reviews

Songs that make you feel nostalgic and warm inside

Underrated Love songs
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In these crazy and uncertain times, where face masks are the requirement (or at least highly recommended) to go out and isolation isn’t all self imposed now, in the horrors of the Covid-19 Pandemic squelching our semblance of peace and security by even just stopping by the grocery store—- my recommendation is something that may seem trivial but it can be cathartic: love songs.

But these aren’t the kind of love songs you hear over and over on the radio, these are ones that you may never have heard of and underrated. Ones that I love!

One of the BIG reasons I love using Vocal is their use of music. You can incorporate playlists, snippets of tracks and whole songs just specifically for one scene or one whole article—-and it can carry whatever tone you want to imply in the whole body of your work. They also have many challenges with music involved, like The Zen Playlist Challenge, and it can really open up your creativity to express your unconscious and open feelings and emotions in conjunction with your favorite beats and specific songs. Songs can open up your memories and your experiences, too—-helping you understand your feelings and the way you incorporate that into your writing. So, a big kudos to Vocal and the staff for understanding this important expression. Music is an essential part of writing to writers, and I am one of them.

Fun fact(or obssessive compulsive fact) about my writing: whenever I write romance stories, I generally LOVE to think of a very specific playlist just for them. But, the main thing I have to get right, is making sure there aren’t any songs crossed over from other stories and couples! Weird, right?

But, I like to think about it for a while, then listen to them, thinking of scenarios I could write with that music and reasons why those songs would be so meaningful to them. Songs(and what bands they like) can also express a person’s inner soul, what matters to them, what kind of tone and beat makes their heart sing and gives insight into their personality and perspective.

One writer who feels that music can be wholly essential to the writing process is one of my favorite writers, Dean Koontz.

Here is bit of an article I reference at the bottom:

In December 2000, best-selling author Dean Koontz honored Israel in the front of his new book “From The Corner of His Eye”. Koontz’s quote pays tribute to the power of this music: “As I wrote this book, the singular and beautiful music of the late Israel Kamakawiwo‘ole was always playing. I hope that the reader finds pleasure in my story equal to the joy and consolation that I found in the voice, the spirit, and the heart of Israel Kamakawiwo‘ole.” Koontz followed this tribute by yet another kudo to IZ in another best-selling book “One Door Away From Heaven” released in December 2001 by saying: “For the second time (the first having been as I worked on “From the Corner of His Eye”), I have written a novel while listening to the singular and beautiful music of the late Israel Kamakawiwo‘ole. When I mentioned Bruddah Iz in that previous book a couple thousand of you wrote to share your enthusiasm for his life-affirming music. Of his six CDs, my personal favorites areFacing Future,In Dis Life, and E Ala E.”

The problem with romance stories and the songs that follow is that of course there’s a TON of overused songs for love and romance—-so I like to use weird, unappreciated songs! I’ll have the songs at the bottom of this article if you wanna give them a listen.

Here is a pretty comprehensive list of some of the most popular and best(subjective) love songs out there:

My first song has been my favorite ever since I was a child.

Created by Graham Nash, from Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young in 1970, the sweet crooning, folksy type of tune and longing sense you get from listening to this song is definitely warm and nostalgic.

A bit of origin from Graham Nash:

Well, it's an ordinary moment. What happened is that Joni [Mitchell] and I – I don't know whether you know anything about Los Angeles, but on Ventura Boulevard in the Valley, there's a very famous deli called Art's Deli. And we'd been to breakfast there. We're going to get into Joan's car, and we pass an antique store. And we're looking in the window, and she saw a very beautiful vase that she wanted to buy ... I persuaded her to buy this vase. It wasn't very expensive, and we took it home. It was a very grey, kind of sleety, drizzly L.A. morning. And we got to the house in Laurel Canyon, and I said – got through the front door and I said, you know what? I'll light a fire. Why don't you put some flowers in that vase that you just bought? Well, she was in the garden getting flowers. That meant she was not at her piano, but I was ... And an hour later 'Our House' was born, out of an incredibly ordinary moment that many, many people have experienced.

Another reason it may not be as popular is because the creator himself said of the song, he was "bored with 'Our House' the day after [he] recorded it", but will play it occasionally "because it does mean so much to so many people".

I personally love this song because of the memories it holds for me(long day trips of fishing at Meramac Springs, listening to this song on tape in my Dad’s truck)—-and no, I haven’t written a couple yet who I feel would like this song. But I will someday!

One song I love for its carefree ‘teenage first love’ feel and rich vocals is Come On, Come Out by Alison Sudol.

Here’s a snippet of the lyrics:

Come on, come out

The weather is warm

Come on, come out

Said come on, come on

A spot in the shade

Where oranges fall

A spot in the shade

Away from it all

Watching the sky

Watching a painting coming to life

Shifting and shaping

Staying inside

It all goes it all goes by

The feeling I get from this song is something real—a memory of loves I’ve had in youth, my first crushes, and the newness of something starting that you have no idea where it will lead.

It’s simplistic lyrics with the soft composition is a relaxing and peaceful way to open up your emotional creativity, and to think of things you’ve experienced to draw from that personal writer’s well.

My next song is from my all time favorite artist, Regina Spektor.

It is called Another Town, and the unexpected pattern of this song turns from switching and moving to different places, to this all encompassing feeling that no matter where you may end up at—-You know this feeling remains: I love you.

It’s a song that broadens the way you may see love songs. Personally, I see it as a measure of how much a person can truly mean to you—that circumstances and distance may not allow you to be with that important, special someone, but you know and they know that the feelings will always remain the same.

And the last one is by the lovely Lady Day. It’s, I Cover The Waterfront, and it’s my favorite song by her.

I have loved Billie for a long, long time. The moody, unsettling feeling you sometimes get listening to My Man don’t love me~

To the most influential song, Strange Fruit, it’s her versatile style and the emotional depth she brought to music that changed the way I saw music and the way I felt about myself as a writer.

But I Cover The Waterfront brings out a deeper meaning of nostalgia for me.

We don’t always have a water front to wait for that true love to come back—-but we understand the feeling of hoping and waiting for that moment to arise, that anticipation and anxiety—-and the restlessness and sadness you feel in waves—-waiting for something or someone that may never return.

Anyway, I hope that you all enjoyed this article, a bit of a running series on the discussion of Vocal’s platform for writers and how to openly show our style and creativity through music that I may continue. Please like and share my article if you enjoyed it!!

Happy writing and happy reading!


Also, here are all the songs I have discussed in my article and references. Hope you enjoy them as I do!

Another extra song I’ll put at the end is one of my favorites, that may be a tad more popular than these other suggestions! It’s a beautiful song and it gives me tons of warm feelings.

Reference for quotes:,_Stills,_Nash_&_Young_song)

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Melissa Ingoldsby
Melissa Ingoldsby
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Melissa Ingoldsby

I have a self published story called Strange Fruit on Amazon, and I love to write short stories and poetry with science fiction elements, drama and romance. I am here to enrich my expression as a writer.

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